AH yes I am an INTJ... go look it up... it is about 80 percent accurate, so to know it is to know me well.
The basics... I am single, have a house, have more than one degree of education, own my own business and just recently got back into the great ocean that is CM after getting myself truly ready to lead a woman.
Look, cm seems to think if your talking to someone for more than 2 messages its spam. Dont know why, but generally I get on here to chat.. and boom dead.
my skype and yahoo: lynx0880 if i lose anyone mid conversation.
Dont mistake kindness for weakness... I can be quite sadistic in my pursuits... but if I do not know you, I will not just start barking at you or humiliate you... bring that out in me then you will see :P
You know, I have had a long thing up about me for a while... I think now I will distill it down:
I am single now, fought off 2 years of chemo and cancer after 12 years in Army Special Ops.
I have over 10 years of experience in training subs, even give on occasion lectures at different communities about the psychology of the submissive.
I have done it ALL, or seen it done... Literally. Like extreme? Pain? Daddy? Gor? Tried them all over the years and have enjoyed facets of them all.
Ah yes a blast from the past, over 5 years ago... I used to be cool
I get a number of messages and send them... Unlike , cm doesnt filter messages from friends with those I talk to outside my circle.
So if I messaged you and it activated the spam filter here, then feel free to mail me at joe.dip75@gmail or just skyp me at lynx0880 thanks!
From a 19th century book on human relations: Human ingenuity, my friend, has hithero only discovered two ways in which a man can manage a woman. One way is to knock her down -- a merhod largely adopted by the brutal lower orders of the people, but utterly abhorrent to the refined and educated classes above them. The other way (much more difficult, but on tbe end no less certain) is never to accept provocation at a woman's hands. It holds with animals, it holds with children, and it holds with women, who are nothing but children grown up. Quiet resolution is the one quality the animals, the children, and the women all fail in. If they can once shake his superior quality in their master, they get the better of him. If they can never suceed in disturbing it, he gets the better of them.
Frankely my dear... I give a damn. The sooner you accept and internalize that the sooner we will get along.
So yes.. next stop is a new sailboat that I need to prepare to basically sail the world in. Yes I have the money and I am dead serious. Tri hull catamaran with two state rooms its basically a sailing yacht. Goimg to do some shorter trips to central and south america over the next few years... any sub or others want to be travelling companions? Need to have a passport and I have room for two ladies. Bonus if you speak other languages.
Well revamped and updated the profile... decided to try a new twist. I did it from my phone so forgive any oversite on my part. I travel a lot these days my ship came in and I am a free bird enjoying it!
Wow really a year since I posted? Well ladies I hope you have a great next year :P Here is a picture just taken yesterday so it is current.
This spam filter thingy.. driving me nuts. I get into a few good conversations via email for a day and BAM next thing you know I cant write anymore... Sigh, for any girl interested hit me up on yahoo... or aim... lynx0880
Dominance does NOT equal Domineering.
Control does NOT equal Controlling.
Too many do not understand the Alpha Male is Dominant and Controlling.
The ladies know it...
Just updated the profile... go reread it HA!
Not really here looking much for more than a good time and some interesting conversation.
Ever hear of Mystery, Matador or any of the other pick up artists? Real Social Dynamics?
Generally I dont admit this, but I do some teaching at their bootcamps.
So Happy New Years.
My resolution:
To be the man I was fated.
There is a storm coming.
Some people need to be protected from themselves.
Some people just need to have faith.
Some shells cancel each other out...
Some people are too powerful for their own good.
Some people need to learn to let go.
Some people need to learn to trust.
Some people swim up stream.
Some people run even when they should know not to.
I will let go.
I will have faith.
But, how will I protect.
Somethings are out of our hands.
I can only hope the faith I show is rewarded.
There is a storm coming...
No matter how far down the wrong road we travel, it is never too late to turn back.
What a clusterfuck.
Shin splints... my own fault too hard to not run for a long time then try to jump right back into running 5 miles.
Keeping up with these young bucks. I dont remember it hurting this bad in the past.
14 transfer approvals in 2 days. Thats some hard core paperwork. All guys who heard I was taking a company to the box.
