NOTE: FOR THOSE I haven't kept in touch with as much recently or for awhile...I'm Keeping Those Around I Intend to Keep in Touch with, and whose Friendship I Value Most. You'll Know Who You Are Soon!!! ;) ...Et Merci, Monsieur D.!! J'ai reçu la carte postale de Singapour! Bises!
"...I'm not trying to say I'll have it all my way. I'm always willing to learn when you've got something to teach. Oh, and I'll make it all worthwhile. I'll make your heart smile...." ~~ "Strangelove," Depeche Mode [Dave Gahan sounds like a "Switch" in this tune. ;-) ]
I'm sure I'll be updating/changing this as time goes on...La Donna Mobile! LOL
AN UPDATE: What I'm looking for seems impossible!!!! LOL Ideal, best-case scenario --- An LTR, (i.e. "Vanilla-ish/monogamous - [Dont be hatin'!]) relationship with a Huge side of Kink/BDSM, with a Master (or Switch.) Best friends first, with mutual BDSM interests, and eventually, would love to lead to a real LTR. I'd like to start getting to know those with true potential, and exploring real experience. I don't know how else to start...Sure I can just offer to sub to someone, but I'm seeking more than just that.
As far as labeling myself a "Switch" instead of just a sub. Sometimes I find myself losing the taste for being a Domme, then sometimes, find myself in Domme mode with that 'attitude.' WE Are ALL Complex invidividuals with different tastes/needs/preferences. I'd like the option of Switching, but is not a priority. I know...How some Doms are all about TPE. My former Master never Switched with me. However, others have - NOTE: This was ONLY Online experience so far. (I explain further, below.) So...I'm a bit torn about it. Since it's been difficult to find a Switch who is more Dominant-oriented. Having said that...I like the idea of Switching when my partner/Master wants me too. Under his guidance & supervision in a way, so I can learn to please him in that way too. That would be the ultimate "topping from the bottom" dynamic, perhaps? LOL
For Anyone else still reading this....I don't mind making new friends with like-minded people on here. Although my priority is finding a Dominant partner/Master I can be with Real Time. Duh!! Who isn't? And those long-time friends here from far-flung places...I DO Appreciate Your Friendship, and You Always Know How to Reach Me. Even if it's been a long time...I Still Keep the GOOD PEOPLE Around. ;) By that I mean, Respectful (no matter who is the subbie! lol), Kind, Intelligent, Interesting, with a Great sense of humor, Open-minded, Down-to-earth. I have been fortunate to meet some great people here, and sorry if don't keep in touch as much with some I have grown to like as, and consider friends. YA'LL Know who you are, I hope! ;)
**I Will Reply to Messages..Just Give Me Time! Sometimes I stay away from the 'Puter for several days at a time, for My sanity's sake! LOL...So if I don't reply right away, or within a couple days, please don't think I'm ignoring you.**
"EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD IS ABOUT SEX, EXCEPT SEX. SEX IS ABOUT POWER." - Oscar Wilde...Gotta Love Him!!
ABOUT ME AND WHAT BROUGHT ME HERE: Here is some general info./background, as explaind to someone via email here. Since several are asking...Figured I should put up something about myself... I started on myspace years ago, where I soon met my friend, Master Sam (Proctor100) on there, along with other subs and Master/Mistress friends. Many were helpful and willing to share and talk and give me advice/guidance and I greatly appreciated that. Too bad, I lost touch with some of them over the years. I always kept in touch with Master Sam as I liked him too as a friend and something of a mentor when it comes to answering my questions, advice, etc. I had subs who liked me a lot. Said I was a very good Mistress, and that I was sometimes 'cruel," though I didn't think so. However, I did like the idea of...Stepping/trampling on a guys cock!!!! LOL And I Do LOVE A Man With A Foot/Heel Fetish!!! ^_~
(MMMM...That Domme side is still and always there some how, and comes out with subs, the better the sub...the more it comes out too!!!...But I find this happening less and less, as I enjoy being a sub more.) So...I explored my interests, discovered what I think I might like, and learned like that.
I started switching a couple years ago. I saw it as more of a 'break', something different, a change of pace. Saw it more like just role-playing, here and there. Some guys just into 'cybersexing' are or came across as dominant types so I enjoyed that. And enjoyed switching with Masters. And had fortune to meet Masters, willing to switch with me to help me learn. So....I have a particularly soft spot, (No pun intended)! haha...For Master's who "Switch".
