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Male Dominant, 22, Koxville, Tennessee
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Male Switch, 49, Makati
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Male Switch, 34, San Francisco, California
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About goodvibesonly
While I am perfectly capable of sustaining a healthy and happy vanilla partnership, and have done so for many years, it is during my D/s relationships that I find the greatest depth of connection. I believe a true Dom is meant to support and take responsibility for the well-being of the sub to the extent that he has the power to do so. I don't capitalize "He" when I refer to a Dom, because he is not God, and I do not believe in honorifics apart from a simple "Sir" when earned and appropriate.
At this point in time, I am open to evaluating the possibility of bringing a sub into my life. Though I have engaged in cuckqueaning before, this has only been done in the context of having a sub who found it erotically stimulating and was done as much to reward her as it was for my own enjoyment. I am monogamous by default and would not find it natural to engage in a multitude of cotemporaneous sexual relationships, unless as in the example just described it was something discussed with my partner and found to be mutually satisfying. While some elements of humiliation can be pleasing to me, I do not seek to be mean or dehumanizing or to make anyone feel less than.
An ideal situation would involve someone with experience as a sub who is interested in getting acquainted to explore the possibility of a long-term live-in 24/7 life together as vanilla partners to the outside world. I believe myself to be strict but fair and acknowledge that the realities of professional commitments as well as family obligations are likely to require reasonable accommodations.
An ideal match for me would genuinely enjoy performing the domestic duties of a tradwife with the addition of a high sex drive and affinity for kink. A bonus would be someone who enjoys giving oral pleasure, because there are few things more disappointing than a perfunctory blowjob. I do enjoy employing physical restraint, particularly at night on those nights when she has earned her way into my bed. Eventually, it may be possible to spend most/all nights together, but this is something to be earned with continued good behavior. An ideal sub for me would be very physically affectionate, kind, well-spoken, honest, and earnest in her desire to please. If hearing the words "good girl" don't do anything for you, we are not likely to be a match. An ideal match would recognize that this simple praise as recognition for and appreciation of her efforts.
There is a wide range in the degree of control over her life that I am comfortable with, from the minimal to the extreme, and this has everything to do with what comes naturally between myself and the individual sub. I take people as they are and hope to support them in their efforts to become better, all the while trying to improve myself as well in various ways not merely as a Dom but as a human.
I will likely reply to any respectful message from the curious/interested. |
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