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To be a good at anything you need to listen and be able to put into practice that which you know works for the individual. This goes for doms, subs, switches and slaves. I am good at what I do because I do just that. The best way to get to know someone is to actually speak with them. Whether it be live and in-person, phone, text, instant messenging, email...connecting and interacting lets a person get to know about another person as well as themselves. If you're in a rush to get off as quickly as your "moment" comes (no pun intended) it will be gone just that fast.
I try to be an open book. Ask me anything and I will tell you my answer.
One other quick point. In my world there is no one that can sit in judgement of another...what they like or want or desire and whether that is good or bad etc. If you are one that wants to pigeon hole another person and put them in your predefinded box of what is submission or domination or sadism or masochism etc., please pass me by (our conversation will be shortlived). We are all here to connect on one level or another so trying to connect on some level is the fastest way to make a friend (and maybe more).
Also my public/business life and my private life are not entwined with each other. Like many of you "church" and "state" or "work" and "play" must remain separate. If you cannot understand this then I would surmise our conversation will again be shortlived.
So with that being said, take a look at whom I am actively seeking. If you fit the bill, send me a note. It just may be the most fortuitous message you send out.
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