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| To say who I am or what I want to me; is a waste of breath and typing. I can not tell you what I want. I can tell you that I know, no matter how strong the urge is, I can fight it every time. Being able to hide and run is a gift for some and a curse for me. I am able to argue with myself enough to avoid your insults and to un-wrap myself around your finger. I believe that you have to have a willingness to see who you are and work to become more. I also believe that if someone is really wanting you in their arms. They will not stop at a simple brush off. There is a fine line between psycho and intelligent. I can't tell you what I need for that would only be admitting that I need you. That I'm afraid can not happen, if I allowed you to know that, then it would leave me vulnerable to your whims. That can not happen because the only thing holding you here is your curiosity. Without that then you are gone and I'm left again, to put things back together. So, can I be owned? I don't know. Will I be what you are looking for? Who knows. I don't pretend to havve the answers and I do not have the patience to hear your opnions. Those are your short comings. I know I"m impatient and I know that if you are not honest and cunning minus deceit. Then it will never be. Im looking for more than your pretend sex, and rules. You got rules you had better be able to enforce them. Standing tall is not hard what is hard is staying tall when you are challenged. Fear, is the main contributor to people who challenge regardless of what they want to say or admit. Call me what you will, I know something you do not. I know me.
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I heard something very profound today. I suppose you want me to get to the point, so I will. I heard it in a song " We have the right to be loved." I thought that was interesting seeing that we have the right to bear arms. We have the right to freedom of speech. We have the right to seek legal council before a court hearing. We also have the right to have happiness in our own home. Along, with the right to do so many things. Funny how it never says we have the God given right to find and to be loved. Amazing isn't it that one minute in the middle of a thousand sounds and racket. I heard something so profound that it could change my life and everyone elses around me. I hope you find a moment of peace in your heart, your mind and your soul. Because only when we find true peace do we really find who we are and what we are. |
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I think I have it all figured out. I have the answer to everything. It is amazing how quickly this quick solution came to me. I will just move in with you. I'll break my lease, let my car get repoed, I'll buy my own ticket to see you, I'll adopt out my cat, kiss my mom and dad goodbye. I'll be on your doorstep by Monday morning. What?, you think that's to quick? You don't want a new responsibility? What, do you mean? I thought this is what you wanted? Well, good luck cause it ain't me. You want someone on your doorstep by monday keep looking. I love my cat and he was here before you not to mention, the car, the lease, and why would I come see you, maybe you should come see me. |
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SO FOR THE MAN; who wonders how to get his hands on that one? Try a soft approach if she refusses then you will have to step in. Make sure that you know what you are looking for, is what you are looking at. I myself deeter these movements easily , working and walking away is easy. However; it's so much harder when you have someone standing tall and true ans strong behind you. lol, yeppers this one is going to give in. Then she will realize she has not done anything alone that you were there the whole time. so just imagine would you rather scoop one up with no problems just pick them up and they just go with you vs. the other who is directed that lacks structure and you know se is your one. WHAT ARE ALL THE MEN DOING |
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Odd?, yeah I know. It really is just a string of thoughts. Maybe it will start something, I hope something good.
In the old day or ol ol old days.......when a man found a woman despite her submission being willing or the woman that had a bit of the tiger in her. They would go to her and gather her up then whisk her off. ( the poor, placid child, who needed someone to do for her what HE wished for her. The second female billigerant, hard headed, daring and challenging. The one you have called to you and she has disappeared. She will not come to your door with her bags packed. So, when does HE pack his bags go to her front door open it gather her things and , escort her quietly and placidly to where you wanted her. Yes, she will fight you in the car saying you don't know anything. You can simply sit back and watch her unfold infront of you. When her mouth winds downs her plethra's of what makees you think i will do what you want? WHat makes you think I'll ever answer to you? Just sit back and grin tell her that when the time comes all she has to do is ask for him....I think people miss my point. Two women two diifferent locations. So had you not come to them what part of this project could you actually reply too.
what about lady 1 quiet,demeur, weak, lack of self esteem. So, you pick her up, you gather her clothes, you stuff her into the car and you lay her quiety into the back seat where she whims quietly. Upon your arrival you gather her again. You lay her in a room with two maids to watch over her. After she was rested,bathed,dressed, and comfoted. She is now brought to you the way that you wanted her. The diffence is she is still your docile sweet child.
What about Lady 2. smart mouth,hard headed, self seficient, feels she needs no on e in her life. You see her and you know she does not want to go. Howeverl as hard headed as she is you can see the person is in need of exactly what you need. '
So, my question is this. For the men that see this an they want this. Why are not going to these women. Regardless of their self given strengths. You are not tyring to follow them you want to catch them and mold them. They all are moldable. THey are all fixable.
