firestrikes


Firesong Male Dominant, 40, Little Rock, Arkansas	firesub Male Submissive, 38, Northern, Michigan	firestorm Female Submissive, 47

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	About firestrikes If I am creating beauty in my life, then I know I am having a healthy, balanced day. I look for people who value full body consciousness and who seek ever-expanding mental, emotional and spiritual awareness. I define myself better through actions than words. I define myself through becoming more fully conscious - rather than comparing, judging or categorizing through externalized measures. I surround myself with loving, compassionate people who like getting together to laugh, eat, play and support loved ones when help is needed. If you can relate to and feel energized around these concepts, then we would probably get along. I am curious, intelligent, open-minded and serious about expanding all of my known and unknown boundaries. I am not into extreme pain or injury. I am already multi-orgasmic and skilled in giving pleasure and am not in need of "fixing" or "training". I take responsibility for my own growth and learning and see everyone as my teacher, so I am looking for collaborators or co-conspirators, rather than "masters". I find individuals in the kink community often offer unique perspectives and fresh insights. I like playing safely with those I feel drawn to explore with... Those who define themselves primarily through kink probably will not resonate with me so I invite them to consider looking elsewhere for company. Please note: I love and respect people of all body shapes and sizes, but I am generally only turned on sexually by firm muscle tone and athletic physicality. There are individuals on this site who find fault in my asking for what turns me on kinesthetically in play partners. I want to be sexually dominated by people who are capable of taking care of their bodies as well as I take care of my own. (My photos are accurate depictions of my physique) This ability to master the art of self - care for the body indicates to me a certain parallel in a category of priorities that is of value to me. If someone cannot see the wisdom in that, it is not my concern. Henceforth, emails from whiners are ceremoniously dumped.

I want to let people know that i list myself as Switch because I am open to exploring and have accumulated some equipment that I like using on myself. I have only topped twice and found it interesting. I am not into "being a submissive" in a lifestyle sense. I simply like to submit sexually. It has been a fabulous learning and self-expanding tool. I am an ethical slut who knows what I like - I LIKE KINKY SEX! I LIKE VARIETY! I like being surprised, and manhandled (I'm really more bi-friendly than bi-sexual - I like women as a "side-dish" when i am with a man.) and respectfully but roughly FUCKED!

Let me clarify for those of you who are frustrated by my apparent shallowness with regard to my preference for excellent physical condition in my play partners... I am a hardwired "kinesthetic" person... not visual, not auditory - KINESTHETIC. When I am touching someone who is flabby or overweight, it trips my wires and engages my MIND, which is counterproductive to inducing subspace for me - thereby reducing my availability to my partner's pleasure. When I am FULLY in the body, with no feedback loop of information engaging my mind due to unpleasant tactile stimulation (sorry, that's just how flabby or fatty tissue affects me, folks - some people it turns on, others not, just like some people get into electrical play or needles and staples - others not) then I am optimizing the wattage of the sexual liaison that my partner(s) and I am engaged in. I choose optimization, rather than minimization, of my pleasure experiences. I screen for people who I know provide the highest degree of catalytic synergy for the way my body works sexually. Period. I fully expect dominants to do the same thing - if I am not of sufficient height or weight or have less than optimal breast tissue for what turns them on, then I support them making choices to screen me out as a potential play partner. I don't take that personally. It is simply a matter of personal preference and does not preclude me from being good friends with them if we connect deeply in other ways that have value for us (and this does occur, quite happily). If we can make allowances for different tolerance levels of pain or different implements of stimulation, then we have to allow the argument that for some, like myself, anything other than firm muscular flesh is a turn-off - a way of diminishing my state of full presence in the experience at hand, and thus something I choose to screen out. Call it shallow if you like. You are most welcome to your own version of what works for you, and I allow myself the same consideration.

It just feels like today is the day to wish "Smooth" good luck, and to hope that he finds what he is looking for somewhere out there....

My profile needs to be updated, but it will require careful wording for screening purposes. Suffice it to say I'm going through major transition. The major intentions still apply... practicing pleasure and gaining knowledge.

Today is always the perfect day to speak my truth, to stand in my power and to say what is in my heart. I acknowledge the source of the mystery that sustains us all. I am grateful for the reflections of those who choose to accept me as I am. Thank you for teaching me to permit myself to enjoy the fullness of all potential and all actuality.

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