My inbox has 32 more to do. Apparently I have impacted that many people I could fill this company with my name alone.
I have to start denying guys now, hard on that, most these guys are good fucking dudes.
Fuck i gotta be up in less than 5 hours to run again. I hurt, I just finished memos, and icing my shins.
Fuck its good to be back in the hot seat.
So, looks like Afghanistan is still on the menu. Just in a different capacity.
Gotta love the Army. I dont do shit for 2 years but show up for fun jumps and do what I want... and they reward me with a promotion and spin me up on orders.
Less than a year left and I get activated at the bequest of no less than Gen. Stanley McCrystal himself.
If that aint good enough in its infinite wisdom I am taking over a company. Yea, me... A fucking Company... thats 150 dudes. Well I guess "Top" fits me. Not just any company. The new theater wide QRF and LRSD company. I just might get that halo combat jump that is the holy grail of all bad asses.
So I will be mucho busy the next few months with my new charge.
I will make 8 in less than 14 now thats a fucking fast track yo~!
So I get the lovely charge of being responsible for 150 of Americas sons... Talk about a humbling thought.
The funniest part was the calls I got from people who found out before I did... and the subsequent number of transfers to my unit coming down the pipes of guys who only want to deploy with me...
That is even more humbling.
Guess all the kiddos I have taught over the years I made quite the impression. Not bad for a 5'5 certified bad ass! lol
FUCK I gotta cut my hair.
Me? I am thankful for life. Not just its ups, but its downs as well. I learned alot with my last mistake.
She was great, and opened alot of doors for me I was not expecting.
Do it is really because of her that I have achieved the personal growth I am enjoying now.
So, even with her lack of forgivness, I still thank her, after all we like people for thier perfections, we love them for thier flaws.
Honestly, I would not be the man I am today if it wasnt for the relationship, and the break up after. After all, its not how we handle success, it is how hard you can get the fuck hit you can take and how you get up after that defines our character.
Everything happens for a reason, this was for the best.
So I hate having live footage or recordings of me... after all the tape isnt that forgiving. But, here is an opening a while ago. I did damn well, and I dont let much of my work go out in public so here you go... I will let you digest it.
A new pic, change is the only constant in the world. Thats me all sweaty after my nightly Martial Arts: Kenpo. Fun times, nothing like expending that energy. Pics of my new tattoo will be coming.
Yep but we take that blue energy and turn it into something real.
Think on that... Besides, a blue needs to be needed. Its thier whole point in existing.
So whats my life like now?
Work , then I go to Martial Arts.
Thats about it lol M / W are Kenpo Weapons class. Tues / Thurs are forms class, and Muay Thai sparring class.
Fri is my day of rest
Sat is Thai Chi, and Kenpo swords.
All full contact.
Helping the local Dojo start up a MMA class throw in the ground fighting aspect etc.
Should be fun. Best way to move on, get the crap beat out of you on a daily basis. The physical pain will at least numb the inside lol.
I am not looking to love you at this moment. Just own you.
Love might come later.
But dont expect it. You can expect to meet a knowledgeable and experienced alpha male.
Just randomness, but I think I would like to collar a Porn star. Like a REAL porn star. Something about a girl being that slutty, yet still my property does give me an evil tingle. Shivers. Fun.
There would not happen to be an hard core porn star sluts, uncollared, and single running around here hmm?
Wearing only his leather bindings, and collar; crawling on her hands and knees up some stairs, begging just for a taste... Wheres that on the menu?? I ll take 2!
Two words, eight little letters. Neither particularly powerful ALONE. Whispered together, claim a soul: "Good Girl."
--Me
I was inspired, its rough but its original. I am amazed at this crazy thing called life. LOL How it can go from Great, to Shit, then suddenly Great again. WTF over! LOL It can happen to anyone at any time. Live honorably, have integrity, exhibit a bit of faith, pray for some luck and who knows what can happen.
So, yes, had something very real... amazingly connected.
Yes, I screwed up. How many Master's admit that.
After all the title is Master not superman!
But, I learned from it. I dont make the same mistake twice.
Kindness, not weakness...
Well, had a great relationship, but stuff just did not work out. So, looking again... sigh. So drop me a line chances are I am either going out with the band or hanging out.