Frankinsa

Friends first, then we can explore our possibilities

Thank you for reading my profile. I am a switch, here seeking a woman, slave, sub, switch or Dome, with whom to become acquainted, perhaps become friends, and should all work out, to slowly build a long term relationship that will blend the real every day vanilla world with the D&S lifestyle in a way that will work for both of us.

I am a realistic yet hopeful romantic. My approach to the lifestyle is that a sub / slave is a person as well as a play partner, friend, companion, and perhaps lover.
I have had some aspect of D&S in practically every relationship I have had. My very first D&S experience occurred when I was 15 years old. My parents and I were visiting family friends. They had a 14 year old daughter Jamey. While the adults were upstairs visiting, Janey and I went into their basement to play a board game. Halfway through the game, “we” decided the looser should be spanked by the winner. And what do you know, Jamey lost the game. Jamey crawled over my lap and arched her ass. I brought my hand down hard onto her tight little ass. Well, the movement of her hips, her little yelps, , my hand on her ass. I thought to myself.. I like everything about this!! The next time we went over to her house and played ....Her jeans were pulled down to her knees, and the time after that, her panties wound up around her ankles ....and the time after that...Well
My name is Frank, I live in San Antonio, although I work in Austin. I was married for 10 years and now divorced for 10 years. I have joint custody of my 14-year-old son.
Physically I am 5 foot 8 and weigh 230. Not height weight proportional, but getting there. I have short gray / brown hair, and green eyes. I do have a disadvantage with some activities, as I have diminished vision. I can no longer drive, or read without magnification devices. This disability makes my life more challenging, somewhat less spontaneous, and requires a hit more planning

Professionally I have a BA and a Masters degree in Psychology.

I enjoy a wide range of activities both in-doors and outside. I have recently taken up Kendo, Japanese sword fighting, and I LOVE it! I am even picking up a little Japanese! Check out Kendo on utube.

As a Dom, with a sub or slave, I enjoy the intimacy of power exchange. I love exploring my partners needs, her fantasies, and desires. I also enjoy administrating corporal punishment o And of course working within her agreed upon limits.