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Male Submissive, 59, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 35, Ontario
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Female Submissive, 31
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About gazingupward
I want to say this right up front, because it is important. I am married. Actually let me add to that by saying I am happily married. My wife is a domme and we lead a female led relationship together. We are also polyamorous, which means that she and I are both free to explore other relationships. So am I available for building a meaningful, powerful relationship and having fun times? ABSOLUTELY. Am I marriage material or available to give my entire life to someone? No. Absolutely not. So if a fun, meaningful ongoing relationship that isn't the be all and end all of your existence is what you are looking for, then I hope you will read on. :) Oh and I'm not seeking a financial domme arrangement. Not passing any judgment on that - it's just not for me.
OK, now that all the disclaimer stuff is out the way, let's get this show on the road.
I'm seeking a dominant woman or couple to serve. I respond eagerly to humiliation and harsh treatment, both of which fill me with a deep desire to humbly serve. Rather than inflicting yet another exhaustive list of all things kinky, I'm going to keep it short and sweet - I am a sapiosexual submissive. That means, if your kink (be it pain, dressing me up, having me do the dishes naked or a million other things besides) has some psychological dimension to it --- if the activity itself is just the tip of an iceberg of psychological power play --- then I will be into it. :) I seek the meaning behind things.
Seek only the surface of things and you'll likely not get the best out of me. Desire the essence of me; the true meaning of what I am and piece by painful piece I will give you that power. I'll place myself, vulnerable and exposed, in the palm of your hand, just for your amusement. All for you. ;)
Beyond all that kinky stuff though, I'm a good-natured, gentle guy who genuinely gets a kick out of actually, truly properly getting to know people. That part of me goes way beyond kink or sex. I just enjoy forging new connections with people and finding some mutual enrichment, be that in the form of a scintillating conversation, shared cooking recipes or vigorous debate over who was the best Dr Who (Tom Baker, if you're curious. Yes I am old school.)
I love intelligent, friendly, smart and demanding dominants. If that is you, and you seek an equal and opposite force to push against and ultimately subdue and bend however you see fit, then I may well be the droid you are looking for. *wink*
My parting message: I am friendly. I'm not jaded. I'm happy in life. I welcome you to chat with me. |
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