| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
Browse |
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
About GPinNC
Update 7/29/17: If I have found nothing here it is that everyone (nearly) is just playing games..otherwise known as wannabe's, just getting their thrills playing a role and not looking for someone or a Dom.
Update 5/25/17 Still here, still thinking so many on here are wannabe's. After so long a period of time on this site, I factually begin to wonder and question if there are ANY subs or slaves on here that actually want a Dom.
Update 8/8/16: Do not send me messages with your email in them, I was born at night not last night. If messaging and talking on here isn't good enough then why are you on here to begin with.
Update 6/19/16: I am NOT interested in anyone that is a damn brat, tries to Top from the bottom. I have neither the time nor the inclination to "tame" you, taking the time to do so is like chasing you in the vanilla world to "like and want" Me, if you do not like or want me at the inception then why the hell would I try to "win" you, it is beneath Me! I have a life, I do not call or text or communicate with you or be at YOUR beckon call. You completely misunderstand what D/s or M/s is..you forget yourself in My world.
Update 5/1/16: I just found the site again after "collarme" shut down some time ago now under a new name by one of its owners. I was heavily involved in the lifestyle as I was once before in 1997. Both times in different venues I thought I had found a symbiotic family in organized BDSM. What I found is this...people, no matter who are still people with human shortcomings which include the fakers, the ones that say they are understanding of things such as polyamory, FWB's, talk crap about others behind their backs etc. So, I walked away from "organized" lifestyles. I still enjoy being a Dominant, Master, Sex, and all the other subcategories of D/s and BDSM..I just choose to do these things for Me and whomever I am involved with. I do NOT walk or march to the beat of OTHERS drummers...I march to My own. I do not chase, pursue or stalk subs, if you want to talk or get to know me...ASK ME then do so. Most sites are sooo filled with wannabe horny Doms or supposed Masters that lie, cheat, and steal. Need I say more? Oh, I am not them, I am ME..do not pin their issues on ME.
I seek a female submissive that wants a loving relationship with the possibility of marriage down the road. At least for me while I enjoy D/s and am quite kinky, I do prefer it to be with someone I love. I'm not new to being a Dominant but the dynamics involved are that Domination and submission for me comes out of a true love for the submissive and the same should be the case for her. The first and last submissive I had was my wife who I lost to cancer in late '08. My experience is with her and others since. As such it has its difficulties acclimating to the world of dating again as well as finding and getting use to another submissive. In discussion we will talk more about things of interest. If in reading this you are interested contact me. I know everybodies concept of Master/slave, Dominant/submissive is different, and their own. You may be the type that says your difficult or bratty and looking for a Dom that fits you..no, that isn't how it goes. If your a slave/submissive, and we click, and we both agree that each other is what we want..then you'll be what I want you to be. In my opinion, if you as the submissive or slave dictate how it shall be..your not submissive or a slave..your a switch or someone that Tops from the bottom. Nothing wrong with that but call yourself what you are. In addition, this "stop" is not a place where the submissive sits around and fails to contribute to "us", I'm not here to support you financially while you play "bum". My house is us not you not me..us. I expect you to give in many aspects as I expect that out of myself. |
|
|
|
|
I have found that the people (submissives and slaves) on here are so picky that they will never find the right one. By being that way they are excluding others that are good people. Most here are wannabe's and pretenders looking for a pot of gold that does not exist. I've never understood why people are so unapproachable. What are submissives looking for on here at first contact..if the right key words are not used your persona nongrata. |
| |
| |
|
|
| |
|
Male Submissive, 25, hayward, California
|
Male Submissive, 26
|
Male Dominant, 26
|
Male Submissive, 46, San Diego, California
| | |
Male Dominant, 24
|
Male Dominant, 30, Columbus, Ohio
|
Male Submissive, 50
|
Male Submissive, 50
| | |
|
|
|
|