gandrewh

Looking for live in sub, to please Dom male in every way, take care of household needs, may work during day to add income to home or rely on Dom. Must be able to follow and be self directing from time to time.

I came across this on dirtyslavegrl’s profile. And I agree.

A Submissive or Slave and Her Rights

I have the right to have limits, and expect them to be respected even if I expect you to push and stretch my limits. I have the right to trust, provided I have earned it. I have the right to expect you to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person. I have the right to ask for your attention without having to misbehave to get it. I have the right to expect you to administer your punishment on me with care and caution. I have the right to ask questions, should you deny my requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect. I have the right to speak up if I feel our relationship is not giving me what I need. I have the right to tell you what I need in a respectful manner. I have the right to expect you to understand my reasons for doing so and the right to expect you to listen with an open mind and heart. I have the right to walk away from our relationship if we cannot come to a common ground on these issues. I have the right to voice my opinion and expect you to listen and to consider my reasoning and I expect you to have the final word. I have the right to expect you to understand that deep trust often brings love, and I expect you not to repel me if I tell you that I love you. For my master I will love you should our relationship move ahead and trust continue to grow. I have the right to expect you to tell me, at any point, if you do not feel you can return these feelings, so that I may decide what I want and need, for it is your pleasure that adds to my own and makes it real, and mine, that adds to yours!

I can honestly say my description could be described a the “Daddy Type” Dom.

A daddy type is a nurturer. He isn't a pedophile. He is someone who has a higher level of want. His goal is to release the girl knowing she is a far better person than she was when she arrived for training.

She will have confidence, she will feel her self respect, she will know that while she was trained she was treated as a girl should be, with dignity. She will have finished her education being pushed hard to achieve and she will feel like as she walks out the door for the final time, that the one person who understood her didn't abuse her.

Just as a vanilla girl should feel.

Being a daddy's girl means she needs to feel a huge blanket of comfort in his presence, she craves approval and seeks an older master to provide this authority in her life. She doesn't come seeking beatings, she doesn't seek to have 20 men cum on her face, she seeks one who will guide her to becoming something worthwhile.

The young girl wants to feel a need to obey, she needs structure because she knows herself well enough to understand without her daddy, she will not achieve her best.

A daddy dom may be a pedo too. Men who prey on young girls sexually come from every walk of life. In the world of BDSM, the pedos tend to get exposed earlier because of the more openness of this lifestyle choice.

A true daddy is proud to display his work. He has nothing to hide from the authorities and he is open in his training and control developing his charge.

There is nothing sleazy about a daddy dominant or master with a younger charge. It's about the love, caring and picking her up when she is down.

It's not about sex, it's about nurture.