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About FosterDomme
I have 7 acres "out in the boonies," 2 damaged lumbar disks, and more projects than any one person could ever hope to complete. I'm looking for male subs, masochists, and/or slaves who would like to spend time (such as vacations; or, if close enough, weekends) out here on a work for (strictly platonic) play basis.
Before I go any further: I do NOT do chatting or IM! There are reasons why I pay for unlimited long-distance... If it looks like we have enough common ground, we'll be "chatting" by phone...
As mentioned in my journal. I'm curently working on a new, underground, fireproof, and really cool dungeon. Eventually, I'll completely rewrite my profile; but, right now, I'd rather spend my time working toward the new dungeon. I had a rather extensive collection of impact play toys, a 53 foot semi-trailer that been converted to a (reasonably well) sound-proofed playroom (with lots of strategicly place "hitch rings" solid beams, a heavy hospital guerney, etc.), a rather large cage (54L x 42W x 33H), and I was contantly adding to "my collection." "G trailer" fell victim to an arson fire on May 19, 2006. I've now replaced MOST of my toy collection; and, I've converted an old mobile home into a usable dungeon. As of the spring of 2010, I should also have a small underground, with a cell; and, eventually I'll also have a large underground dungeon, with about 6 cells, for short or long term use.
I LOVE doing all sorts of bondage, impact play, and sensory play. I also love a good foot or back massage.
This is NOT, however, sexual thing for me; and, I'm NOT looking for sexual partners of any variety. I do NOT do CBT, anything anal, "oral," or "showers" of any sort. I remain fully clothed (at least above the knees) at all times (although {grinning wink}, sometimes, with leather...)
My preference is that during the day/while working we're on (almost) a vanilla friendship basis; then, after it gets too late to get anything done, we go out to "G trailer" (the playroom) and play. Even on this basis, I'm fully in charge, even if you're a non-sub masochist. I can also enjoy "forced prisoner labor" / guard scenes. (LOL, I even have a "ball and chain made from an old bowling ball. {grin}) Your limits will be fully respected; and, your visit will be somewhat tailored to your interests (as determined by the questionaire and checklist I use; and, our pre-visit negotiations.) Serious "topping from the bottom" will cause you to only be considered on a pro basis, though.
I have something to do around here for virtually anyone of any skill or physical ability level. Age, appearance, and experience level doesn't matter to me. If you're inexperienced as a sub and wish to "build a resume" so you'll be more interesting to a Domme you're more compatible with, I'm willing to provide you with a referrence to future Dommes, after you've been here.
Cross-dressers will be considered, on the understanding that the place for things such as high heels and dresses is extremely limited in a rural environment.
I try to schedule only one person out here at any one time; however, if more than one person is here, NO harrassment (sexual or otherwise) will be tolerated.
If this sounds interesting to you, contact me. References provided upon request. "Safety calls" are not only permitted; but, easily facilitated within the continental US by my having unlimited long distance.
If we were to really "hit it off" and you wanted to relocate (retired, on disability, etc.) I have plenty of room for that; however, it would still be on a strictly platonic basis. You'd be expected to share actual expenses; but, you would not be charged rent. Understand, however, that there WILL be others. If this would bother you, that's a problem, regardless of how well we get along on all other levels. You'd be allowed to bring pets with you, as long as there had been a trial period where he/she/they got along with my dogs; and, said pets are well housetrained.
If you're willing to help with the work out here, the only cost for your time here will be actual expenses (such as chipping in on the groceries.) If you're looking for something which precludes your working (kidnap scenes, confinement scenes, etc.), we can negotiate that on a pro basis.
NO alcohol, illegal drug usage, or intoxication of any sort is permitted on my property. Tobacco usage IS permitted; unless, part of why you want to come out is to quit.. "Rabid anti-smokers" won't last long out here; since, I smoke. (It's non-chemically treated, "real tobacco," though; so, it doesn't bother many non-smokers the way that manufactured cigarettes do.)
