goodangel4u

I am now taking me from here. I have now lost my license to work here in the state and it stems from an incident in 06. I was under the impression it was done and over with, but  I was sadly mistaken. I bid all those well and hope for the best for those here...

peace

After speaking to many here, I guess some are learning of respect some are not. Some think that if  you are a sub, you come when called. You are to go to the Dom. What of him coming to you once in awhile?  At times when distance becomes a problem, you need to chose your time wisely. Trade off places. It is more than a sub sucking ones cock.. if one thinks that your sub can't even ask questions and not have answers  given without some due respect then  you are no dom.

Also it is more than you just using her. She need to have respect for who she is a person first and foremost. Then you are that sub or slave what ever you feel you are. We are not solely here for you. Sorry. If the weather is bad or we don't have the ability to get to you then if you really want to see us you will find the means.

I also on a different subject, I am typical in the fashion of enjoying things. I like to be bound and gagged once trust is there. I like anal and things most subs do. I do like oral but it is not to be the only thing I do. I like pain as well. I like to have my vagina stretched. I love to be fisted. I love toys and insertions. I like to be filled, dp.

So dont think I am going to only go down on you. I have some defined limits. Some feel that is all there is to this. A sub going down on them.  If you have erectile problems fine deal with them, it for the most part  in your mind, at times it is a more of a medical problem. I can deal with this, but again I am not for your blow job.

If you still want to talk to me then do so. But this is who I am basically am. I am not looking to play with you. I want a bit more than that. Done the play time thing. Not apart of a harem either.

To those who feel that a sub is to be quiet and not speak, and only suck you off has no idea what this is. Submission is a gift that is given, and you are not to take lightly. One or so has this idea because I can speak my mind I am " top". No I am intelligent and will speak my mind. This was because I wanted some ground rules so to speak. i.e. was to be in school right now, told him if  I am studying, he would leave me be to study. He said no if he wanted to fuck me and have me suck him, I would then go back to the books. I would not allow that of me. That is total disregard, and lack of respect...

He needs to go read more of this, and learn how to treat a sub.

enough on this... you know who you are, I have received good responses to this, so I gather that means most Doms do agree with the statements I have put forth.

I also don't do a few things, one if you are married keep moving. If you are black or hispanic keep moving. I know that is a real personal thing with me. I am not doing the long distance thing either. I don't do the email thing either. You know of the writing of sex and think you can be my dom by way of email. Or text that is just ridiculous. I want a dom who is actually there in person and will be able to really touch me and I him.

I guess some think because you are coming into town and want to have a romp that is ok to contact a sub. For one I don't know you and it is not safe to meet and go to bed with you. Are you that off your rocker...????? I know most are really that arrogant and think that they can do that.
I know also that I must know you for a time before I would consider having you. I don't do one nights and would not consider it. i am more of a woman than that.
If you want to get to know me, then please do . It may not go anywhere but we can talk and see where it goes I make no promises to anyone for any reason. Just because we talk doesn't make me yours.. who are you kidding. Just because we text or chat doesn't mean I trust you enough to come to your home. I need to know you and see you. It is a security issue. Any woman knows this. If you go to a man's home without knowing him you are asking for trouble. It is common sense. I am sorry. I just don't do that. I have to at least meet with you  a few times and get to know you before I come to you. There is a difference between being in public and your private home....

ok  today i guess I will be really speaking my mind. I am who I say I am. The last time i looked I was very female. Not a man and not a child. Please stop insulting my intelligence by demanding a a photo before you talk to me. I feel the reason you want this is for one, to either laugh and say you are not as pretty and not what I want. two to jack off to, and to oggle over. I am not have this done to. I am first human and then female. Respect is given and I give that to you. I am not fond of photo bit. If you can't appreciate the intelligence of someone first then the you must be wanting someone just for the looks and you will never find what it is you want...

why is it men think women want their clit touch and just fondled? I just don't get that? Or it is women who don't understand their body at all. Please come to understand a woman's body before you attempt things. To touch her there is like me flicking the head of your dick when fully erect...

If you have to learn of the woman orgasm then do so. We are so more complicated than you imagine.  Orgasm doesn't come from between our legs it is from our heads. Our minds. A complex nerve stimulation and reaction lets say.  Yes we are visual as well. not as you are but we are. It is also a chemical reaction in the body. We have to some form of attraction in the sexual sense. We just can't have this orgasm by way of you telling us to have one. we have to enjoy you as well.

Also don't be a user. Meaning drugs or think I won't be asking these kind of questions. I feel that drugs of all sorts are included. I understand a honest Rx is one thing, but something for the hell of it that is a different story. I know this effects a man ablility to perform and be who he needs to be. No woman wants to attempt to go down on a limp one... If you truly have trouble like that, tell me. I can understand and be understanding. You are human I too am one.

Some think they understand what massage is. I really don't think you do.  They think a rub is what that is. Unless you are a qualified therapist please don't say you understand this. I have a working knowledge of massage. Note that working knowledge. I am not a therapist. Please don't think you can give a massage unless that is what you do. It can really hurt someone. By the way there is no such thing as a sexual massage either. It can turn you on to be rubbed yes, but sorry boys.  There are many types of massage, but don't go there with me.

I thought I was fairly open in what I wrote. I guess not. I like the man to be taller than me, within 50 or so mi of me. I am not looking to move. wow. I am intelligent and well educated. I don't send pix because men like to either laugh or get off to them, sorry I am above that. I don't want pix of your dick either if I want to see pix make it of you. Your dick is like all the rest. Yours is no different. They all work in the same manner, trust me they do.  One I am not your slave let us get that straight you speak to me a human and with respect and you will recieve that in return. I ask that you and speak on a normal conversational level. We are both here for same reasons. I am looking for a master you are looking for sub. so why ask the silly question of why you here or what do you want? Talk to me as I am human and female thank you. I will return the same. If you think you can tell me what to do online please think again, I am not yours from a conversation. If I was yours we would not be online. I don't mind talking to you if you don't want to get into the all the sexy talk. Most of you want that. Please spare me that. Again it goes back to I do have a degree of intelligence and education. If you want to know of this please ask me.  I will be more than glad to tell  you of this. I will say this I have a BS and certificates. Don't write me off as a dumb blonde you will be sorely mistaken. I am also working on an MA.