GoddessLyssa

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~ Goddess Lyss

The Goddess’ slave

Below is a description of the type of slave that I seek to be in long term service.

A mediocre Owner tells, a good Owner teaches, an excellent Owner explains,

but a True Owner inspires!

A mediocre slave desires to serve, a good slave takes initiative, an excellent slave seeks growth,

but a true slave applies all of these attributes!

Desire To Serve

The desire to serve comes from somewhere deep inside of a true slave.  For those that seek out this lifestyle based on sex, fetishes and their fantasies tend to become very frustrated and never are satisfied.  Their intentions are to fulfill their own pleasures instead of being able to find the satisfaction and pleasure of serving someone else. 

Service comes in many forms.  My slave should possess a deep desire to serve because he/she finds a deep satisfaction in serving My needs, wants and desires.  The slave enjoys the look of happiness, comfort and satisfaction that the Owner has on their face.  This reaction from the Owner is what the slave lives for!  This is what makes his/her heart soar and gives the slave’s life meaning and a deep sense of accomplishment

Initiative

One definition for initiative is the ability to assess and initiate things independently.  I value a slave that has initiative.  There are many situations where a slave that has this ability can be very useful to his/her Owner.  If the slave sees that something is out of place, then he/she should put it away without waiting for instructions to do so.  If the floor needs to be mopped before the scheduled time, then the slave should mop it.  If your Owner comes home from work tired and stressed, the slave should take the initiative to make sure that the Owner is comfortable and perhaps suggest a hot bath to help ease the tension in the Owner’s body.  A slave with initiative looks to do things to make My life more comfortable, orderly and delightful.

The second definition for initiative is the power or opportunity to act or take charge before others do.  Don’t mistake this as being in charge.  I like that they used the word, opportunity.  By taking initiative, the slave has the opportunity to be responsible for their designated area – being in service.  Let’s face it, if I see that you are not taking the opportunity to be a slave then I will have to take initiative to get it done.  W/we wouldn’t want that, would W/we?

Taking the initiative to be the best slave that one can is certainly valuable and is a turn on to Me. 

Growth and Development

Being in Human Resources, I tend to take a different approach to the life of My slave.  I apply HR theory and tactics in how I handle my slave’s life and situations.  As with an employee, I want to see My slave grow and develop in his position.  I develop training plans and strategic ways to grow My slave into the best that he/she can possibly be for Me.

One way of doing this is the principle of slave empowerment.  This is creating an environment where the slave is allowed to make his own decisions in specific service situations.  The decisions can be big or small and the size and effect of the decision is up to the Owner.  The logic behind slave empowerment is to increase the slave’s responsibility, to build slave morale and to improve the quality of the slave’s life.  Ideally, when a slave feels vested in household, he/she will be more productive, loyal and more confident in his role.

Significance – Some Owners tend to forget that their slaves also have brains.  By using the minds of the slave, the Owners can meet projected goals and objectives a lot faster because the slave is working toward them instead of waiting for every little instruction.  Being able to delegate certain responsibilities to the slave will allow the Owner more time to focus on other things that might need Our attention more.

Effects – With a slave empowerment situation, the Owner/slave relationship develops a deeper trust.  It drives up slave satisfaction both personally and for the Owner.  It increases a sense of pride in a job well done.  It promotes loyalty.  The slave feels more engaged.  Service is better.  The Owner profits.

I have found that by promoting the active involvement of a slave in his/her growth and development that the benefits to each of U/us is significant.

Conversation

If you expect to sit in the corner and be ignored, then you need to find an Owner that is in to that.  My slave, while property, is not merely an object.  If I want a robot, I will buy one.  The slave should expect that I will have conversations with them.  Conversation is a dying art.  I cannot mentally control you if I don’t know you or what is going on with you. 

Role of the slave

The slave’s role is to do what he/she is trained to do or whatever the slave’s Owner tells the slave to do.  The slave will have various responsibilities depending on education and skills.  Any job or task can be carried out by the slave per the Owner’s discretion. 

This is a consensual relationship that is based around the power exchange between the Owner and the slave.  The rights of the slave are not taken from them, they are given freely.  The slave has agreed to give up all control to the Owner.  Whatever happens to the slave, whatever demands are made of them, they have agreed to this.

The main role of being a slave is to be of service to you Owner, and not to be serviced for yourself.  Being readily available to the Owner at all times is an unspoken expectation.