You MUST get along well with dogs; since, I have 3 large, very friendly, Lab-mix, "fur kids;" plus, an assortment of foster dogs. In any event, if you have a dislike or phobia of dogs, this is the wrong place for you, regardless of how well we fit on every other level.
If we agree on your coming out here and decide on a time period for you to do so; and, something comes up which prevents that from occuring (including "cold feet," "fantasy having a train wreck with reality," etc.) you MUST be willing to advise me of your need to cancel!!! Anyone cancelling without notice will be required to pay a $500 "failure to notify" fee before I'll ever talk to you again.  (This is a MAJOR pet-peeve of mine; since, it's not only rude; but, causes me major problems.) I understand that things can and do happen; but, it doesn't take much effort to make a quick phone call or to drop me a quick e-mail to let me know; so, I can change my plans accordingly!!!
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I finally have a little time to spare; so, I suppose I should update my journal.
I've been able to rebuild my toy collection and to renovate an old mobile home into a pretty decent temporary dungeon, which has been nicknamed "the annex." Unfortunately, I'm needing to stay down here, to make sure nothing happens to THIS one. I'm in the process of building a storage building; so, I can clear some of my stuff out of here and get it usable (again) as a dungeon. The next step is going to be "the mini-cave" and a 12x20 room for myself, built over it. The mini-cave will be 8'Wx16'Lx8'D, with an 8'x8' steel and concrete cell in one end of it. The room I'll be building over it will enable me to move me, my dogs, and my "stuff" out of the annex!!!  FINALLY, I'll be back to where I was before the fire!!! (Actually, somewhat better off; since, I only had a cage in "G.") Having the mini-cave should make it possible for me to get a trackhoe out here to bust through the sandstone and finish getting "the cave" down to the depth I need it; and, to fund things like concrete, etc. needed to turn it into the really nice, underground dungeon (with a six cell cell block) which I've been wanting it to be. The (full) cave part's still going to take a while; but, at least I'm "seeing the light at the end of the tunnel." The mini-cave and my room should be completed withing the next month or two, IF I get the help with it which it's looking as though I'll be getting. 
If there's anyone out there with a structrual engineering background, I'd like to "pick your brain," even if we aren't interests or role compatible. |
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As usual, things have been extremely hectic around here; and, if things work out as planned, that's about to get worse before getting better. (In this case, that's good, though.  ) Things look as though they may finally be starting to get rolling gain on the new dungeon -- this time with a backhoe!!! (YEAH!!!!  )
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I'm still needing things like concrete blocks, pipe, I-beams, decent sized pieces of roofing rubber, etc. I'm hoping to get some I-beams by scrapping out "dead" mobile homes; but, with fuel costs being what they are, being able to move the ones I've been offered (just for hauling them off) has become a real problem. Any owner-operators (or, someone with at least a 2 1/2 ton dually truck) out there want to work a deal for fuel + to drag and drop them for me??? (I can make a bolt-on, drop down hitch, if needed.)
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I can use just about any sort of skilled; or, even unskilled, labor on this project. I'm also needing some advice from someone with a structural engineering background, even if it's only by e-mail.
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My ISP's filters seem to be eating my new mail notices; and, I don't get over here nearly as much as I wish I had the time to. IF (and ONLY IF) you've actually read my profile; and, I haven't replied to your note within a few days, you may send me a note via my fedup at okplus dot com address, letting me that you've written to me here. This MUST be from some address other than a hotmail one; since, my ISP's filters tend to "eat" those, as well...
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It's been a while since I posted an update; and, I have a few minutes; so, here's an update:
The hole for the new dungeon has reached a point where (practically speaking) it really needs to be "rough finished" with a backhoe. If there are any subs out there who own one and are close enough to Seminole, OK that you'd be willing to bring it out, I'd definitely be willing to trade bondage, impact play, and sensory play for some backhoe work. (I also do some pretty good kidnap scenes, if you're into that.)
