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Male Dominant, 42, Manchester, Connecticut
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Male Dominant, 50
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About Give23
Im not here to find anyone,.. so if you get offended because you get no reply get over it. Now back to reality, for those who can handle Reality....
The duality of ourselves naturally exist,... and can be expressed ?in the physical through sex. However,?sex is not the intent.?
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The intent is embracing all of yourself; ?every aspect both masculine and feminine?energy?and being able to express your whole self in every aspect of your life. Then you can share that duality with another person.
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Fear and anger?block?the expression of duality. What does this mean?
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Often women experience hardship in relation to men and harbor anger and or fear. This anger and or fear blocks her from expressing her feminine?receiving energy. Thus, she may feel predominantly safe expressing the masculine energy inside herself as the giver always needing to be in control.? Sometimes leading to a sadistic nature of needing to feel Superior in ruler ship over another person.? Men can display the same nature when they subdue their feminine energy of being receptive. The also have a strong need to be in total control ruler ship because of their anger and or fears from experiencing hardship in relation to women.
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To the opposite end lies the idea of only submitting.
Some men and women experience extreme degradation by another person. This person could very well be a parent or sibling. It doesn't necessarily have to be someone they've experienced in a relationship.
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Their experience of degradation is translated into fear or the experience of having to always deny themselves of pleasure. The majority of their pleasure is received indirectly because they may often feel undeserving. Disempowered
Some may even say its a form of laziness.
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Its easier to accept the degradation of others than to?reject the negative lies society tells you are real about yourself.? Stand and discover life for yourself and what is truth.
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Because society says your inferior because your penis is small doesn't make that a truth for you. That's their truth. Its doesn't have to be your truth unless you make it yours.
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Sex is beautiful; love is greater
Love is
1 Corinthians 13:4
?Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.??Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
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Have you ever wondered what makes you the way your are? What makes you crave what you crave? Do we ever take the time to thing about ourselves and what's causing us to do the things we do, enjoy the things we enjoy? Or do we just find ourselves following our desires with thinking about the root of our desires.
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Once I was considered a submissive especially involving black men,.. then I realized that wasn't truly me. Then I tried being a dominant with white men and discovered that's not really either.
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So, I went back to the so called vanilla world and discovered that not me either. After a while I started to wonder what I am I doing living a life without thinking about whats really driving me.?
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Then it came to me that we are all created with both energies of Ying and Yang/ Masculine and Feminine. When you become free of fear and anger you blossom into a being a light.
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You can then express love at its highest level, by exchanging both masculine and feminized energy. You will begin to practice a harmonious level of both giving and receiving in your relationships at that point your relationships will start to grow as you grow.
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When two people understand this concept they can experience true love in its most balanced form.? |
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