Your primary purpose in life will be to see to the Owner’s pleasure (both mentally and physically) in any manner the Owner should desire. In order to do this, you will have to learn the Owner well. Find out what pleases and displeases the Owner.  Learn to anticipate the Owner’s every need and desire without being pushy. The Owner’s needs and desires will encompass intellectual stimulation, physical pleasure, emotional support, and many other things unique to the Owner.  It will be your job to make sure the Owner’s pleasures are met in every way. Think of the five senses, and make the Owner’s environment pleasing to all of them. Never forget - the most pleasing thing in the Owner’s environment should be you.

As the slave, it will be up to you to figure out what pleases the Owner.  The Owner should not have to ask constantly for the basic things – the slave should have learned them.  Remember, you are doing this for the Owner’s pleasure not your own.  Just because the Owner does not notice and praise the slave doesn’t mean you are doing it wrong.  If the Owner looks happy and content, they you have done well and should bask in the Owner’s content.  Always remember that you do this for the Owner and not your own satisfaction.  A slave’s happiness should come from serving the Owner and the Owner being happy.

Entering into Contract

Upon the agreement and the signing of the contract of service to the Owner, the slave will relinquish all possessions and property to the Owner.  This also includes all accounts.  If the Owner desires the slave to maintain property in their name or possessions are allowed to be kept by the slave, it is the expectation of the Owner that the slave will maintain them as it is understood that the Owner is in full possession of them. 

Any unwanted or unneeded property or possessions will be disposed of at the discretion of the Owner. 

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Worship

Worship is a privilege, not a right of the slave.  It should be done with care, never rushed and with a sense of thankfulness.  Worship consists of nuzzling, kissing, suckling, touching, massaging and licking.  Pay attention to the reactions of the Owner.  If they are not enjoying what you are doing, change your action.

Worship Guidelines of the Owner’s Feet

• Begin by kissing the top of the foot and then the top of each toe for each foot as an offering of Thankfulness for the opportunity to worship the Owner’s feet.  Do not rush!
• Start by rubbing and exploring each foot by touch keeping it sensual.  Then incorporate massaging each foot making sure not to neglect any area, including the toes.  Give equal time to each.  View this as making love to the Owner’s feet with your hands.
• Continue by gently kissing, alternating the types of kissing, all over the one foot.  Start incorporating licking not missing any area and also sucking each toe.  You now are essentially making out with your Owner’s foot so be thorough.
• Once you’ve spent time with one foot, switch to the other and repeat.

Worship Guidelines of the Treasure

• Start with the outer lips by kissing them gently as a show of thankfulness for the opportunity of being able to worship the Owner’s Treasure.
• Then begin to alternate kissing, licking and gentle suckling of the outer lips.  You will begin to taste hints of your Owner’s delight.  Don’t rush as this is evidence that the Owner is enjoying your attentions.  You may also add in light touching with your fingers as well.
• Every so often, start slipping your tongue in between the lips, gradually going further in at time for longer periods of time.  Begin to explore the inner areas of the lips, vagina opening and around the clit.  At this point, still going back to worship the outer lips.
• Then turn your attention to mainly exploring the areas above with your tongue.  Use your fingers to gently spread the lips apart.  Continue to kiss, taste and explore the contours of the Owner’s Treasure.  Pay attention to what areas are pleasurable and which are sensitive.  Assess what actions and techniques seem pleasing to the Owner by their reactions.  Also incorporate exploring the inside of her vagina with the same care as above, yet without being intrusive or aggressive.
• Only when you are given permission may you begin to worship the Owner’s Jewel directly.

Note:  Never, unless otherwise instructed by the Owner, immediately lunge for the Jewel.

Worship Guidelines of the Throne

• Start with rubbing the cheeks and then a bit of a deeper massage.
• Kiss them gently while continuing to massage as a show of thankfulness for the opportunity of being able to worship the Owner’s Throne.
• Then begin to alternate massaging, kissing, licking and gentle suckling of the cheeks.  Don’t rush. 
• Every so often, start slipping your tongue in between the cheeks, gradually exploring further in at time for longer periods of time.  Begin to explore the inner area between the cheeks around the center of the Throne.  At this point, still going back to worship the cheeks.
• Then turn your attention to mainly exploring the area around and on the center of the Throne with your tongue.  Use your fingers to gently spread the cheeks apart for better access.  Continue to kiss, taste and explore the contours of the Owner’s inner area of the Throne.  Pay attention to what areas are pleasurable and which are sensitive.  Assess what actions and techniques seem pleasing to the Owner by their reactions.  Also incorporate exploring the inside of the center area with the same care as above, yet without being intrusive or aggressive.
• Only when you are given permission may you begin to penetrate the inner area of the Throne directly. 
• Continue to alternate periods of penetrating the inner area, licking, kissing, rubbing and massaging of the Owner’s Throne until told to stop.