And with last Master before Master Sam, again met him thru myspace. Really did a great job with bringing out my sub side too. He said he saw me as a 'natural submissive." While...Master Sam was telling me, "You're a domme. I want you to be a Mistress." As I told him, I'm enjoying subbing more and you'd be surprised how much I've changed!!! LOL Though..I still have some long-time subs/friends who I keep in touch with as friends, not in as a Domme-type.
I feel a bit out of my league here! LOL I definitely want real experience. I haven't found a suitable, compatible Partner/Master(/Switch) to train me, who lives near me! Yet...Or I'd have jumped into it already!!! I'm open to making new friends, getting to know people, and if/when I'm comfortable with someone, I'd be open to meeting, and REALLY Exploring my interests.
I AM SEEKING an Experienced Master who, preferably of course, has owned and trained subs before and enjoys it...OR..Is willing to take on a Newbie!!
A Master who is patient and understanding about ALL the thoughts and emotions that go through a sub's mind, like how intimidating it can be with New Experiences and that....FOR ME...Surrendering control can be difficult but when I have I loved it, which is surprising because....I'm Usually A "Control Freak!!!" LOL Which explains where the Domme-side comes in, naturally.
I have done best with someone more patient, nurturring, and open-minded and without rigid rules and protocol, though I've gotten a bit better with that as far as prope conduct/behavior.
OK....I'm Fiesty, have been called a little Mexican Spitfire, and recently, a Hell Kat!! hehe...;) So...YES I Need an intelligent, strong Master (Strong in mind and character, not necessarily physically.....but that Helps too! hehehe...)....Someone Who Can Help Guide Me and Reign That Shit In!!!lol...Who won't let me "top from the bottom," if I try. Who can be more Domineering and Teach me some Discipline and improved Obedience. Put me in my place, you know?!? ;)
I'm also a Sapiosexual-type. I like a Master who appreciates my intelligence (Shocking I know, but...Wait for it!...) and who is further Aroused that an intelligent, opinionated, fiesty woman...Is willing to be on my knees, or on all fours for You, in Collar and leash, at Your feet, awaiting instructions or "Playtime," perhaps? ;) And someone who can appreciate my ideas and take some things into consideration, as I have a deliciously dirty mind, that's been referred to as a "Factory of Filth." Hehehe...
I've been called a Diamond-in-the-Rough, and that I just need fine-tuning as I'm a bit rough around the edges. With the right Person/Excellent Master...I feel I can be like a "TABULA RASA"...a Blank Slate...New to this, Moldable, Trainable...Make me into Your devoted little subslut...Your treasured, Owned little Pleasure Pet...Your Cock-worshipping whore... You Get the Idea, Non? ...(Yes, I Do love the dirty talk!! hehe) ;D
I NEED to submit to someone, something fierce!!! And I'm on here because, I definitely want this in my next relationship. Seeking a monogamous LTR in which I can train and learn and grow, long-term, with someone I can Trust and be a devoted sub to.
SO...ANYONE GAME!? ;-D If so, Do Please feel free to message me and tell me about Yourself and Your expectations.
I Wrote This last Night, June 16, 2024 at approximately 11 pm:::
ONE YEAR AGO
Regarding: June 16, 2023, San Francisco
It was a Year ago Today, that I met an AMAZING Man from here. We met in a weekend evening for dinner, in San Francisco. I stayed overnight in the city, which I love to do, but this time was only overnight, as I just went there to meet Him.
He had contacted me only about a week, or two, before meeting.in San Francisco. We were first planning to meet the previous weekend, but with transportation issues with the Train not running that weekend and at the time, I did NOT want to make the drive up to SF. After meeting Him the following weekend, the 16th, and Really Enjoyed His company A LOT! (I had regretted that decision to not meet Him the previous weekend!)
