So, I have been doing this a while now and I know what I want.
I am a Dom who wants a masochistic submissive, but I don't want a pushover. As much as I love the purity of experience that encompass the Dom-sub relationship during a scene (and I really, really enjoy a good submissive), in the end, I don't respect somebody if that's all they are about.
So 24/7? not for me.
I am not against friends only, or friends with benefits, but what I am looking for right now is a relationship.
I am looking for somebody intelligent and fun, and with enough drive they are pushing forward to improve their life. Kink is important, but complexity is vital.
I don't have a pic on this site because I have a good job that I have to protect, so I don't mind if you don't have pics either, but I am willing to trade if it's an issue.