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ginGerF21

Male Submissive, 28, guildford
gingerbenn
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Male Switch, 37, london
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About ginGerF21

I am a very submissive minded person with a streak of feistyness. I love to flirt, tease, and generally have fun with people I talk with.

I prefer intellectually minded Dominants, higher education in any field gets my attention, however this is not the only way of measuring intellect. As I get to know you, this will become self-evident.

You are a very strong dominant. You are secure in this, and do not feel you have to control my every move to assert your dominance. You do not have a depressed outlook on life, and enjoy most anything you do.

When I find you, I will adore the very ground you walk upon. I love to touch and be touched, and am open minded and adventurous.

Please, lets get to know each other....and understand, it takes much more than a few emails or chats to really get to know someone....



Update: Please do not get upset if i do not answer your email. I only respond to people within a reasonable distance of where I am. I am also not looking for men more than a decade younger than myself.

Stepping back from the lifestyle for a bit...  I'll respond to emails, if they interest me enough, but I'm not actively searching for a dominant right now.
Gawd!  Please...someone just shoot me now!  Going back vanilla is just too much of a culture shock.  I need some strong, assertive Dom to come and rescue me....lol.
....In a strange mood today....  I've been thinking about taking a leave of absence from all this BDSM stuff.  Not that I haven't enjoyed getting to know the good people I've met, and even meeting a few of them in person, but I think i need the time to slow down, step back, regain more of a sense of self.  I'll always have my kinky and submissive side, but would like the opportunity to explore some vanilla relationships without any expectations of...well, just expectations.
Well Finally!  I've finished the bathroom!  It had been functional for a while, but needed the baseboard and trim.  I couldn't seem to get myself to finish it....then I went to Lowes and found a gorgeous new sink which matches my new tile.  Bought it, took out the old sink, painted the old white vanity cabinet a chocolate brown color (i know....its the color of s**t, but...i like it) ...put everything back and am pleased as punch with the results!!!!!!
There are times when one second guesses themselves and what they really want out of life.  I seem to be doing this a lot lately.  One the one hand, I am calm, centered, sure of myself and reasonably content with my lot in life.  On the other hand....i know that there is something significant missing.  Maybe more than one thing....besides the significant relationship.  There could be the significant career, which eludes me.  I just can't decide what i want to be when i grow up.  I've tasted many types of careers, and am proficient in many, since the same basic skills of being successful is common to most...i.e. initiative, competence, attention to detail, responsibility , etc.  All in all, there should be some passion for what you do....and that is what seems to elude me.  I enjoy many fields, and have been employed in various positions, but there is not one i've found yet which totally engages my mind.  It is still out there...waiting.  And back to that significant relationship...., well, it too is still out there...waiting.
Wow....that bathroom project has gone from just removing the wallpaper and painting, to retiling the floor, replacing the trim, temporarily removing the...door, toilet, vanity, lights...and having to put them back again, replacing the faucet, towel racks, etc.  What was I thinking!!!!  Got a real mess on my hands, but its gonna look wonderful when everything is put back again....

Who knew it'd be so much fun!
Hope everyone has had a good holiday season.  Things have been good for me, but I seem to be a bit on the lazy side for all the time I've had off from work.  Wanted to get a few projects done, but can't seem to get started on them!  ....Nothing too extreme, just taking down the wallpaper in the bathrom and replacing it with a good neutral paint job, installing a recessed light in my laundry area, perhaps even painting my kitchen...   nah!
How does one go about meeting people and get to the point of not being available to others?  ...is it from the start of a new relationship, or at a certain point when your future with another looks promising.  I guess everyone struggles with this at one time or another....

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