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firmgentleman

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About firmgentleman


So, I have been doing this a while now and I know what I want.


I am a Dom who wants a masochistic submissive, but I don't want a pushover. As much as I love the purity of experience that encompass the Dom-sub relationship during a scene (and I really, really enjoy a good submissive), in the end, I don't respect somebody if that's all they are about.


So 24/7? not for me.


I am not against friends only, or friends with benefits, but what I am looking for right now is a relationship.


I am looking for somebody intelligent and fun, and with enough drive they are pushing forward to improve their life. Kink is important, but complexity is vital.


I don't have a pic on this site because I have a good job that I have to protect, so I don't mind if you don't have pics either, but I am willing to trade if it's an issue.


Well, I have come to know the lifestyle quite a bit better then I once did. I find that for me the joy comes not from punishing a sub, but eliciting a postive reaction. In other words, I like being a dom, but there is no appeal in being a dom to somebody who does not enjoy being a sub.
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