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Galacia - Male Switch, Willow Glen California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Galacia

Switch, I think.

Being a guy, I never have had the feeling of being objectified, so, I'm curious, what it's like, for you, who may have had that feeling in your life. To be clear, I've been used. I've been taken advantage of. But, I don't ever think anyone "objectified" me, for my body parts, to say it bluntly. Nobody seems to care what my body parts look like.

Given that I'm not the one objectified, my only experience in this spectrum is as the one objectifying, so to speak, as I enjoy a short skirt and peach-shaped buns or a low-cut blouse as much as any guy, and I certainly spank and clamp any nipples that dare to poke their way up in excitement. But this question isn't about being the objectifier - it's about being objectified. Specifically, what it feels like (in the safe sane consensual pleasurable D/s sense, of course).

To give you a bit of history, the question actually arose as a fellow dominant female contacted me, months ago, with the suggestion that I would enjoy being on the other end of the spectrum as her boy toy to play with.

I dismissed the suggestion out of hand, and now that profile is closed, but, what I am beginning to wonder is, the basic open-ended question, of what it actually FEELS like, in a consensual BDSM sense, to be the one objectified.

 
   
1. You are the boss outside the bedroom  Disagree  Agree
2. You catagorize people you meet on whether they are Dominant, submissive or could switch roles  Disagree  Agree
3. You like to control how much pleasure and how much pain to give  Disagree  Agree
4. You like to teach as much as you like to learn  Disagree  Agree
5. You think Domination and submission has more value than sexual orientation  Disagree  Agree
6. You get turned on by binding your partner  Disagree  Agree
7. You prefer an eager obediant partner  Disagree  Agree
8. You get ideas by shopping at the hardware store or pet store  Disagree  Agree
9. You are the boss inside the bedroom  Disagree  Agree
10. Straight "Vanilla" sex is ok, but the kinkier the better  Disagree  Agree
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