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I seek a romantic, intense, intelligent Dom do they exist?
I am not looking for time wasters or people into it for the mind games. I am interested in something LTR and real. I am not into the one night stands. Or the man that is having mid-life crisis that wants a fling. I am looking for that "One". Means I am looking for the mixture of vanilla with D/s. I am not a slave and I dont go on my knee to anyone cause i am submissive. This means there needs to be a spark, a connection. I am straight and not into sharing. Means I am not Bi. Which means if your a Dommee..dont bother I am not interested.
I am old fashioned in my nature. I do consider myself a naturally submissive. Submission to me is part of who I am. It isnt something that i must act out. However, with that said I am interested in first starting as friends and moving from there. I don't want someone to rescue me or be that "savior". A man , Dom, needs to capture my mind before anything else. If you understand the true psychology of the lifestyle, that is what i seek.
I find individuals with ambition and action instead of just words are those that have done well in life. I am intellectual, extremely affectionate and sensual. I know intelligence comes in many forms. As far as education, at this moment I finished my Masters and maybe going for my Phd.
If you cant handle someone discreetly kissing (not omg give me a towel), holding hands and small physical sensual touching in public. Please move on I am not the right sub for you.
I am very affectionate.
Physically: I am not athletic, and I wouldn't say I am fit. I have southern Italian hips bit of an hour glass shape.. hence my name i chose. I been told I look like Greek goddess with my hair and body type.
Would I be willing to exercise and eat right with right person motivating me yes.
My personality is a nurturing behavior. Meaning if you ask me go get nice black dress for an occasion I would go out and buy three shirts for you and nothing for me. Yes, I need someone a bit firm and caring Master/DOm (One that is intelligent where we can chat preferable one that has seen allot of life and has traveled. This doesn't mean older, but mature.)
I am bit shocked about this but i am attracted more to a man that is taller then me. I don't mean to be shallow. I am also seeking someone in age range 35-45.
"There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything."
Nietzsche
What I can offer is me, someone that is romantic , nonjudgmental, caring and intellectual.
One that believes in unconditional love and understanding. In that my submitting is inherent.
Photo is available upon the creation of common interest. Meaning please refrain from mailing me for a photo, if we haven't communicated some prier.
I do not mean for this profile to sound like a list of demands. Rather a guideline to who I am and what I seek. To smooth the process for everyone. If me being knowledgeable about what i seek is a turn off for you. That i can understand, then we are not a good match.
I am always looking for new friends feel free in dropping a mail ^_^
***update***
Am not accepting ANY pms either ..
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I think I need to clarify things ..
I feel that D/s relationship occurs when there is a connection. As a submissive you need to feel safe, comfortable to be in a vulnerable state. This doesn't occur over night. So, why do most Dom's on here feel that a women need to be submissive to them as soon as they speak to them?
I want something real, long lasting RELATIONSHIP. A mixture of vanilla aspects with D/s undertone. When I mean D/s undertone I am not talking about sex. For this to occur I must feel spark, a deep connection. There is no cookie cutter list of what I like and that is where the connection is. Connection comes from within a person's soul. I want to be able to know what he is thinking and he knows what i am thinking when we are apart. That doesnt occur cause he might like spanking. So, why do men on here ask only about sexual things? To just jump into the D/s with out knowing the person. Are they that afraid an individual wont like them so then want to dominant the person sexually. That way they never see the person for who they are?
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So, I get a mail from a Poly Dom looking for a slave. In it he states:
Yes, he exists, but it might require abandoning some preconceived notions and embracing the unconventional.
Now is it just me, doesn't that sound arrogant to tell another person what they are looking for is wrong. I would never judge an of my poly friends. I know they would never judge me. |
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Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. Mahatma Gandhi
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Why do some dominants ask for a word be present in the first mail a person sends? Do they really expecting person to submit blindedlly with out knowing? |
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So I just had a nudge by a friend that pretty much said I was quite shy and old fashioned. I thought about this. This person only knows me from this site my personality comes through that much. I see so many intrigue profiles but I am bit to shy to message. Is it wrong to feel that if the man reads my profile and interest is there he would message me?? I have heard that this isn't fair some men are a bit to shy as well and are waiting for the same thing. So, do I just not read profiles any more ?? |
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Communication is vital in any relationship friendship, bdsm, g/f b/f. If some one can not communicate well to others that they are not interested. How then can they communicate to some one they are?
In a way lack of communication is sabotaging ones own prospects in life. |
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Internet relationships: Miss communication happens all the time, but when does a persons words become just that smoothing talking? Is it fair for someone to try make another person believe they are special, When they are others in the wing?
