Googolplex

I am interested in further exploring the more experimental sides of sexuality, such as bdsm and any other kinks you'd like to try out. I'm looking for new friends of like-mind or play-partner to start, but if things go well that could also turn into a best friend and lady in public, and a fiend in the bedroom (dungeon?)

This profile exists because I am thinking it may be easier to search for a great lady first, but one with "closet kinks", than it would be to go the other way around. Since this would be more of an intimate interest than a lifestyle for me, I don't carry the persona into my vanilla life.

I consider myself to be kinky, rather than "Dom" or "sub". Some might use the word Switch for that but I'm not really sure that fits either.... All I know is that if it's deviant, but safe, sane and consensual, I like it. Well, I also like holding hands while walking and cuddling on the couch, but around here that kinda talk might be considered offensive LOL!

I am a successful, sane and stable person who has his life together in every way. Despite the implications in the above paragraphs, my vanilla life is really quite "normal". Outwardly, I don't look the part (I dont wear leather and studs) and I would love to find my female counterpart both in lifestyle and intimate interests.

Could you be that person?