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| Greetings!
I am a 40 year old dominant sadomasochist who is quite active in the Melbourne scene.
I am seeking someone who I can connect with as a person first and then build a D/s relationship with. I have had some experience in poly relationships but mainly in a secondary role. I am open to both mono and poly relationships but I do not want to be someone's dirty secrect. If you are not proud to call me yours then how can I respect you? I believe in open communication and can be quite forthright in my aproach. I believe in living with integrity and being true to yourself.
I try not to take life too seriously and can find the absurd in most situations.
On the vanilla side I am a geek at heart who loves scifi and fantasy, computers (my job) and a quiet pub that has pear cider on tap. I have children (they live with their mother) and I am divorced.
On the kink side I love impact play (canes, floggers, paddles and spanking), wax play, and I dabble with a little rope and predicament bondage.
I am a strong believer in earning titles. I enjoyed being called Sir but only when I feel that I have earned that right. I do not subscribe to the "One Twue Way(tm)" and for many people it suprises them that I am a Dom. With the right person it comes naturally so that makes it easier to find the right person. I like to get out to events and munches and reasonably well known by many of the experienced kinksters.
I am always happy to make friends online but I am here to meet people in the melbourne area as I prefer real life over online relationships.
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