AT FIRST, I was Not sure about meeting Him. There were Some "Red Flags" here and there, that I took to be a "Bad" Sign!! Like, He was using a Fake Profile Picture!!! Yes, I was Disappointed, as I was thinking I was going to Meet the Man IN THE PICTURE! Even with a red face, it looked like a rather attractive guy. SO, I was a bit disappointed when I saw His Actual Photo!! And At First, I Did NOT Find Him attractive! Still, I was looking forward to getting away to SF for the weekend anyways, So, I went through with it!! I know, seemed crazy. Especially since he also wasn't giving me his cell number, calling me and blocking His number. AND, Not using a Real Name either!! When we met, I asked His name, and He told me a name, BUT, I'm Still not sure IF He even gave me His Real name!! Again, Crazy, I know.
I just thought, Ok, at this point, I'll go through with it. Enjoy getting away to SF even if just overnight. Plus I was THRILLED that, after ALL My time on this site, FINALLY! Meeting with Someone IN PERSON, for the First Time!!!...And AT BEST, Be Treated to a nice Dinner! LOL
BUT, When We Met, I Was (Shockingly, Surprisingly) Impressed!! Very, Pleasantly Surprised!!! He actually looked Good, Better than He appeared in His photo. Go Figure! And, What Luck! LOL
Even more Surprising, we got along Great! A little slow at first, and of course, i was just a bit nervous, as I hadn't been on a 'Date" in years! Yikes! Even though I don't call a "First Meeting" a "Date!" BUT Midway through the Dinner, It FELT Like One!!! And Yes, I was thrilled about that too!
The Conversation was Soooo Easy! One of those, Like We'd Know Each Other for Years, kind of thing. which I've Never experienced before! He has a Great Sense of Humor! He is, was VERY Charming and Impressed me with His intelligence too!! Saying some things here and there, that I'd maybe thought of but neve Said, To anyone. He made things that impressed me AND made me "think" and about some things I've been interested in for a long time, and He just had an easygoing way of sharing His knowledge about things that, I wish, I'd have gotten around to ASKING Him, "HOW" Do You KNOW That?!? LOL After He walked me less than a block to my Hotel, I was wishing the night wouldn't end. I Wanted MORE Time with Him, of course! Hence, Regretting my (bad) decision to Not go to SF the previous weekend to first meet Him, while He was I. The city for a business trip. I could have talked wtih Him for HOURS on end! It was that easy, and fun and interesting. I wanted to Know SO Much More about Him, and just spend more time with Him and be in His company, I enjoyed it so much!!! Oh Yeah, I didn't let Him get away without a little Kiss! BEIN SUR, he turned out a Great Kisser too! I should have grabbed Him again for a Secon one! I was hoping He would Try to Kiss me while we were sitting on a park bench, in Union Square, just talking, laughing, having a Great time and enjoying each others' company. Couldn't ask for a Better "Introduction" to someone, upon Meeting them in Person for the First time! It was just Absolutely Lovely! (And Way Better than I expected, after how things got started since He had first contacted me.)
And WOO!!! the CHEMISTRY Seemed to be there!! Like, "Sparks Flying!!!!" I went over it in my mind MANY times since, but Seemed Mutual! The Chemistry! WOW! I thought, Maybe JUST Me?!? I don't know! I THOUGHT IT was Mutual and SEEMED So, but, Perhaps NOT. Since, He is Not "Talking" with ME, Anymore!! Actually, Not since, I think, November of Last Year!! About 5 months After we met. But the communication was fewer, and far between, before that. Which was Disheartening, and disappointing to say the least. For about a month didn't hear from Him, maybe August or so. Then after a few emails, didn't hear from Him again for several weeks, or another month went by, I don't remember. Unexpectedly, I got a "Let's Pause things for awhile,..." email. Um, OK. I was Hoping that was just NOT a Polite brush off, leading to, Being Ghosted!!! But, turns out it was!
But DAAMM!!! I Really Liked Him!! Still Do!! He was ticking ALL The Boxes, so to speak, and then some. Plus, He Raised the Bar A LOT, For Me! As far as How He Impressed me, with His intelligence, charm, sense of humor, and just the "Whole Package!" I know, Even with ALL the "Red Flags," and Things that went Wrong BEFORE We met, I even joked about it a bit. Maybe, Yes,, ALL Warnings I should have Payed attention to, especially since, I came away Liking Him A LOT!! And After All that's happened, or Not!, I am left to just Think, that,
...."He's Just NOT That Into Me!" ...As the saying goes.