Sexuality

The sexuality of the slave will be determined by the Owner.  Under no circumstance will the slave have any sexual contact with other persons without the Owner’s consent and/or under the Owner’s direction.  Violating this will result in immediate dismissal.

Sexual release will be determined by the Owner if allowed.  The slave is not to engage in any type of masturbation unless in the presence of the Owner and with permission from the Owner.  A chastity device will be obtained by the slave before entering into the service of the Owner.  Chastity will be enforced while the slave is owned.  Once locked, the device is not to be removed without permission except in the case of a medical emergency.

Service Handbook and Slave Contract

Appearance Guidelines

Hygiene and Grooming

The slave will always present and maintain a clean and groomed appearance per the preferences of the Owner.  At a minimum, the slave will keep their genitals, armpits and anus shaved, clean and ready for use at all times.  Shaving daily will be required.

Manor of Dress

The slave will remain unclothed, except for their collar, at all times within the Home unless directed by the Owner otherwise.  Upon entering the Home, the slave will undress and put on the collar.  When going outside of the home for a task such as laundry or taking out the trash and answering the door, the slave will put on designated clothing, which shall be kept readily available for quick access when needed.

When out of the Home in the presence of the Owner or in public performing errands, the slave will insure that their clothing is clean, appropriate and pressed as needed.  The slave is an extension and representative of the Owner and should be dressed accordingly. 

Upon entering into service with the Owner, the Owner will dispose of any clothing that the slave has brought with them that the Owner feels is not needed or wanted.  Any clothing purchased for the slave’s use will be approved by the Owner before purchase.

Drugs and Alcohol

Illegal drugs are not permitted under any circumstances and will not be tolerated.  Violating this will result in immediate dismissal.  Consumption of all legal drugs and alcohol will be at the discretion of the Owner.

Service Handbook and Slave Contract

Introductory Period

There is 6 month introductory period where the slave is essentially on probation.  During this time, there will be intense training.  Strict rules, protocols and guidelines will be strictly enforced.  Outside contact and media will be severely restricted. 

This period is to be used by the slave to learn as much as possible about being in service to the Owner.  Mistakes are expected and will be dealt with accordingly.  It is also expected that the slave will put forth the effort to improve service during this time. 

At the end of the Introductory Period, the slave will be evaluated. 

Rights and Privileges

As a slave, you have no rights except those that your Owner allows and agrees upon.  All privileges must be earned and can be revoked per the will of the Owner without explanation or reason. 

Hobbies and Personal Interests

The Owner encourages the slave to pursue hobbies and personal interests.  Approval from the Owner is needed before pursuing such things and can be revoked at the will of the Owner.  If there is cost involved, the slave is responsible for providing the financials to support the hobby or interest.  The slave should insure that pursuing such things does not interfere with service to the Owner in anyway.  During the Introductory Period, hobbies and personal interests may not be perused.

Social Interaction

Any and all social interaction will be decided by the Owner.  The slave is forbidden from engaging in romantic or friendly relationships with others outside the Home unless given permission and consent by the Owner. 

Employment

Obtaining outside employment by the slave will be determined by the will of the Owner.  The Owner will approve all job offers that may be sought after by the slave.  Outside employment should never interfere with service to the Owner.  If the employment requires longer hours than normal, it must be communicated and approved by the Owner.  The Owner may terminate outside employment of the slave at anytime for any reason.

Dismissed Time

At times, the slave may be granted Dismissed Time.  This time will be used by the slave for personal grooming, attending to personal needs and for pursuing personal interests that the slave may have.  During Dismissed Time, the slave will not be in direct service to the Owner, however rules and protocols remain in effect and the slave will make themselves available to the Owner if needed. 

Dismissed Time is used for the benefit of the Owner and the slave.  The slave should retire to their designated living area and be as unobtrusive as possible.  It is strongly suggested that the slave uses this time wisely to rest, read and rejuvenate. 

