UPDATE!!!
I have found someone and we are going to see how things work out between us. This means i am not looking any more, which if you need that explained, i wouldn't have been interested in you, anyways, LOL.

Oh boy, what to put in here. The perfect relationship is very difficult to come by so instead of writing about that, how about some information on what can't be lived without, lived with, what would be nice to gain from a relationship, and what is being offered here? And no, this does not include everything, that would be too difficult to do, maybe even impossible. Adding to it will most likely occur from time to time.

Can't be lived without:
*Four kids from previous relationships, one living at home, another one sometimes at home and two who visit.
*Computer connection, due to college studies.
*Books, obvious reasons.
*Sewing machine, used for all sorts of things.
*Contact with other family members.

Can't be lived with:
*The usual disclaimer here containing drunks, drug abusers, HIV positives, sex offenders (convicted or not, you know who you are), and other persons with seriously undesirable traits. Not meaning to insult, but there have been other Owners previously that took a lot of time in training, and it'd be rude to see their efforts go to waste.
*Anyone that has only had experience with Gorean philosophy in an online format. If there is no experience, that'd be a lot better than having online experience. Pretend play online is nothing like reality.
*Cruelty to my kids or any animals. Why do you think this ad is up now?
*Closeminded people. This doesn't cover the opinion circuit. If Master says something is X, then it is X, but if there is something factual, it should not matter who read it or heard it first. Lying about what is read is not a good thing, so if facts are facts, well, you get the point.

Some of what is being offered:
intelligent, educated, stubbornness (which has its pros and cons), stamina (related to stubbornness), quick learner, dedicated (also related to stubbornness), auburn hair, glasses, obedience (simply because that fits with the status quo - sometimes that makes it blind, other times it doesn't, but for those that are seeking a submissive female, i'm not submissive, so if you are not dominant all the way, we wouldn't work out because i'd probably end up taking advantage of the situation, to be honest), when it comes to oral sex, there's no need to 'return the favor', it doesn't result in an orgasm, and it's a waste of time, to be honest (no, don't offer to show that you know what you are doing - it doesn't work that way, and that just shows that wasting time is ok with you, which is never good, besides, why torture me like that? Ick! i like to give face, but i seriously dislike getting it. double ick!!), relocatable in the future, as in a few years down the road, but not right now. There are more states that will not work out than there are that will work. Midwest/great lakes area is best.

Back later to put more up.......