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About garik
So I was away from all this for a couple years (relationships and stuff), but I've decided to come back and explore this lifestyle again. I unfortunately did not get to play with many people before, so hopefully this time things will be a bit more interesting.
I am mostly submissive, but have a slight dominant streak every once in a while. My personality has been described as "feline" in that I can be shy and cautious at first, but I become more open and affectionate once I start talking to people.
I am looking for friends and play partners who don't mind working with someone who's still relatively new to most of this. I'll avoid the list of what I've done and interests since there's a whole section for that, suffice to say there's plenty I'd still like to explore and I'm open to suggestions. My hard limits are breath, blood, scat, sounding, and needle play as well as and anything that would cause me permanent damage or put me on the wrong side of the law (I am also not interested in financial servitude). I am open to partners of all genders, orientations, and identities.
Outside of play, I 'm a laid back gamer nerd with a steady job, no kids, and a place of my own. I've worked hard for my independence and self sufficiency and I thoroughly enjoy it. I think that about wraps it up, so feel free to send me a message if you have any questions or if you'd like to chat.
The preferences and interests listed in this profile, as with all opinions, will most likely change over time. |
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A long time ago, I stopped trying to figure out "what I want". Each time I try to define what I'm looking for in a partner, the universe shows me that I just don't have a damn clue. It usually does this by giving me exactly what I asked for, and it never works out and is never very satisfying.
So I have no list of attributes I search for, I try to stay open to all possibilities. I go purely by feeling and attraction: physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual attraction. Because not everything in life can be defined, and some things just shouldn't be. There's no need to limit yourself to a list.
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I've noticed that some people seem to think that being overly aggressive and violent makes them a dominant.? I would have to disagree, it just makes you an asshole.
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