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FutureIsHere

Transgender Submissive, 28, chicago, Illinois
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Male Submissive, 42, Bloomington, Illinois
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About FutureIsHere

NOTA : please READ ALSO all the journal entries - Thank you.



A profile is JUST a door opener.

Assuming and judging on a few lines is then NOT a sign of intelligence.



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NOTA : people not understanding that bullet points are clearer than lengthy sentences should not forget efficiency is also an asset in life :)

If they have a different opinion - it is indeed ridiculous ....


Hello

a bit about me :

- very genuine
- divorced since years and single since a few months
- successful and seeking someone for real only - long term
- able to be seen on cam and talked on the phone
- very trustworthy, reliable and believing DS is a way to live and love not a game...
- very experienced 20 years +
- I value utmost : respect, communication, high EQ and IQ...


a bit about you :

- extremely serious in your quest
- wanting long term only
- being able to take your own decisions and not being polluted by external factors
- ambitious in life, extremely perverse and very private
- loyal
- trustworthy and reliable
- being ambitious is a quality
- bi and enjoying females

Smiles - maybe my luck is back :) - have spoken the whole night to a ladyslut living in a village close to Amsterdam - international architect. 30+, very bi, 1m74 and seeking an Owner and husband ... Finally someone trustworthy and trully mature ? Maybe :). She contacted me directly - planning a meeting now. So I will reply less to messages. Thank you.
I cannot understand it took me so long... I came to the conclusion that age does matter ... I need someone with enough maturity for me. It is now clear.
I will then filter all the mails accordingly. Sorry for the rest, I need a real woman - not a person acting as a teenager and dressing the same way ... and reacting the same way. Usually frustrated they are not grown up enough to understand a real Dominant.
I am ready for the right person - where is she ? (smiles) Can she adapt? Can she change? Can she evolve if needed? Ds is an evolving kind of relationship.
The Impossible is Possible. Do not listen to others, do not listen to close people, do not listen to family, do not listen to friends - only believe in YOU and listen to you as a start then all will become clear...In life only one person knows all the data and the facts, and it is you !
Do not live through the eyes of the others - none of them see things the way you see them !!
It is the best advise I can give as it is especially true in DS where TRUST is the foundation.
For that BE ready to change path, alter your route and choose a new way ... even to change in a way!!!
I am !!!!
OOOPS : catastrophe : my "block" and "hidden" listings are now FULL - so there is a limit set. Can you imagine it?.... I guess it means I will rapidly need to find another website then.... where real people live in real life :)
Me being a true Alpha Gentleman seems too much for most to handle here... Smiles
By the  way perversion is directly linked to a high EQ first and IQ after... makes sense ? yes it does fully !
Yes - the city on the photo is Shanghai .... anyone for dinner ?  :)
Guess what is the ULTIMATE luxury on the CS site : politeness !
Please ONLY people living in the real world... Thank you :)
Me - I want a gem, a rare exception and a trustworthy life partner who is "not at all in the norm"... Dare !!!!
Who cares about age and distance if a REAL common will is not there - endless talks online with little reality leads nowhere.
Is there anyone here truly living in the REAL world ??
DS is all about connecting and connections - it has nothing to do with "sex only" - sex is simply one of the numerous ways DS translates into the real world from the mind world - it is why the "psyhological side" of DS is pinnacle.
I live an extremely challenging life in my professional life and seek the right mind(s) to balance it (in a way) meaning having the same intensity is for me very important on both sides (professional and personal).
Now where is the "real one" ?
IF you are "in the norm" - you are NOT for me ... I seek the rare gem, the rarity in herself and the true exception to the rule. No time for others....
The Impossible is Possible .. if this rings a bell, contact me  :)   - please be aware my patience threshold is thinner and thinner on this website :) - genuine people will understand me - only them luckily...
Respect builds Trust, Trust builds Future, Future builds Relationship, Relationship builds DS... makes sense?? In life what you say has no value, only what you do has real value.
Life is what you make out of it... and when you have a goal, fight for it. With time ALL can become true. Never quit. And still stay open to change course when needed ...
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