But, Now, STILL A Year Later, I'm still reeling, thought not as much as at first. But I was SO Thinking, FINALLY, I Can See a Light at the End of the Tunnel!! After this lLONG Search and being on here SO LONG! And Getting SO TIRED Of the emotional fricken roller coaster in trying to get to know someone and Meet someone with REAL Potential!! Someone, Who is the "Real Deal" as far as an Experienced Dom. Plus, even, the vanillaish interests and general compatibility.
MMMM LOVELY!!!! I LOVE That Kinda "Furniture!!!" The Bench-thingy whatever it's called -- The POSITION!!! ;) -- The Bondage --- Everything!!! Me Likey!!!! ^_~
I don't know what this is from...saw it on a profile here and....ME LIKEY!!!! Hhhmmm....In one of My previous "Journals" I DO Say Something About "TAMING" Me!!! Check it Out!! Hehe
"Men have forgotten this truth," said the fox. "But you must not forget it. You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed."
**** S I G H **** I'M Getting Soooo TIRED Of This Shite... Tired of "Losing" another one, for various reasons, especially the Better Ones Who Are Already Starting to Have An Affect On Me, and that I Start to Like A LOT!!! ;(((
Maybe I'll Take A Hiatus from Here.....OR....Finally Break Down and Join FL Perhaps?!?!? Haha...But FIRST...FIGHTING BACK Tears...And "Losing"...;(
...Just A "BAD" Day All Around!!!!...NEED SOME CHEERING UP ALREADY!!!!...And Find Myself Coming Back To THIS ONE Again!!...
AH! I've seen this quote before and LIKE IT...A LOT!!! SO TRUE!!! ^_~.....I haven't read the Book this qute comes from,...Yet!
MMMMM Just Lovely and Exquisite!!!!...HHmm..I Think I DO Share this quote in a long-oast Journal, and Make other comments on it!! Haha....Silly Me. I'd forgotten about that...;)
“It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.” ? Cherise Sinclair, Dark Citadel
Aaahahahaa....SO TRUE!!!! Just found this on FB too. BRILLIANT!! ^_~
And I Added on My Wall.... "HAHA....DAMN RIGHT!!!! And ALL Attempts at Manipulation, Insults, and Condescending BS....Will NOT Be Tolerated!!! ...Some of US, Will Even Call Someone On That shite!!!....Just sayin'. "
I don't have a problem with that, If/when it's necessary. ;)
Cool...Interesting...Fun Stuff from Face. Book, that I wanna share here. ;)
Stumbled Upon this on a Profile today...Me Likey!!! ^_~
"True dominance isn't about disciplining your sub, it's about earning the trust and respect of your sub so that You are the only one she wants to be disciplined by, that Your orders are what she craves to obey, and that in Your presence she feels safe and scared, proud and humbled, totally free and completely owned. Hearing the words "I'm disappointed in you." should be a sub's greatest fear."
-Anonymous
HHHhhmmmm...Thay ALMOST "Have" me...A well-written profile...Until I get to the "Poly" part...Or the "joining a poly household " part that they make no mention of in the text of their profile. ( SIGH)
SO...Another TWO "Bite The Dust!!!!" WOW..Both Such A Waste of Time!!! Especially the BS-er, Trying to Mislead Me that he was something he's not and Misrepresenting himself. And Others, PRICKS on a Whole Other Level!!!! LOL But...I Understand in a way, and Continue To "WEED OUT THE WEAK ONES!!!!" Heehee
So.....WHO'S N E X T??????!
HHhhmmm...I've met, and have had, guys who think they want to - Or Even CAN! - "TAME" Me!!!Hehehe
To Which I Reply: "But WHY would You want to Completely 'Tame' me?"
Sure, I know, that can be part of the fun and pleasure of being the Dom/Master and all. But, It's Like...That would kinda defeat some kinda purpose or something, Non?!? Hehe
I mean for example, WHO Wants a Woman Who Is completely "TAME" In Bed?!? To me, that sounds like "Tame" = Lacking Any Kinda PASSION and...B O R I N G!! (Maybe a lesser Dom/Master would like a completely Docile-Doormat of a wench like that? I don't know...Hehe)
HOWEVER...IF You Can Understand MY Thinking and Reply on THAT One...Then WE Can Definitely Get Along.....and Then Some!!!! ^_~
...And I Look Forward to Hearing From "YOU!!!" ;D
Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind. ~ Rudyard Kipling
Aaaww, I realize how "Easy" I'd be, for the Right Man/Partner/Master (See past Journals for more info. on That!)
