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About Gaysian
ME
To start, I could not tell you who or what I am aside from saying "I am me." I believe in just being myself. Many people strive to meet a standard in society in order to fit into a community and/or workspace. I do not follow such things. Sure, I believe in absolute professionalism at a job site, but my personal life is my personal life. If someone has to say something against it, tough titties. Whenever someone asks me to describe myself, insults me, or even compliments me, I acknowledge that I am just "me." I do not try to be offending, I do not try to be flattering. I am merely me.
RELATIONSHIPS
The only true relationship for me right now is with my fiancee. She and I are steady (going into our fourth year together now). We have a steady play partner. We're fine with play partners on the side, preferably those of the same sex, but we're not looking for actual relationships outside of mentoring and tutoring at this time. I may be a bottom, but I'm only truly submissive to one person so don't think for a moment that I will be collared, owned, or turned into either a slave or pet. Believe you me, I will turn the tables on you.
PLAY PARTNERS
Those of you on my friends list know that my fiancee and I have entered an open relationship. By that, it doesn't mean we're freely available in the sense that anyone and everyone can come up and expect a scene. It means that we have our desires we wish to quench that we may not be able to do so with one another. She's into Role Playing, for instance. I am not. I am into group activities exploring exhibitionism; she is not. She likes both sexes; I am only male. I desire the male body at times; she has a female one.
As such, we are with the understanding that the two of us do not need to really speak to one another about interests outside of our relationship with one another. We trust that each of us will make sound judgments by ourselves and practice safety as well. We do have a few stipulations, though:
- NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS TO A PLAY PARTNER
- Stick to the same sex unless it's for a scene catering to a specific interest that a member of the opposite sex may be into as well.
- If it's a member of the opposite sex, we must both approve.
- The person(s)' sex does not matter if we choose to share.
- Do not share the same passion or anything of the like that we share together with another.
I think those are fairly self-explanatory. As such, I am on the hunt for men between the ages of 18 to 40 (exceptions can be made) that are fairly fit in body and definitely in mind and control. Sure, I'm cutting the boundaries relatively sharply, but this is a purely physical desire. For me, part of a scene with me involves the appreciation for the beauty of the one(s) involved with me. I see beauty far more in personality and heart than I do the body. I already have such beauty available, though, with my fiance. Therefore, I do not expect such beauty from a play partner. I'm seeking the superficial bit in more bias over inner beauty when it comes to people I don't intend to spend the rest of my life with.
Sex, yes, will most likely be a part of play with me. I like to start somewhere and work our way up to the ultimate of what I consider beautiful acts--intercourse. No, there will be nowhere as much passion to give the scene its true artistic highlight. However, I still like to see a climax worthy (in my eyes) of being on canvas. I know a lot of people are very self-conscious of personal image and also have performance anxieties (particularly after reading the words I wrote just before this statement). Remember, the beauty of it all is already there; you're a part of it if you're in that scene with me. |
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