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Now that I have sporadically visited CS for a little while now, I need to update my profile and revise the reasons for my expedition here.
PLEASE READ – It will avoid a lot of repetitive explanation and hopefully spark up a sharing for those intrigued.
I am an intellectually mature man, extremely well educated (perhaps in excess) . Multilingual (Chinese and Hindi, and very poor French and German). If you seek someone with sadistic tendencies or a person who gets hot being violent and abusive, then I am definitely not for you.
My professional career is very vanilla, nationally and internationally public yet controversial (politically, environmentally, socially, scientifically, spiritually). I value and take great pride in my career, which is very important to me and for being anchored into a sense of purpose. It requires me to sustain an aggressive stance in the face of considerable public opposition. Naturally this passes over into areas of my life, including my interests of dominance here. Ergo, I will be discreet and perhaps rather secretive about what I do until I am certain a trust has been firmly established.
I am fortunate to be world traveled (years throughout Asia) and rich in a vast array of life and sexual experiences. My interests include culinary gourmand indulgence; aimless meanderings in nature and travel; experimenting with organic gardening, absented minded scribbling (journalism and writing is a large part of my daily life, so complete sentences can go a long way with me); a disdain for televised team sports and a retreat into surfing, skiing, jogging, and tai chi; spacing out on my inner void; spontaneous sojourns for narcissistic bliss, and mindless acts of compassion.
Yet my artistic sensual leanings are towards a balance of East and West, the way of nawa-shibari rope and binding play, sensory deprivation, body worship, tantra and open-hearted creative exploration of dominance and submission.
This lifestyle for me is part of my art of living. But I don't permit it to define my life nor who I am. I resist identifying with its popular stereotypes that limit spontaneity and excludes other forms of sensual energy exchange, personal growth and developing a relationship that is beautiful in other exquisite ways. Therefore along with some BDSM arts, I seek a balance of East and West, including the psychological and mental, tantric disciplines, and creative sexuality that explores the wordless presence that can unfold in D/s and M/s relations, and a desire to adventure where they all converge. It is the best of both worlds, and romance and affection, nurturing and care have their place as well, even under a heavy hand.
I prefer to find a woman who is comfortable and accepting of herself, eager to pursue her private passions and interests in order to discover fulfillment, and who relishes the preciousness and awe of living. Domination requires a trust every bit as sincere and conscious as the one subdued. Then the deeper energies unfold. Monotony is death for deeper relationships when growth is a goal, and I want that to be equally true in continuing this life style with a partner/lover. As one among other life paths, it requires a commitment and devotion to a partner not just a quick shag.
My Turn offs: Racists, bigots, fooled-again fundamentalists, deranged patriots, and people who don’t reason for themselves and allow the media, entertainment and political propaganda to do all their thinking for them. Those who confuse trump with a messiah or avatar.
“Cling to the feet of a master who can introduce you to yourself” – Swami Veda Bharati
Chinese Yellow Emperor (3rd century BC): "loving bondage as long as it does not degrade the soul."
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