Maybe I am just quite old fashioned. When you court someone you only court that one person. Courting meaning asking to be girlfriend , speaking of how they cant wait till we meet, making them feel special.
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Surrender means surrendering who you are not, so that who you really are may
emerge. You are not what you think, you are not what you believe, you
are not what you like or dislike. Those are the adopted filters which
speak through you. -Yogi Amrit Desai
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Destiny
Somewhere there waiteth in this world of ours
For one lone soul another lonely soul
Each choosing each through all the weary hours
And meeting strangely at one sudden goal.
The blend they, like green leaves with golden flowers,
Into one beautiful and perfect whole;
And life's long night is ended, and the way
Lies open onward to eternal day.
~Edwin Arnold
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If you are miles away and want a LDR.
Which I am fine with, am a believer that they can work.
If both parties have open communication. Are also on the same page mind and heart wise.
If you seek a LDR please be damn sure you can handle it and believe that chat is real.. it is not virtual for everyone.
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I decided to leave yesterday in the past and look forward to tomorrow.
With that said i will like to make some things perfectly clear:
I am Not looking for online only.
My main goal is for a real time LTR relationship. Meaning online chat in time becomes real time.
I am Not looking for poly.
My main goal is to find that One Dominant.
My Desires:
To find that One person, for a connection. One that I can open my self
to mind, body and heart. I do not open my self up to anyone.
I truly feel that BDSM is about connection in every form. For me a connection far greater then just friendship.
If you are seeking just friendship play online. I am Not the person for you
With this all said.. i ask you read my profile in its entirety.
I do not submit to someone that just ask me to or to egoistical mails.
You need to capture my mind, my body and heart follow my mind.
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Just meet another player on here.. this time I must admit i am happy to have friends on here that watched after me...
Unfortunately, it has made me quite distrustful of others.. and jaded.
I hope I can bounce back from it but I am making no promises.
This sums up things:
"If you search for tenderness it isn't hard to find. You can find the love you need to live.
I can always find someone to say they sympathize, if i wear my heart out on my sleeve.
But, I don't want some pretty face to tell me pretty lies.
All i want is someone to Believe.
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Just wanted to say I have meet some very nice people on CM. Some I may never meet in person. Do hope they find their perfect match.
One day I hope to meet someone in person ..
First key is is faith that person is kind heart-ed and true to heart to create a nice communication to help build on trust.
Then from there trust is built and friendship becomes more ...
And when it becomes more ..the path is open to many more things .. in that is meeting the person and the joys for wich that would bring.
still working on the first part ... lol
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Another moment that sums it up for me:
In my life there's been heartache and pain
I don't know if I can face it again
Cant stop now, Ive traveled so far
To change this lonely life
I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me
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This sums up things:
"If you search for tenderness it isn't hard to find. You can find the love you need to live.
I can always find someone to say they sympathize, if i wear my heart out on my sleeve.
But, I don't want some pretty face to tell me pretty lies.
All i want is someone to Believe.
I can find a lover.
I can find a friend.
I can have security until the bitter end.
Anyone can comfort me with promises again..
I know .. I knoww
When I want sincerity tell me where else can I turn .
Cause your the one I depend upon."
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Someone told me what i seek i shall never find on CM.
This has me thinking..
I have been attracting allot of older gentleman. Not that is a bad thing. However, I do seek to find someone to settle with, husband / father Dom. One that is willing to be there for the children not sit and watch me. Maybe i needed to clarify that.
However, I think the person might be right. CM is a place of rarity to find a true lasting relationship.
Do i dare say it maybe vanilla I shall return to..
to be continued ......
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This isnt toward any one .. but why is it that some men out there feel I should submit to them just because:
- They like/intrigued by my profile
- They always wanted a goddess sub
- My likes are their likes
- They love my Nietzsche quote
My life does not stop because someone likes my profile. You will not become the center of my world because my Nietzsche quote impressed you.
As much as a sub should work hard to be that "one" for submission. A Dom should work hard in getting to know a person as well.
Cause when i do find that "One" that I will submit to and He becomes the center of my world. Will not only be because he has a cock in between his legs.
Maybe I am nit picky and need someone with Honor, Dignity, Respect, not just for others but for himself as well.
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I have spent all day pretty much cleaning a sewage flood. I am now thinking I should make sewage flood clean up a hard limit watersport.
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I have taken my photo down. Based on the feeling that I rather attract Doms that are interested in an individuals mind rather then looks.
Which means a person would need to read my profile to understand me more.
Yes, a picture is worth a thousand words, but actions are worth more then words.
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| Age: 36 |
| Atlanta,
Georgia |
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