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About ficklefem
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*the original *
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I keep being asked what I am looking for?
well its not to be rushed, I may not be ready yet, you may not have inspired enough trust in me, but what ever happens i will meet you when i am ready. I have been here before - and will not make those same mistakes?
so this is me taking my time, making friends and chilling with all things bdsm
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I have had quite a few emails and on line chats now and i am beginning to find my feet much more so thank you?
just thinking out loud now but I thought I would drop a few of those learnings here ....
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Doms who behave with cartoon predictability do not attract me.?
What do I mean by this??
1. Presuming I will respond to suggestions of scenarios where i am naked and on show is a mistake - ?I guess if all subs are like this then I do not fit the generic pool.
2. Melting at once the moment you mention, whipping, spanking etc etc.
3. Your presumption that I should wear tarty or sexually provocative clothing - its a stereotype and one which can be understood but I dont fit any stereotypes that I am aware of.
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I guess all of the above is irritating as it presumes too much. Admittedly I have responded to many things my Dom has wanted - even if I hadn't. But to respond this way to a guy I dont know or have little to no ?rapport & trust with just seems odd.
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Uneducated men turn me off - educated men turn me on - mainly because i admire in others the things i don't have ?and i adore the ability some have with words and words have so much more impact on me than anything you can yield.
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Please let me be forward a little - I am going to give myself, my mind and my body. You will give me time to build trust, desire and kink. Eventually I will know you enough to take the steps in kink you would like. But its never going to be via email or in just a few weeks.
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Ok so I've decided after much research and listening to the doms out there that this whole bdsm thing isn't for me - I'm not free to give myself anywhere other than the bedroom
I simply crave kinky off the wall lustful sex with a guy who is string enough to know what he wants and man enough to take his time to get there :-) |
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***flogging will continue until morale improves*** |
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