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| Been away from cm for a few years. I have been in and out of relationships with non dominant women and always feel something missing. Looking for someone seeking a LT relationship. Will be most submissive of submissive when we are together in the bedroom, but prefer someone who does not want all aspects of life defined by our sexual relationship. Very private about this side of my life.
I really appreciate those who make their sexuality the defining part of their life, but that is not me.
Emotionally very stable, career oriented, prefer time alone or small groups of friends when with that someone special. I have a propensity to avoid large impersonal settings, places with too loud to talk music. Love to explore, love to learn. I am a bit... OK. A lot of a nerd, know trivia on lots of esoteric things. I google random things when bored.
Though I have my fetishes I tend to get aroused by satisfying the hunger of who I am with. When fetishes align it just makes things more potent. Limits on anything unsafe or unhygienic. Willing to push limits but gradually. It is predominantly about what you want and what turns you on. My own current fetishes developed from the desires of those that I was with before, and have of course drifted over the years. My cliche motto; "if you are not aroused then I am not aroused."
Very interested though in a woman who loves to have feet worshipped, and with a sadistic streak when aroused. Love to be bit and hit by someone who enjoys making another person squirm. I don't particularly enjoy pain, but rather the sense of sacrifice and endurance of discomfort for the pleasure of someone I admire and am attracted to. Enduring pain for another's pleasure is one of the most intimate gifts that I can offer. The ideal encounter for me is one where my partner just considers her desires, releases the id suppresses the ego and super ego and feeds of my submission to her.
Though I submit and sacrifice freely to the right person there must be mutual love. Not interested in situations where people want to hurt to suppress demons from the past, or those who inflict pain out of anger and hatred of men.
Prefer to reel each other in with some kind of communication if it happens it happens. Tried traditional and somehow the magic is never there.
Partner must be D/D free as I am.
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