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| Hey there!
I'm a switch guy in western Colorado. I've been involved in kinky stuff since I was a kid, and always have found it a lot of fun!
While there isn't much of a 'scene' around here, I've had a few great experiences (mostly as the dom) over the years.
I'm easygoing, and have a pretty normal life. I like to think I'm fun!
I'm interested in both real and online play, as dom, sub, or switch. I know some people find online play a bit silly, and yeah, it sure can be. But, it can also be a lot of fun, with the right partner!
My preferences run mostly to the physical-- shibari, toys, clamps, gags, that kind of thing. Mental bondage and humiliation/slavery are also intriguing, but it would have to be a long-term relationship.
Ideally, I'd like to start with just fun casual play, and see if we click and can build on it. In a perfect world, I'd have a monogamous switch girl, and we'd take turns trading roles and being creative.
Of course, this isn't to say that I wouldn't enjoy just some plain old no-strings kinky experimentation.
As a dom, some of my favorite things are rope bondage and shibari, using vibrators and other toys on my sub, feet and leg bondage, gags, and light to medium pain. Also, artistic bondage, with colored ropes, tape, paint, wax, that kind of thing. And it's so much fun to force a girl to orgasm.
As a sub, I have to confess I don't have as much experience. My 'likes' include a lot of the same bondage I like to do as a dom, shibari, ropes, tape, etc. I also enjoy anal, and have tried a few toys. CBT is okay, as long as it isn't insanely painful, like ripping off clothespins. CB shibari is fun. I wouldn't mind trying chastity, either.
Online, as a dom, I like giving girls orders, creating elaborate selfbondage scenarios. I really try to be as creative as possible, using all kinds of improvised and storebought toys. I respect limits, but try to push the sub into a passive subspace bliss, so that the online barrier is almost gone-- her hands are my hands. What subs will do to themselves when ordered correctly is always more stringent than what I would do myself, in fact-- when someone is sincere about selfbondage, they'll push it all the way.
As a sub online, I like the same things as in real life. I've been doing selfbondage on and off for years, so I'm pretty good at it! I've also got a decent collection of homemade toys, like gags, plugs, etc. I like doing cam shows, but the chemistry with the domme is critical. I'm not a huge fan of "Do it NOW, slave!" unless I know you. There has to be a give and take, but if I want to please you, I'll do almost anything.
Now, a brief Q and A--
Best real life experience as a Dom? A camping trip with a sub, and a lot of rope.
Best online dom experience? Knowing a fun sub girl for many years, and putting her in hundreds of shibari positions, with all kinds of fun extras and toys.
Best real life exp as sub? Foot worship for an old girlfriend, while tied and blindfolded.
Best online sub experience? Doing a long selfbondage show for a cute Aussie girl, including ropes and toys and other things you'll have to ask about.
Wildest real life dom exp? Taking a sub to lunch with a harness and plug under her clothes.
Wildest online sub experience? A six hour session with lots of tape bondage, three rope harnesses, ice cubes, plugs, and culminating with a frogtied enema. It was extreme, but kind of fun.....
Anyway, I'll add more later! Message me?
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