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Really, I would say I just like kinky and unconventional sex. Though who is to say what is unconventional or what is kinky. To each their own. I never judge someone's sexual predilictions. I don't like everything, but if it gets you off and doesn't harm anyone - go for it. I may sit back and watch. I have a need to be in control, in all aspects of my life, but I don't want a slave. I would like someone who is kinky, but submissive sexually. Someone who is open to trying new things and wants variety in her life. Someone with a brain and an opinion. The saying was the perfect women is a lady in public, a cook in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom. I don't need the cook, but I will take the other two in one package. Someone classy, intelligent and kinky. I spent three years with a submissive/slave. It was mentally exhausting...for me. She would do anything I wanted, but wouldn't do anything without being told first. So, I had to plan every aspect of everything and state what I wanted done constantly. That was both fun and exhausting. That would be great if it were the occasional or weekly get together, but full time, I am not sure I am up for that again. I would like someone a little more independence than that. Someone submissive, not a slave. I also don't like all these titles, rules, names, etc. that has become the BDSM community. I am a non-conformist, so if you tell me there's a rule, then there is a good chance I will break it, just to spite the rule maker. I like younger women, but I am probably more confortable around women closer to my age. If young people would just live by the adage,"you're here to be seen and not heard" life would be great.