I understand the gift that you present to One that is knowing of what it is that you desire. I will honor the trust and the gift that you present to the One that you serve. While I have been involved in all aspects of this lifestyle I have found as I get older that I am no longer interested in the complete servitude that is offered by many. I am more interested in the "lighter" aspects of the BDSM lifestyle and am not interested in delivering total pain or humiliation. If you are indeed interested in One that understands what you offer or are interested in discussing the lifestyle please feel free to contact me.