Not a day goes by that I do not read a subs profile cursing the fakes, wanabe and asswhipes.
To help defend some of us males trust me ladies when I tell you there is one wanabe, fake, top from the bottom subs on this site for each Dom.
We all get the way out there people that reply to a profile.
The ones that start off with “I need a master to break my fingers smash my toes and carve his name in my chest” emails.
Those you take with a grain of salt and a chuckle for the day.
The ones that drive me nuts are the ghost.
A) You see a profile and respond. Good they reply and you start a nice back and forth CM email conversation.
Then WTF poof disappear No answer to a mail you send. It can not be something you said cause you can see it was deleted unread.
B) Same as above only you talk more and move it to a messenger and talk for a few days and things look promising many shared interest.
WOW WTF poof disappears. No reply to any communications.
C) Just a step deeper then B you have agreed to meet at the magic very public place. Drive all the way there for a no-show.
Holly WTF you guessed it. Poof disappears.
No reply to any communications.
D) The last is the worse. You talk and talk. Text, emails, long cell conversations.
It just feels right. Your smiling more . Hell you are even in a better mood. at work.
Thing progressing you are talking long range plans and ideas.
Then WTF WTF! Yep poof disappears. No reply to any communications.
Wouldn't you think you owe it not just to the other person but to yourself as well to talk out what ever made it take a left turn.
Was it a miss read txt or email? Was the meaning taken wrong? Did he take a signal from you a way that wasn’t meant and went into a wrong direction.
At least talk it out so you do not lose what could have been a great relationship over a simple misunderstanding. .
Don't ghost at least tell them why you are no longer interested in talking.
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