Media

Access to media is prohibited without permission from their Owner and only to be viewed in the presence of the Owner, unless otherwise determined by the Owner.  Media includes but is not limited to television, radio, internet, news outlets and phone.

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Guidelines, Rules and Protocol

Addressing the Owner

The slave will always address the Owner in a formal manner as Goddess and/or Mistress.  Acknowledgment of instructions given to the slave must be made by the slave and may be done so with Goddess, Mistress or Madam.  Ma’am is not to be used as the term is considered too common and casual not satisfying the formal manner that the Owner requires.

NEVER will the slave raise their voice or speak to the Owner in a disrespectful manner.  This also expands to the Owner’s guests, friends and family in any type of setting.  No anger, argument, condescension, criticism, insult or lack of courtesy will be tolerated.  The slave is considered an extension of the Owner and representative in the Owner’s presence and when away from the Owner.  The slave is expected to act accordingly at all times being a gentleman and respectful to all those that they should come in contact with.

As the Owner speaks, even while in an open conversation with the Owner, the slave will be fully attentive, listen, be quiet and wait patiently for the opportunity or permission to speak.  The slave will never interrupt the Owner.  During free speech and conversation, the slave will continue to be formal with the Owner as stated previously.

Being argumentative and using profanity is forbidden at all times.

Never will the body parts of the Owner be referred to with common names nor will actions be spoken of by the slave with terms that are demeaning and/or vulgar.  The slave will use the following terms when referring to body parts of the Owner:

Treasure – This refers to the female genital area.

Throne – This refers to the anus.

Temple – This combines both the Treasure and the Throne areas.

Jewel – This refers to the clit.

Nectar of the Goddess – This refers to the sexual secretions of a female.

Golden Nectar – This refers to urine.

Penetrate – Insertion into the Throne or Treasure by an object.

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Responsibilities

The slave will be responsible for asking for clarification of instructions and tasks when needed to avoid confusion and assist in learning to serve the Owner to the best of their abilities.

The Home

The Home and all property should always be kept in a neat and orderly manner ready to receive the Owner and any guests at any time with the highest comforts in place that are available. 

If repairs are needed that are beyond the skill set of the slave, supplies are needed to complete repairs or tasks, it is the responsibility of the slave to inform the Owner in a timely manner so that the repair or supplies can be obtained properly.

The slave will be responsible for everything that goes on and does not go on in and around the home such as:

• Organizing functions, dinner parties and luncheons
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Please refer to the Guidelines, Rules and Protocol section for more detailed information on what is expected.

Guests

Every guest invited into the Home should be treated and served with the utmost respect that would be shown to the Owner.  Requests of guests will be treated as if they were given by the Owner.  The slave will be required to serve, wait on and attend to guests with the same level of excellence and servitude that is given to the Owner.

The slave may have guests over only with the approval of the Owner with plenty of notice given.  Twenty-four hour notice is preferred.  At no time and under no circumstances will the slave have any guests in the Home without prior consent from the Owner; this includes family members and friends of the slave.

Personal Care

Skills

It is the responsibility of the slave to notify the Owner of any skills the slave may possess that may be of use to the Owner and the level at which the slave is with the skill(s).

Obtaining new skills to serve the Owner will be required.  It may be required that the slave take courses or purchase educational materials in order to adequately perform at the level the Owner expects.  Any costs of the courses or educational materials will be provided by the slave unless the Owner makes other arrangements.

Desired skills include but are not limited to, cooking, proper nutrition, pedicure and manicure procedures and various massage techniques.

This is something that I have been perfecting over the years.  I will post this in sections.  Perhaps it will be of help to others.

Service Handbook and Slave Contract - Introduction

Introduction

Mission Statement

The mission is to train and produce a high quality slave to provide, perform and complete tasks, service, pleasures, and entertainment to/for the Owner in varying capacities in order to make the Owners life more comfortable and pleasurable. 

The slave’s mission is to insure that they provide and perform to the best of their ability, never compromising quality or the integrity of the Owner or the lifestyle. 

Introductory Statement

This Service Handbook was prepared to provide slaves of the Owner with information and guidelines.  The Owned and Potential slave should read, understand and comply with all provisions of the Service Handbook.  The Owner may revise, supplement, modify or rescind any of the policies, procedures, guidelines or protocols described in the Service Handbook, with or without notice.

