gevurah

When it comes to my kink, I sometimes feel like a bit of a contradiction. I'm a sadist, but I'm also a service top: I love inflicting pain (and engaging in various other kinks), but I only enjoy it fully if my bottom is thoroughly enjoying it as well. The sensual basics--kissing, cuddling, exploring bodies--are every bit as important to me as sex or kink. I'm a top and a feminist. I think that sexuality is both dirty (if you're doing it right!) and sacred.

I practice ethical non-monogamy, and I'm currently involved in a committed long-term relationship. I'm primarily looking for new friends and play partners, but I'm open to other things developing from that as well. I suppose the bottom line is that I like to have a variety of cool, fun people in my life and to let those relationships seek their own level. If you'd like to know more about me, my username on OkCupid is Tzaphqiel. If you like what you see and think we'd enjoy getting to know each other, feel free to send me a message.