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	Looking to expand my social circle and explore dating and play with kink-friendly individuals. Switch and verse, but looking for the opportunity to sub and/or bottom for the right person(s). Some Thoughts on Dominance and Submission It is my belief that the ultimate goal of a Dominant should be to fulfill both their own needs, and the needs of their submissive. Further, it must be the aim of the Dominant to both pursue their own self improvement, and that of their submissive, as well as to ensure that whatever life situation their submissive strives for, it is the best it can be. When it comes down to it, both Dominant and submissive seek to fulfill a need in themselves, and if those needs are not being met, in either direction, then it is the Dominant who bears the majority of the responsibility. To not recognize the needs of a submissive, or to accept anything but the best work from their submissive is a failure on the part of the Dominant. http://bdsmtest.org/r/7010670 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 100% Rigger 80% Dominant 78% Rope bunny 76% Master/Mistress 74% Owner 70% Experimentalist 63% Submissive 61% Primal (Hunter) 61% Non-monogamist 59% Degrader 49% Brat 46% Masochist 45% Sadist 45% Pet 43% Degradee 43% Slave 43% Daddy/Mommy 24% Ageplayer 18% Vanilla 5% Exhibitionist 4% Voyeur 4% Boy/Girl 3% Primal (Prey)

11/11/2011 7:19:36 PM

What I Seek

First and foremost, I seek a partner with whom I share mutual respect both in terms of intelligence as well as character. Though I tend towards the dominant, I believe that any relationship must be based on mutual respect, and I seek an equal with which to pursue that relationship.

I seek a person to explore the physical, mental, and emotional natures of the lifestyle while also being able to relax in their presence and enjoy each others company both socially and in private. It's my belief that any relationship, regardless of whether or not it's considered "normal", is a success when both partners' needs, both sexual and emotional, are met and are compatible with each other.

Finally, I seek a person who has more ambition in life than to simply exist, and with whom I can achieve my own goals and support them in theirs.