MEN: find her in public find her in private find what fits you then, quietly arrive and coddle those who need it and allow the others to walk away fust walk slowly behind them. The legs will grow weak and their body will become tired. It's simple they suffer from self sufficient; is it not you job to be there when she's on the gound and has no where to go. Do you let her continue to get things muddled or do you enter queitly in the middle of her rant offer a few encouraging words while you quietly pick up the mess. we know that you are going to havee to gather up you new mess. She is what you want though and you know in a few week you can have things organized and she can settle down. She can look to you . So, then the building begins. you take her and teach her trust , love, faith , ppatienceand understanding. It's not about recreating it is simply mixing and changing
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SO NO MORE MEN SAYING COME ON OVER HERE
INSTEAD NOW WOMEN SAY i DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED I JUST WOKE UP ONE DAY AND REALIZED THAT THIS LIFE FIT ME.
i AM SURE THERE IS AN ANSWER TO THESE ABOE THOUGHTS FEEL FREE TO EMAIL IF YOU LIKE.
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Odd?, yeah I know. It really is just a string of thoughts. Maybe it will start something, I hope something good.
In the old day or ol ol old days.......when a man found a woman despite her submission being willing or the woman that had a bit of the tiger in her. They would go to her and gather her up then whisk her off. ( the poor, placid child, who needed someone to do for her what HE wished for her. The second female billigerant, hard headed, daring and challenging. The one you have called to you and she has disappeared. She will not come to your door with her bags packed. So, when does HE pack his bags go to her front door open it gather her things and , escort her quietly and placidly to where you wanted her. Yes, she will fight you in the car saying you don't know anything. You can simply sit back and watch her unfold infront of you. When her mouth winds downs her plethra's of what makees you think i will do what you want? WHat makes you think I'll ever answer to you? Just sit back and grin tell her that when the time comes all she has to do is ask for him....I think people miss my point. Two women two diifferent locations. So had you not come to them what part of this project could you actually reply too.
what about lady 1 quiet,demeur, weak, lack of self esteem. So, you pick her up, you gather her clothes, you stuff her into the car and you lay her quiety into the back seat where she whims quietly. Upon your arrival you gather her again. You lay her in a room with two maids to watch over her. After she was rested,bathed,dressed, and comfoted. She is now brought to you the way that you wanted her. The diffence is she is still your docile sweet child.
What about Lady 2. smart mouth,hard headed, self seficient, feels she needs no on e in her life. You see her and you know she does not want to go. Howeverl as hard headed as she is you can see the person is in need of exactly what you need. '
So, my question is this. For the men that see this an they want this. Why are not going to these women. Regardless of their self given strengths. You are not tyring to follow them you want to catch them and mold them. They all are moldable. THey are all fixable.
MEN: find her in public find her in private find what fits you then, quietly arrive and coddle those who need it and allow the others to walk away fust walk slowly behind them. The legs will grow weak and their body will become tired. It's simple they suffer from self sufficient; is it not you job to be there when she's on the gound and has no where to go. Do you let her continue to get things muddled or do you enter queitly in the middle of her rant offer a few encouraging words while you quietly pick up the mess. we know that you are going to havee to gather up you new mess. She is what you want though and you know in a few week you can have things organized and she can settle down. She can look to you . So, then the building begins. you take her and teach her trust , love, faith , ppatienceand understanding. It's not about recreating it is simply mixing and changing
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SO NO MORE MEN SAYING COME ON OVER HERE
INSTEAD NOW WOMEN SAY i DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED I JUST WOKE UP ONE DAY AND REALIZED THAT THIS LIFE FIT ME.
i AM SURE THERE IS AN ANSWER TO THESE ABOE THOUGHTS FEEL FREE TO EMAIL IF YOU LIKE.
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As children, we are raised by our parents. We are raised to respect others (elders,bosses,peers). We are taught the golden rule; do unto others as you would have them do unto you. As we grow, we learn from our peers and we learn from our elders. We are taught not only through school but also, from our peers. When we get older, we start to seek what it is fulfills us. So, in the search for ourselves and what makes us feel whole, we might forget to become whole ourselves. Daughters are taught to stand on their own two feet. Men are taught to not be taken for fools by women who may take them for what they have. Many men become quiet and complacent. Many Women become defiant and obstinate. Is this really the way things are suppose to be? Do we make this determination or do we do this because of what we feelwe are taught to do. Do we loose respect for each other? Or, do we simply have no respect at all? The things that we ask ourselves, do we forget to remember the answers are never given. They are simply an outcome. SO, maybe this is something that only I think up. Then again maybe we all do just noone ever says anything. |
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| Age: 31 |
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