Acknowledgment

It is the slave’s responsibility to keep up to date on any changes in policy, protocol, responsibilities, etc and to understand that he/she will be subject to discipline, up to and including dismissal of service, if he/she engages in conduct prohibited by these.

It is the responsibility of the slave to know how to and immediately report violations to the Owner.

Notice of Revision

This Service Handbook and Contract supersedes all prior inconsistent handbooks, guides or Contracts and may be changed from time-to-time as necessary without notice to slave being provided.  The Owner may make changes as needed without revision to the original handbook or Contract.

This revised Service Handbook and Contract is effective September 2011.

A Day of Service to your Goddess

You've found her. That Goddess that makes your heart skip a beat whenever you lay eyes upon her because you know that she is your loving female authority. When she calls for you, your heart feels as if it will beat right out of your chest in anticipation of serving her in anyway that you possibly can. How do you spend the day serving her needs?

Will you wait for her to demand your every action? No! She bid you to go do the grocery shopping the evening before when you noticed that she needed gas in her vehicle. You anticipated that need and filled up the tank on your way home from the store, knowing that she would not have to bother stopping on her way to work on this glorious morning of serving her once more. You've imagined that she will smile when she sees that you have once more anticipated her needs when she starts up the car.

She wakes and you've already made her hot tea that she loves to sip on as she prepares herself for a day at the office. You start her shower getting it to the right temperature and then wait just outside the bathroom door knowing that she will hand you her half full coffee cup as she walks by toward the bathroom.

As she showers, you get her clothing ready as she had instructed, making sure that everything is in order just for her. You insure that her briefcase and purse are ready for her departure. You hear the shower turn off and rush with light hearted steps to meet her as she steps out of the shower, knowing that in a few moments you will bare the honor of drying her body from her morning shower.

Once you have completed drying her body, you then follow her into the bedroom where you assist her in dressing. You strap on her heels and kiss her feet in appreciation of just being in her presence. You look up and she is smiling at you. Your heart lurches forward knowing that you have once again pleased her. You whisper in adoration, "Beautiful."

She has contacted you during the day giving you orders of what is needed before you both return home from work. You always return before her as she works long hours to further her career. You clean up so that she may walk into a clean home. Flowers that you picked up as a special gift for her are arranged on the table just as she likes them. You know that she will smell them as soon as she walks in the door.

Glancing at the clock, you notice that it's almost time for her arrival. You prepare a glass of ice tea and prepare a bath for your Goddess to soak in. You greet her at the door with your eyes down cast; not because she has ordered it but to tone down the excitement that you have in seeing her once again.

"Mmm...flowers," she says and smiles as you take her briefcase and purse, putting them away. She goes into the bathroom and you assist her undressing, knowing she's anticipating a lushious bath that you have prepared for her complete with a few drops of Almond Oil, which is her favorite fragrance. She emerses her body in the water, and without her having to say a word, you begin to rub her shoulders and neck; easing the stress of the day. You lovingly wash every inch of her body and stop to worship her feet with tender caresses, kisses and licks.

How will you spend the day serving your Goddess?

Goddess

A goddess is a female deity. Often deities are part of a polytheistic system that includes several deities in a
pantheon. In some cultures goddesses are commonly associated with the Earth, motherhood, love, and the household, often reflecting the historical gender roles of that culture. In other cultures, goddesses may also be associated with functions such as war, death, and destruction as well as healing. A goddess also can be immortal.

When you think of a Goddess, what do you invision? Perhaps a woman of authority, loveliness, devine control and one who dotes upon her followers? How would you worship such a Goddess? Would you bow down to her, bring her offerings that would please her, perform services for her, sit at her feet if she let you, strive to be the follower that she herself deserves, and talk to her and study her to know her better bringing you closer to her? Would you not do what is in your power to be asked by her to step into her presence? Wouldn't you have her to guide you upon your path in life?

What would your Goddess do for you as a devoted and adoring follower and worshiper? Would she not give you the desires of your heart? Would she not shape and mold you with her and your best interests at heart? Would she not dicipline you with a stern but nurturing hand? Shouldn't she be your source of comfort, yet also your conviction?

A submissive should know his Domme, but a Domme should know her submissive. It's a relationship, just as it is between a Goddess and her followers. There is give and take for both parties. Unfortunately, the industry and porn has skewed the perception of a true D/s relationship. While play has it's part, the mind and heart are not to be ignored. A loyal submissive, is a happy submissive.

