GoddessSpoiled

I hate when guys try to get free things. I find it even funnier these are the ones with i am not into Pro Dommes or FinDommes in their profile. If that is the case exactly why are you messaging me ? I think they should put i am not into putting in effort i am only into getting off and i don't wanna have to compensate someone for their time. I know not everyone is into the same thing there are some who are so against what i do. That is fine with me as i am against some of what others do but i wouldn't go out of my way to put them down. If you hate something so much don't come into my messages asking for my time for free to fulfill what you wish without even respecting the time and effort i put into things. I also will not do sessions, videos, mp3 clips or even photos for free sorry they generally are for purchase. The moral of this story is i am young not naive don't come into my inbox and try to down me when you find out you can't convince me to go against something i feel. 

I am so bored with the quality of boys messaging me so step it up. Stop telling me what you desire and focus on what would make me happy. Also most of you send horribly boring messages with nothing of use in any one. If you can't tell me why you wish to serve me and actually prove that then don't bother approaching me. I have no time for those who can't even keep me interested enough to answer the first message. 

Here's the tip of the day if you act idiotic don't be surprised that you still aren't owned. I had a supposed submissive tell me that my ass should be illegal. I wish that grown men knew how to behave as such. I need an age limit on submissives that is for sure or at the very least a maturity level. If you don't want to be treated as a troll than don't act that way.

I feel like its time to add a little story i just can't wait to tell. I'm in such a good mood right now the weekend has been amazing. <3

Its funny how some think i am a nice person when i'm bluntly honest and such a bitch when the mood strikes me. Pissing me off isn't a good idea for that very reason i am down a boy. The thing about me is i don't accept disobedience if you can't follow my rules you can follow the path right out of the door. So now i think i might reopen my applications and pick up another boy or two who understands what it takes to serve someone such as myself. If you are looking for a pathetic fantasy to be fulfilled find it elsewhere i don't care what you want understand that upfront. I can be understanding but just as quickly i can put you back in your place. I had the best time on a mini vacation and today i came home to a gift basket and chocolate covered strawberries simply because i was ill yesterday. I really have some of the best little servants around. 

I'm gonna talk about comfort zones because apparently most on here don't get the point of that. If you find someone you are interested or even holding a conversation with then use the rules of common sense. Don't overly message the person i recently had that happen i was busy at the time yes i stay logged in often when i am doing other things so most of the time you message me i am not even here. I had one guy who messaged me for a conversation i suppose but he creeped me out with the amount of messages and therefore he was blocked. I really make no apologies for ever blocking someone if you are then you did something to end up on that list. Just like the ones who believe saying they want to meet and get to know you on the first message. If i don't want to meet because i don't know you well enough to do so respect that or go away there is no convincing me of something i don't want to do. If you creep me out online why in the hell would i meet you real life ? There is something called a gut feeling and if you set off my creep alert trust that i won't continue to talk to you. In summary don't push over someone's comfort level not everyone is into the same thing and no matter what speed you believe things should go get to know the person before completely making them want to run in the opposite direction. 

I find it funny so many men who identify as Dominant message me. That in itself i don't have a problem with but let me put this out there frankly i will never be a submissive, slave, your girlfriend or interested in you. If i even remotely hold a conversation with a Dominant male it will be strictly on a friendship level. Then there are the Dominants and i use that term very loosely in this case who beg to be my submissive. I find that entertaining and urge the submissives to pay close attention to who exactly they are submitting to. Just as i find it amusing when a submissive attempts to top me for some reason they think it will end well for them. I can assure you it won't so try it at your own risk. In other news i had the most relaxing rest while one of my tech boys who is local has been working on my website. He is so eager i might allow him to make me dinner this week lets see how that goes. There are perks to having local boys i can say that i get so much done these days or better yet they do. 

I just realized i love blogging and writing. I have always been a very creative person and never shy about expressing the things that i feel. Here is another helpful hint when messaging someone not only on here but in general. The types of messages i dislike the most is the most important one the introductory message. Its like when you meet someone real life and introduce yourself to a person it really can determine whether you see them or not again. The worst first message i think i have received are the ones where the boys are begging to serve me. Now to most this doesn't seem like a bad thing and in reality it is not but lets put the situation in a different light. If you met a woman you liked at a coffee shop or store would you immediately ask her to be your girlfriend ? Its sort of the same way with this situation if you have never talked to me before how can you safely say that you wish to serve me ? You don't even know me i could be the craziest Domme out there and make the entire duration of your service to me a miserable experience. Not everyone clicks together just because you are submissive and i am Dominant there is no guarantee we will even be able to stand talking to each other for more than five minutes. Serving someone is a serious manner you are putting your trust within them so how can you do that with a perfect stranger ? I usually ignore those types of messages or i respond in my usual blunt way. Don't expect any Domme or for that matter Dom to jump when you decide instantly to serve them more. If you want to serve someone get to know them first then make that decision submissive doesn't have to equal doormat but it shouldn't equal a quick decision made without any thought either. 

