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Hi there!
I identify as transgender. I am not a girl. I am not a woman. Do not label me as such. You are automatically blocked if you do. If you're curious about specifics, feel free to message me about it.
I'm short and adorable, I'm Norse pagan, I'm eccentric, I tend to be frustrating, I sometimes have trouble with replying to texts and messages, I'm a huge geek, I'm a writer (mostly poetry and horror), and I'm a photographer.
I have an affinity for serial killers and true crime, science fiction, Tolkien, photography, cats, and the type of actors who look like Yale graduate pretty boys who could kill you with no qualms, like Dane Dehaan and Matthew Gray Gubler. And girls. I really love girls.
I don't like chocolate and I have a phobia of flying insects. I look damn good in a suit or a dress. I'm obsessed with a spice called Tajín, I use it on a ton of my food. I have two cats, Olympus (I call him Olly) and Indie, and two rats. I'm childfree. I /never/ want kids, and no, I won't change my mind. I usually win at Trivia Crack because I retain absurd amounts of mostly useless information. I eat applesauce with a fork. I have a collection of named and treasured stuffed animals. Halloween is my favorite holiday. Used to hate pink, but now it's one of my favorite colors. I have severe juvenile rheumatoid arthritis. I just switched over to the iPhone master race after having Android since I was ten, but I still use a PC. My dreams usually involve falling or my loved ones dying in awful ways, sometimes by my own hand. Petrichor and seawater are some of my favorite scents. I cry easily. I'm shy in person, but I talk too much about myself on the Internet, so I'll stop now.
This is going in its own paragraph because it's important, and I believe in full disclosure. I am in a polyamorous relationship. This means that I am interested in having more than one romantic relationship. I'm married to a wonderful person that I love immensely, and we are both looking to date other people. However, we are looking to date separately. Meaning, if you are interested in me, you wouldn't have to date them as well. We have total permission from each other for this. I don't want it to be a deterrent, because I'd really love to share love with someone else, but if this skeeves you out, that's okay too. Just getting it all out there beforehand.
Six things I could never do without: my shrine to Cary Elwes (especially as Westley in the Princess Bride), big cats, gorgeous high quality implant grade body jewelry, sour candy, my camera, and intersectional feminism. I spend a lot of time thinking about cute butts, plans for the rest of my body modification journey, the intimate way everything is connected if you look hard enough, and Panera Bread.
I'm an open book, so if you have a question or want to know something, feel free to ask!
Don't hesitate to talk to me just because you're far away, either! I'm completely open to long-distance relationships.
I don't exactly know what I'm looking for right now in relation to BDSM. I do have a part-time Daddy who is also my spouse, but he's definitely not as into the lifestyle as I am. I often think he just doms me to make me happy. So, I'm open to most things honestly. Forty is my age limit for any partners I may have. I'm mostly into cis women, transgender men, and nonbinary people, although cis men and trans women are not off the table for relationships or play. I am NOT into sissies or master/slave, as well as people who message me expecting me to pander to their fetishes. I am not a vending machine for your pleasures.
Don't message me if:
-You're a misogynist/men's rights activist
-You want to have sex but aren't willing to take the time to talk
-You think pet rats are gross
-You're shitty in general
-Your first message is a standard greeting or a compliment with nothing to go along with it (i.e. "hey", "what's up", "how are you" and their variants, or "you're sexy", "wanna hook up", "you're very beautiful" etc., I will assume you either didn't read my profile or we have absolutely nothing in common because you couldn't find something to talk about even though my profile is a mile long)
My Ideal Person Someone who will see me as a person first, not a sexbot. Caring. Respectful. Understanding. An intersectional feminist.
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