I'm trying to keep this as short and sweet as possible, since no one should spend their entire day reading CM profiles.
I'm a sub with a few switch tendancies, which seem to manifest themeslves in increasingly certain cases. I'm incredibly loyal, to a fault, I've been told.
What I am: brunette (most of the time), busty, curvy, stubborn, smarter than is really good for me, which leads me to be sassy and sarcastic. I'm compassionate, and will do almost anything for someone I care about.
What I'm not: a pushover, push me and I will push back. You just have to find the right combination of force and finesse. I'm athletic due to my job, and active due to my intense boredom with sitting around. Needless to say, willowy and dainty aren't adjectives that describe me. I'm not breakable. If that bothers you, fuck off. (I swear like a sailor...because I can). I'm sturdy, which means I can take that much more.
Professional by day, at night, I long to submit to a man/woman that appreciates me.
I'm a good girl with a naughty side and a love of high-heel shoes. Sometimes, I'm too smart for my own good. I know what I want, what I need, and what I yearn for.
You: single, straight, sane, sensual, sexy, non-smoker,smart, self-sufficient, under fifty, a smidge of a romantic,and somewhat in shape. Not a self-described "lifestyler". You have a life that exists beyond leather, whips, and dungeons.
Don't get me wrong - I long for flogging, caning, whips, forced orgasms- in private settings on occasion. Throw in some nipple clamps and this girl is flying. I love feeling my nipples raw the next day, smiling about what unmentionable things I did the night before.
Sensuality is part of who I am and what attracts me, but I can be a pain slut at times with the right dynamic. (We are not talking about nailing my breasts, etc.) If a man cannot deliver a kiss that leaves me wet and my knees weak, I move on. Casual play is not of interest to me - I seek something much deeper that takes time to evolve. As you can imagine, I get many offers, but very few Dominants catch my attention. It is not the chiseled adonis that I seek - it is the man that is honest, balanced, passionate and creative. I would rather wait for Mr. Right than be distracted with Mr. Right Now. I
submit to a man that sees me as his equal; I am strong, independent, and secure. He will earn my respect, my passion, and submission. It is not a matter of a Dominant exercising power over me - if that is how you operate, you will walk away
frustrated and pissed off. I give power to a man that proves he will appreciate it. I yearn for a relationship where (eventually) there is no need for safewords or limits because the trust is complete.
If you've uttered the words "you're not a true submissive", save us both the time, because you are not the man for me. Very few men spark that submissive fire in me. It's not that you aren't 'man' enough for me - it's just you're not the man for me.
I would say I am not really the outdoorsy' type, but I do enjoy my motorcycle and getting greasy in the garage - so if you identify with hunting, fishing, and consider 'fine dining' Red Lobster -I am not the girl for you. I enjoy a more refined lifestyle. (I am *not* expecting a man to support me or spoil me - I indulge in those things for myself if I want them. This is more about outlook & shared interests.)
If you do not meet the above criteria, please move on. I am a sexual submissive, but only for an exceptional man - if you are a male submissive or switch, save us both the time of me telling you to move on. I know who I am, what I need, and what
is important to me. When I say "Best of luck with your search", it's a polite way of saying "not interested"- please respect that.
I am a proper Irish girl that does not approach men; nor do I make the first move in person. If you are intrigued by the profile I've taken the time to create, do not insult me with a canned message of "check out my profile" or "nice shoes". If you cannot approach me like a gentleman, you will receive a canned reply and I will block you. Many men rant about how few "real quality women" there are on CM, so why approach one with such a pathetic first impression?
Share with me why you think we should meet. No naked pictures - I'm much more interested in the head on your shoulders.
If you intrigue me, perhaps you'll discover how utterly naughty I can be. Ok so I lied....not really that short!! LOL
