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About GoGoCharlie
First off, I'm making this profile primarily as a way for potential subs to contact us. I won't regularly seek on this site so don't think the lack of recent activity means we aren't still interested. Tho lately we have been more active then expected.
We plan to move to our own 2 bedroom apartment soon *no room-mates! w00t* and temporarily rent out the other room *damn* while we search for a sub. The person will know they wont stay long. My house, my deposit, my rules. lol
Once we have our home secured we will go from there.
OK now down to us. We have been together for 6 years. We are young and nerdy.
My first sexual experience was chalked full of kink and hot damn if I didn't enjoy every minute of it. I was my GFs first, and while she doesn't like subbing, she loves making me happy AND (much to my initial surprise) has shared interest in getting a sub. *yay*
We do have a bit of a lack of significant experience, but I have been told by a few partners that I "have potential", regrettably those relationships didn't last long enough to develop it.
In the bedroom I prefer control, I have always taken lead and anything else seems wrong and even insulting. Occasionally I indulge interest in bottoming, but from experience I always assert control at the first sign of weakness in my partner.
We know that what we expect our relationship w/ our sub to be is never set in stone. But we have spoken and agreed upon an ideal day.
The sub would have a lot of liberties, but will always need to know her place. If she is on our time and I ask her to come to me, then I mean right then. If I had meant in a few min I would have specified as such.
A slow sub gets incentive!
Our ideal day with a 24/7 sub:
The sub would wake up before us. She would be given personal time to prepare herself for the day before waking us up. She would assist us in preparing for our day by helping w/ breakfast and picking clothes and such.
Then we might give her an hours worth of tasks for the day and let her pick her path until a designated time. Say 10AM to 5PM. This is her time, she will use it for errands, employment, and even socializing. She will be permitted of course to request specific times off as well, for appointments, late night clubbing, as anything else applicable.
Upon returning home she will be expected to help w/ dinner, socialize w/ her master and mistress. Be it playing a game, watching a movie, or even screwing like mad. *maybe all 3 at once?*
As bedtime approaches she will join us in bathing then retreat either to her own room or mood permitting ours.
This is obviously all a fluid arrangement, as life grows, its branches shift and its roots stretch. Its just a basic idea of what we would like.
As I said earlier, we are both nerdy. We play video games, card games, and even occasionally eat junk food. *gasp!* We watch cartoons and enjoy dressing up in costumes for conventions or renfairs. So a sub will also need a sense of humor.
We try to keep ourselves from being dangerously unhealthy, so if you are excessively overweight then expect to have fitness or dieting added to your daily routine, we will likely join you often lol. Who knows, maybe having it be an order will help you w/ that last hurdle?
If you have any interest in us, then feel free to send me a message. I check my email about once a week so don't feel bad if theres a delay in reply.
p.s. I'm sorry for any typos or bad grammar, I have large hands and I'm typing this in my micro-book w/ the lights off, hopefully I didn't do too bad. But hey, shiit hapns,
Hi everyone! I'm GoGoCharlie's girlfriend. My friends call me Rikku (from the final fantasy series). Just writing something on here so you guys know I'm real and he's not a fake pretending to be a Dom/Domme couple. As he said, we are both nerdy, we love video games, and yes we are slightly lazy/crazy, and I really like cooking/baking and I'm not afraid to use people as my tasting guinea pig. I also LOVE music, I play the guitar and the clarinet, and a little bit of the piano. Music is my life and it has gotten me through some hard times.
My boyfriend is wonderful. He has a great sense of humor, he's very fun to be around, and he definitely RESPECTS me. As a matter of fact, he respects almost everyone and understands if there's a problem. He can read me like a book and if I seem bothered, he asks me what's wrong, and 99% of the time he's right about me being bothered. He's very caring and tries his best to help me and his friends out. I also love his eyes (^_^).
