FFL

I have done the 24/7 thing before (am actually quite new to this online stuff) and I think that at least half the folks on here are full of crap (or need other hobbies, soap making anyone?). There HAS to be laughter, fun time, outings, hobbies, intellectual and spiritual growth, quiet evenings on the couch when you're naked and in cuffs but we're really just snuggling and watching a funny movie. There HAS to be growth beyond "getting today done". There will be visits from relatives, there will be disasters, there will be holidays and neighbors asking what the heck was that noise last night ("Oh... we had a ... water balloon fight, yeah, that's right"). YOU should have goals in life, sometimes they will come before mine, don't worry -- I'll get mine done. You will be expected to work outside the house sometimes. You will be expected to be a good life partner.

Uhhh, that said - if you don't want to make dinner wearing nothing except your cuffs, collar, apron and a butt-plug once in a while ... keep looking :)

I'm a real person, there's a reason I choose to not share photo's (yeah, I have a very awesome job - it's also VANILLA and I want to keep it). Just ask and I'll shoot some your way.

I will consider anyone who writes - I have enjoyed younger subs in the past and am very open to that but please know at least a little bit about where you see yourself, you need to be on the harder side of kinky for me to be interested. For those who already know what they want -- bring it - just know that I am not your last guy, I will do my level best to ensure your needs are met as I see them - but topping from the bottom isn't going to go well. Fine line between speaking your mind (which is a necessary thing) and telling me how it's going to be (not ok).

If this sounds interesting and fun to you then shoot me a message.

FFL

Note: I am not interested in the least in married women or those that want "something on the side". I want a healthy happy partner who is interested in life and growth -- if you have a need to be de-humanized 24/7 then pass me up please. If you can't play act in the vanilla role then forget it - that's a hard requirement. If you can't find humor in yourself and life then please don't write me. I am actually quite demanding - yes, TPE - and there is no negotiating -- but life is composed of moments, and there is great reward in many different kinds of moments.