Something else that annoys me is when people add you to their favorites or follow your journal posts without messaging you at all. I don't find it flattering its mostly plain creepy for someone to be my admirer without messaging me first. Its like getting someone's phone number from a phone book without talking to them beforehand. I also dislike when someone attempts to message me and talk to me about their fetishes. As if i give a damn about fulfilling fantasies yes i know a good Domme does blah blah but we aren't here to put up with your bullshit. I find males are the most clueless when it comes to these matters if a female submissive did such they would be called fake or a waste of time but no male submissives are allowed to get away with so much more at least in some people's mind. I really find it hilarious that some think Financial Domination is about payment for a service when in reality Pro Domme's can make so much more. For the genius's who like to throw out the word whore a quote always comes to mind no one knows how ignorant you are until you open your mouth. If a Domme/Dom gets sexual with their submissive and are in control of their submissive's finances does that make them a whore or prostitute ? Exactly you have your first understanding of Financial Domination. At the very root its about domination in this world power is money and for me tributes are a special piece of adoration my submissives shower me with that i of course deserve. The more they give the more i take but not only money or gifts but simply power. I like to think of myself as a Queen and they are simply paying taxes to remain in my kingdom. Whatever you think of it be respectful to others if you don't want your fetishes to be judged then don't you dare judge another person. 

Following up my theme of helpful things to avoid for male submissivies is another big issue i get several times daily. Stop trying to force real life situations within the first message. It is so creepy and can even get down right disrespectful and set you off on a bad foot with a Domme you are interested in. I for one am not a Pro domme i really do wish that boys would take the time to learn more about different terms before they message a Domme. That means no matter how much you offer me i won't whip, humiliate you or meet in you in a dungeon. Financial Domination is a completely different thing please move along if you can't tell the difference between the two. Yes i have met submissives real life but i owned them and for a lot longer than a day before that step was even made. Most women are going to be rather nervous about meeting for many reasons but it all boils down to there are creepy men out there the ones who feel its okay to ask for personal information within an hour of speaking to you. I recently had someone ask me would i dominate and humiliate a group for a tribute fee. I honestly wanted to slap them again i am not a Pro Domme don't assume someone is generally it will be in their profile with ways to contact them for a meeting. Two that just sounds creepy and dangerous like yes i suppose it would be a nice situation if i planned to be gang raped and possibly murdered. Other than that i had to pass on the offer and silently roll my eyes yet again. If you approach a Domme about real life please make sure you remember not to pressure like any relationship time is needed and your approach makes all the difference from a real life meeting and restraining order. 

I really think most of the male submissive population needs some major help on minor adjustments that would help them find the Domme for them. I am really tired of hearing the complaints then receive mail that i would expect to have come from a child. Before you send a message to a Domme that catches your eye look at it carefully and think if i were a woman would i respond to this ? If you have to think about it too long then change it. Make sure you know what you want but don't be overly bossy. EX....I want to be humiliated on cam here is my Skype id i'll do anything you want and be your pathetic little doggy.....Yes i actually received that message and guess what they received in return ? Nothing that message didn't remotely appeal to me at all if you approach me be prepared to treat me as the superior being that i am or not at all. I am sure other Dommes would appreciate the same. 

Tumblr is back up and its time to go back on my path. Lets see what boys really want to serve and please me. http://missspoiledprincess.tumblr.com/

Meetings equals no if you really want to make my birthday special there are several options available but no i am not doing meetings with someone i completely don't know. Don't ask the answer will always be no meetings are earned and come after reaching that level of being comfortable not a moment until then. 

Some people are pathetic why continue to try the same thing that has been done to death ? If you approach me, beg to serve me and all this other crap then don't even begin to tell me how i should bend for you. Are you a little slow ? My time is valuable and precious either earn it or don't bother sending me a message. Something else i hate is when girls on here try to stalk me. You know what stalking me won't make you any prettier so seriously go away i see right through you and and no i wont send any photos to you.