*update* 11-19-08 since i've said i would...

i'll be a little more specific in what i'm after here... i have a preference to Men at least 47 years old - i just can't 'do' younger ones - nothing wrong with ya'll, and, ya can't change my mind, so don't eeeven go there! lol...

i also prefer NOT to do the online D/s thingey - just doesn't work for me - i gotta have that physical contact... which leads to my next 'preference'... if i can't hit the road and see You within an hour, then, chances are slim, you'll capture my 'dark' attentions... being a mom means that i get to plan some kidless time, but also means that i have sporadic kidless times, and, no, not sporadic enough to book a flight or spend all afternoon on the road!

yes, one day, i'm sure One will come along - fan that spark into a raging flame, and i'll drop to my knees... but... in the meantime - i'm just me - a little reserved, a little cautious, a lot smart, and a wee bit hard ass - lol...

does that help? :)



i haven't been around here very much.. but - sheee's baaack!!! i usually spend my time at another alternative site.. and see a lot of familiar names here from there...

i'm not looking for anything real deep.. just wanna beef up my list of Tops!! i'm keeping my heart to myself, but..umm.. offering my butt for whacking to the Right Whackers ;)


i've been around the block a time or two... know what i like, and know what i'd like to try.. and knows what i don't want! :)