I may be put down as a switch, but I feel that I am more Dominant because I don't like receiving pain, but I like giving it. I do like being tied up though, but according to my boyfriend I complain too much when I'm tied up lol. I am also a huge cuddler, I love cuddling and my boyfriend isn't much of a cuddler. So yes, do expect to be cuddled! OK
Ok, I think that's enough about me. If you want to know more information about either one of us, message my boyfriend please.
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So we recently moved to LA, though it seems we keep finding ourselves back in SLO.
The biggest unforeseen problem with visiting the family is that I can no longer go home when night falls. I used to be able to have dinner with them every few weeks then just head home. Now though, heading home is a 3 hour trip!
So I find myself in the guest bedroom, lights off while the misses sleeps, bored out of my freaking mind! Maybe I'll take a walk on the beach... Some of the journals people are posting tonight are just wierd... |
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I have decided to post up a couple more pictures of me so we can have some more luck finding ourselves a sub. I figure it is more humbling noticing that we really are a couple looking for someone to join our lives. Enjoy! (My favorite is the one with the nerf gun) |
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Is there anything akin to a singles bar for young BDSM couples in LA?
We are moving to the LA area soon-ish and sadly have not been having alot of luck searching. The only local options are limited even before checking the "Willing to Relocate" box.
Its even harder to talk to people down there it seems. I assume its due to a high ammount of single male doms. No one wants to talk to someone who is not "Right here, Right now!" when there are 800 more people waiting in line who are. |
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 So for some reason, collarme is being all wonky and wont let me do purple font *pouts*. It's me Charlotte/Rikku by the way! Long time no post. I have been very busy these last couple of weeks. I have been volunteering as much as I can for my college applications. However, I don't volunteer just because of the applications. I do it because I enjoy it. If I had all the time in the world, I would volunteer and donate money. It feels so right to do something so beneficial. Luckily my mom has been doing better, so I've been able to concentrate more on my applications, volunteering, and school.
Unfortunately our internet was down for 2 months because of our roommate being an a$$, which is why we haven't been able to go on here for a while. It also made it so I couldn't do homework at home, and instead I had to do it at school. Oh well, at least we have it back.
Today I was helping Robert's mom by volunteering. I have been cleaning and helping repair an old local house, and I have to tell you, that place was COVERED in field mice poop!!! We got it all vacuumed and swept though. It was 5 hours of hard work, but I felt good afterwards. Robert's mom was so happy that I came.
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Ugg... Most of the female profiles in this area have moved away...
I really need to check this site more often, every time I come back on I cant tell who I looked at last time. So I always end up trying to remember who people are. Its even harder when they keep changing their pictures! lol |
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 Well, my mother is in the hospital again... this time she will be there for a few extra weeks, and I am taking on all her responsibilities again because my little sister isnt helping at all again... *siiiiiigh*. It's ok though, I don't mind helping my mom. It's just harder this time because I have summer classes and I'm full time.
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*sigh* She's doing homework... Damn priorities...
Oh well, ill get her in an hour or 2.
I hate how when I view a page and don't feel it looks promising, or just dont have time to post, I feel like the girl will probably think im one of those creepy stalker types who just use this site to whack off...
I had a girl send me an insulting message calling me out for it. In her description she had her common little rules and requiremets list, which if she had read MY page, would have told her why I didn't message her. She had specifically stated that she didnt want to talk to anyone under 40!
I like to assume she had been having a bad day or something. I did my best to remain polite in the reply, but if she had said what she typed to my face, I would have no doubt snapped at her.
GOD DAMN stupid people piss me off... |
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Wow... My GFs poetry always amazes me... Makes me want to read her journal entries more often! Its odd sharing an account...
*sigh* Just 1 more year and we move... Then we can try to get a place with NEW room-mates who hopefully clean at least as often as us...
I actually had to hire a MAID, and put her on the utilities list because they dont clean up after themselves... On the plus side, I havn't had to sweep or vacuum in months...
Now if you'll excuse me... I need to go tie Charlotte up... |
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Her
By: Charlotte
I look into a mirror, what do I see?
