I'm a single, reasonably sane :D, healthy BBW woman. I'm finding more and more that I need a D/s dynamic in my life to feel complete. I'm a submissive both by nature and by choice, its part of who and what I am at my very core, not just a hat I put on for a scene. I don't know if a 24/7 D/s relationship is what I'm wanting , but someone who can acknowledge that aspect of me is always going to be present would be good.

Fair warning to those still reading--I'm a giggler. It's not that I don't take things seriously but I seem to reach a point when my body and brain switch to giggle mode--if you expect serious and quiet, I'm not the one for you. My laughter is never at someone (unless its myself) and I do try to keep it under control--but so far, no luck! :-D

What do I want? I'm looking for a strong base relationship from which exploration and options could be mutually embarked upon. More of the D/s aspect before other things.

I do believe that if one person is playing outside the relationship both should be entitled to. Honesty and openness is the best policy even in this lifesytle IMHO. I'd say I'm probably more open in the play sense, more controlled in the sexual aspect.

If you're still reading this, hopefully you can tell, I do believe in the need for communication. So drop me a line and we can see where things lead. :-D

Please do not message me if you do keep your partner(s) in the dark/closet about playing with others.