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About firmcare4u

Looking for a good fit.

...this is my personal perspective.

I feel that the D/s dynamic is similar to that of Yin/yang...you cannot have it work with only one part. You need both parts to make it work, and therefore each part is equally important. Not the same, but more like two sides of the same coin.

BDSM is a part of a larger relationship. Like any relationship, it should start with two way communication and a building of mutual respect. Mutual interests and limits should be discussed and respected with a pre-arranged safeword, or signal if speech is controlled with a gag.

It is an intimate interchange of emotions and can be closer than sex itself. There should be ongoing 2-way communication afterwards to expand on or limit things that are satisfying or negative.

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