I see a woman standing in front of me.
Her hair, short dirty blonde,
Her eyes, a tired sharp blue,
Her face was young, but worn too.
Though she was young life took a toll,
That's when the mystery started to unfold.
I looked deep into her eyes and was told,
She needed someone, a woman, to love and control.
Her boyfriend encouraged it,
Her trustful eyes said as they made a motion to sit.
I should have known that.
No one else knows of this secret of hers,
Nor do they know that this life of hers occurs.
to be continued.
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Well, here comes my emo self. 
Being poor sucks. I can never travel and visit friends who live in other parts of Cali, I can't afford a car, I can't help my family, I can't fully pay off my credit card until my financial aid comes in, I can't get better roommates, I can't afford dentistry work, I can't afford college in the future. I find it sad that in order to make it in this world, you need money. I just want enough money to where I won't be in debt, I won't have to constantly use public transportation, and I will be able to donate and help people. It's extremely depressing and it makes me feel like I'm nothing, and I'm a piece of dirt. I'm starting to have bad dreams about this, and I've barely been able to sleep these last few months because of my financial instability. I hope that when I get my Associate's degree, I'll be able to get a better paying job, and after I transfer and we move, life and our financial issues should get better.
Yet, that's not the only thing keeping me up... All of this stress has been taking a toll on my body. I was recently sick with a very bad cold. Usually when I get sick, it's not very bad, but this time it was pretty bad. Also, things aren't as fun anymore as they used to be. If I play my guitar or start singing out loud (horribly mind you) with my Queen music, my roommates complain. Anyways, enough of this venting.
Our future will be brighter, and my boyfriend and I will be able to get a wonderful sub who will love us, and at the same time we will love her.
Bed time, GOOD NIGHT!  |
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GAH!!!! 
Well, these last 2 months haven't been the best. My second grandpa died on February 18th, my birthday was March 5th, and the funeral was March 9th. The only day that I really had a huge break on since last October, was my birthday. All last month, I've been helping my mom with everything I can whenever I can. One thing that made me really proud of myself though, was out of my whole family (my family is huge, trust me), I was the only one who had enough "balls" to do a eulogy about my grandpa. Two people went up there and read prayers, but I did an actual eulogy. I'm proud of myself for that, and I hope my grandpa is proud of me. I miss both my grandpas, and I hope both of them are proud of me for being able to continue my education, and life. I love them and they will always be in my heart.
My two uncles were mad at me though. Especially my one really rich, snobby uncle. He glared at me with the meanest glares while I was doing the eulogy. Actually, it was throughout the whole funeral and reception. I don't care though, because he's a selfish a**. 
Anyways, life has been bittersweet for now. Luckily though, I was able to talk to my EOPS counselor, and her and I figured out my whole schedule for the next year. This fall I get to apply to CSU Fullerton, and IF I'm accepted, I'll be able to go next fall!!! I'm excited, but I can't afford it... I'll have to look for hundreds of scholarships. LOL! So, you guys down in Fullerton, get ready because Charlotte/Rikku is coming to town! Anyways, enough of my chatting. 
Oops, I used the wrong purple... |
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Wow... I never noticed how full of typos my profile is... Time to correct. |
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Hi!!! 
So, this week has been a pretty bad week unfortunately.
Monday one of my grandpas died, and my boyfriend's mom kept sending me beyond stressful texts to me about our roommate,
Tuesday was my grandpa's burial,
Wednesday I got laryngitis,
Thursday my other grandpa had to go to the hospital because of internal bleeding and I couldnt visit him because of my laryngitis and symptoms of a cold,
Friday I was pretty sick all day with laryngitis and a cold, then that time of the month came, and I also found out that I don't have any money,
and finally, today I'm having major cramps, I'm sick, I still have laryngitis (although it's not as bad), I found out my grandpa is home but hospice is going to move in with him, and because of the fact that our roommates haven't been paying all their rent, we might have to move.