I've seen a lot of submissives refer to themselves as a lower life form and nothing. I do not view submissives in this way, nor will I ever. I think those that can truly open themselves up, stop focusing solely on the kink and find themselves in giving service are indeed beautiful creatures to behold.

The Choice

You've awoke today, opened your eyes, rolled over and groaned. Knowing you had to get up and fix your Goddess her morning tea like you've been doing every morning for the past year. Life has settled in and the newness and excitement that you experienced within that first year has worn off. The "Honeymoon" phase is over. The daily normal grind of work, chores and just daily life in general has become the norm.

As much as you adore her and want to serve her, you can't help but to think, "I wish she would get her own damn tea this morning."

 However, as you rub the sleep from your eyes, you make a choice. You choose to get up and make your Goddess her cup of tea. You choose to worship her in this way and do all the things that you know will make her happy and that she deserves. Ultimately, you choose to serve her even though you don't feel like it at that moment.

 This is how relationships of any kind are. We make the choice to do things to sustain those relationships even if we don't feel like it to insure that we are meeting the needs of the other person involved and nurturing the bond. When we stop making that choice, then the relationship will begin to crack. Just like concrete, it only takes a crack to allow in moisture that will expand that crack and eventually break it apart.

 Submission is a choice. Have you made wise choices today?

Name

Location

Willing to relocate or not

Profile name

Profile website

INTRODUCTION & OBJECTIVE

Introduction of who you are and what your goal is.  This should be written as a short and simple paragraph. 

The introduction can include:

• Gender
• Sexual Orientation
• Your role identification: sub, slave, switch, kinkster

Your goal can include things such as:

• Serving preference:  tpe, 24/7, part time, scening, play partner, etc.
• Looking for:  Goddess, Mistress, Master, Dom, Domme, Mommy, Owner, etc.

This section is your opportunity to be creative.  It’s the first thing that a possible Owner will see.

SKILLS

This is where you can list skills that you have for service.  This can include things like the following:

• Cooking
• Cleaning
• Auto mechanics
• Massage
• Manicures and Pedicures
• Woodworking
• Personal Assistant

Keep this limited and only highlight things that you are honestly, truly skilled in.  There will be an opportunity to list things that you hope to become skilled in later.

LIFESTYLE EXPERIENCE

Here is where you will list your history of service.  Again, keep this simple and to the point. Here is an example of how you might list these:

2002  - 6 months

Domestic Service slave

Part-time service/separate living situation

• Served Goddess twice a week, more if jobs allowed and there was need
• Responsible for cleaning living areas
• Maintained garden, automobiles
• Performed weekly Manicures and Pedicures
• Served at dinner parties
• Ran outside errands as needed

2004-2006

Sexual, Domestic slave

24/7 – Live in slave

• Responsible for all household chores per schedule
• Performed weekly Manicures and Pedicures
• Served as whipping boy
• Oral service
• Chastity enforced
• Responsible for all household shopping

Hopefully, you’re getting the idea here. 

EDUCATION

This gives you an opportunity to list books that you’ve read, websites that offer information, conference training and so on and so forth.  It’s perfectly fine to leave this section out if you haven’t done much in this area. If you haven’t done much in the area of educating yourself in the lifestyle through reading, I encourage you to do so.  It is impressive when an un-owned sub/slave uses his time to learn more about the lifestyle he wants to experience.

SPECIFIC EXPERIENCE

Now for the really fun stuff.  Here you can list things that you have done, including fetishes and your level of experience, such as Expert, Moderate, Beginner.  Keep the levels simple and don’t go into details.  Only list things you’ve actually done and be honest about your experience.  Below is an example of how you can lay this section out:

• Flogging                      expert
• Spanking                     expert
• CBT                            moderate
• Foot worship               expert
• Ass worship                moderate
• Anal play                     beginner
• Bondage                      moderate

INTEREST

Here you can list things that you are interested in.  It might go something like this below:

• Water-sports
• Paddling
• Mummification
• Strap-on

Don’t go to crazy here and try not to let this be the biggest section of the resume unless you are inexperienced.  Even then, be careful not to over whelm in this section.  It can make it appear that your interests are more important than your potential Owner’s interest.  Just stick to the top 10 at the most.

You can add other categories and be fairly creative with this resume if you wanted to.  The point of it is to give a guideline, get the most important highlights out there and hopefully start an interview process (aka conversation).

Have fun!