If anyone in the area has one or more old mobile homes that they need somewhere to dump, I'd be more than willing to let you dump them out here. I'll be dismantling them for the I-beams underneath, to use for roof supports for the new dungeon; so, condition is irrelevant, except for in getting them out here. Anyone who has a truck capable of moving a mobile home would get the same offer as anyone with a backhoe.
I'm currently in the process of dismantling the 2 burnt semi-trailers, in hopes of raising money for some backhoe work; but, aluminum prices are down right now; so, I'm holding off hauling it to the recyclers until it comes up a bit. I could sure use all the help I can get cutting these things up and cleaning things up.
I still "have a ways to go" before I'm back to being as fully equiped as I was before the fire; but, I've come a long way since I last posted an update. As long as the weather is nice enough to do outdoor sessions, I'm back up to where I can do most of what I'm into. I can also do a more limited degree of bondage indoors, as well as most impact and sensory play.
When the new dungeon is finished, it will have a 26x30 play area; and, a 20x24 "cell block" area (either 5 or 6 cells), for those of you who are into cells. It will be fully equipped for virtually any type of bondage and suspension play, as well as any sort of impact and sensory play. When things "get back on track," I'll probably be considering finding a second Domme to help out, especially with the things which I'm not personally into. If you're a Domme in the general vicinity (or a sub who knows of such a Domme), who'd be looking for a really cool play area (hopefully within the next year), contact me for further discussion about this.
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I'm currently working on a replacement (underground and fireproof) dungeon. It will be really nice when it's finally completed; but, it's going to take a while... If anyone out there is really into hard work, I could certainly use a hand! Also, if you're in the vicinity of Seminole, OK and need somewhere to dump off bricks and/or concrete blocks (or steel pipe), I REALLY, REALLY need them and would be thrilled to take them; since, I'm going to need a LOT of such stuff to complete the dungeon and have no financial means of buying them. (It would really suck to do all this work digging and quarrying sandstone to get the hole ready; then, have to just let it sit for who knows how long pending materials to complete it...) If any of you guys reading this have a financial fetish and would be into helping with the concrete, I could certainly use that type of help, as well. In the meantime, I'm working on making up a bunch of rubber paddles, in hopes of selling them on FA, to afford materials needed for the dungeon and to finish rebuilding my toy collection enough to get back into operation.
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At approx 12:30am, May 20th, my dungeon trailer was torched by an arsonist. Eventually, I'm going to (somehow) rebuild; but, right now, everything has been reduced to a pile of rubble that I can't even sort through; since, I can't risk destroying any evidence. We think that the accelerant used was gasoline; since, the fire was hot enough to even melt handcuffs. Without being able to supplement my $542/mo. disabilty income with occassional pro-sessions, rebuilding is going to be pretty hard to do. :( If anyone in or near Okla. has an old refridgerated semi-trailer (unit does not need to be present) REALLY cheap; or, any toys laying around that they don't use, please contact me. Any sort of building materials in the central Okla. area would be greatly appreciated, as well. Last; but, certainly not least, if there happens to be an arson investigator out there reading this, PLEASE contact me. I need some help proving that this was arson to a point that they can't just blow it off.
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IMPORTANT NOTE TO ALL W/WHOM I'VE BEEN IN CONTACT:
It has recently come to my attention that my ISP's spam filter is occassionally deleting real mail. If you have sent me a completed questionnaire; but, did not receive a copy of "my version," LET ME KNOW HERE. Either I never received what you sent; or, it got kicked on your end. If I'm not interested, I TELL you. I do NOT just ignore you! (I've just been figuring that those of you who asked for a questionnaire; but, "never returned it," just weren't serious enough to bother w/completing it; or, you found something more to your liking and weren't considerate enough to let me know. (Mail from some people make it through just fine, usually...) |
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