What a lovely week, don't you think?
These last couple of months have been pretty much the same too. November, my mom got in an accident, so all november and December I've been having to run her errands, clean her place, help her take a shower, etc., which I don't mind, but I had to move some of my major errands aside to do it all. December, I found out that my current grandpa that's still alive has an extremely aggressive cancer and has only a few months to live, maybe less. I also found out some bad news about another loved one. Plus a whole bunch of other things that are too much to list.
At least my turtle is alive and my boyfriend still loves me
and all I have to say is... Blah.
Oh! One last thing, I have all four of the new pennies now! |
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No matter how many times I tell myself to go to bed, i still end up pressing "Next Page"... |
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Finally got contacted by someone local! Not sure yet what the person is wanting to talk about yet, but we'll keep ya posted! |
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Hi again!!!!
I'm bored so I decided to write a journal entry.
hm... well, my boyfriend and I are still kind of struggling financially. I'm hoping since it's so close to the seasons, I'd be able to get a job just for a couple months for seasonal. I got two interviews, and I had a semi-interview. I wasn't hired at one place, and I'll know the results for the other on monday, THEN if that doesnt work, the other place that I had that semi-interview with seemed very interested in me. I'm going to work my butt off if I get a seasonal job so I can hopefully turn it into a permanant one. Blah. Ok thanks for reading this!  |
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Well... HI EVERYONE!  This is my first journal entry on here. My boyfriend is the one who usually puts his entries on here and stuff. He showed me where to go on here to type these things up. Anyways, I'm going to probably be posting more over time.
Today was a VERY tiring day. I got up at 7, helped my mom clean her mobile home for a couple hours, then went to her place and took lots of pictures on my phone of her little no skid dog mats/cat mats and bandanas that she hand makes. I'm going to post the pics on my myspace and facebook to help promote sales for her. Then, I convinced my mom to drive me to my college with her motorcycle (trike) which is pretty much a 30 minute car ride, hour long bus ride. Then I had class from 2:15, and my teacher let us out early, so I got the opportunity to get home an hour early (this time I got home at about 6, usually I get home at 7:20ish) and I got some panda express with my boyfriend. And now, here I am typing a journal entry on here. OH! Also, I got new penny #3!!!!! I already have #1, I just need 2 and 4. Here's a link for those of you who don't know: http://coins.about.com/od/uscoins/ig/New-Penny-Designs-for-2009-/ |
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Almost lost my job this week... luckily the bullet was in a different chamber... better start looking for a second job anyways... |
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God i hate ignorant people...
I got called fatass by a complete stranger, completly random. It was on a different site im exploring, not liking it much tho. I had never had any reaction w/ this person before in my life!
I had no pictures of myself on this site so the only thing they could have based this on was my listed weight. Yeah im a bit pudgy, but most of my weight is muscle! Lifting 14+ pairs of hangered jeans and carrying them across a department store every 5 minutes for 5 hours tends to cause a bit of muscle growth...
I could have probably thrown the 120 pound weakling who decided to insult me based on a number over 10 feet...
Who am i kidding, i wouldnt do that... Lobbing is too impersonal. I'd just put them in a masterlock hold till they apologized! ^_^
And maybe make them drive me home...
What, you think im gonna invite them to my place to make them apologize? 0_o
How rediculous! |
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I've noticed alot of the subs on this site say they are straight, and im curious as to wether that means they wouldnt submit to a couple.
In my case its doubtful my GF would ever initiate anything sexual w/ the sub w/out my involvement. At least not for a very long while.
Should I bother contacting subs who list themselves as straight? |
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i wish there were a way to make it so the "Recent journals" page would save your filter preferances. always annoying to refresh the page and be greated by a pic of some guy jerking off... |
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Well, spent the last hour and a half updating my profile and doing some browsing. all in all aproductive evening.
Its 3:30AM and time to turn in. goodnite internet |
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