And I also realize, how that can make things more difficult. Makes Me All "Eager-to-Please" and Be "Owned" already!! And well...That can perhaps, cloud my judgement.
SEE...It was an "Anniversary" weekend last weekend. Marked 3 years of knowing my former Master and well.....Has been rather melancholy.
OMG it was a roller-coaster ride. I can Almost CURSE him for being bloody brilliant with bringing out my 'sub'-side, that....I don't know what to do with.
He told me that once, that, not being "Owned" I'd not know what to do with myself. Again, a bloody Brilliant DOM AND with "Reading" people/subs, especially ME!!!!
BUT DAMN....Was a difficult weekend with ALL that's happened. It wasn't always all great and smooth sailing, like ANY 'Relationship' whether real life or online. And FOR ME...WAS VERY REAL!!! No matter if we only knew each other online, considering the distance ACROSS The Pond to England!!! *SIGH*
But just....Been Feeling "LOST" for the last several months....There is a Void Left that I fear, IF it can't be filled.....Then what? Where does that leave me?!?
Yes...He raised the Bar considerably, like I told Him....ALL Are compared to Him. And...Unfortunately - some have come close then flaked and bailed on me!! So then, NOT so close at all then, Right?!?? LOL - but No One Yet....Has Come Close Enough OR PREFERABLY....and I Am Looking Forward to and Hoping for the Day... I Finally Meet Someone Who Can Help BLOT OUT Almost ALL Memory of my Former Master...Help Me Move On Already, SURPASS My former Master in ALL Ways...And Have the Strength of Character, Maturity, Experience, CONFIDENCE and STEP UP ALREADY And "Claim" Me!!!!! Muaahahaha
Just Sayin'...
So...That's where I've been, oh since about Friday...*SIGH*...
Aaaawww, You know how it is, when just hearing a favorite Tune can Set You Right!!! And set the tone for the rest of Your day, or even week?
Well...Here's One of My Go-To Faves, which = *"S M I L E S!!"*
And...Another fave by the Bodeans (what happened to that brilliant band?!?)...I LOVE This, it's My favorite of theirs...
(HHhhmm...You know the excitement of getting to know someone "New"? But...It's Disheartening, and discouraging, when I start to sense that, the Other Person isn't As Interested IN ME!!! Especially someone who's NOT an arrogant "Dom" and someone I admire and am actually Impressed with!!!....GGGggrrr....Which = **S I G H**
YES, One Can Be both Happy, and a bit melancholy too. Such have been my days, sometimes, in the last couple months or so.)
...Sometimes A Dick, Is Just A Dick, and Unfortunate, When It Belongs TO A "Dick!!!!" LOL ;-D
...And One-Line Messages Will Be Ignored!!!!! IF You can't handle a decent introduction and say something about Yourself and//or WHY You want to contact ME, then don't waste My time with "small-talk", one-line BS!!!!...That's How I'm going to "Weed Out The Weak Ones" from the Start, From My Inbox, which will make it easier for Me too, with the messages I get. I APPRECIATE those who Put SOME Effort into their messages/writing.
You Guys don't realize on here, a one-line message is the modern, digital-age equivalent of Neanderthal grunting!!! Aaahahahahaaaaa...At least, How I see it and how it comes across to Me...and Usually results in the same "type" of guy and messages that ensue...LOL ^_~
HHHhhhmmm....I Think This Describes Me Well....;)
It's a hella cute KittyPoo (((That's what I call All kittens/cats))) And Pretty Damn Funny too!!!
I Can Easily Be a Sweet, little PuddyTat, all Purring' and Happy to be Curled Up at 'Your' Feet, or Next to 'You'....BUT...Be Careful!!! One wrong move, Or treat Me disrespectfully, or rude, or rub me the wrong way (in a way, lol)....And...Watch Out!!!...The Claws WILL Come Out!!!! Hehehe...
P.S. This is also pretty fitting for a "Switch"-Type too!!! ^_~
I ASKED and Got Permission yesterday, from this interesting, older Gentleman Dom or Switch, Man in the UK....profile name: usefulskills....To Share this Link/Article from His Journal!! Yay!
He also has a lovely explanation of His own in regards to the Switch Mentality!!! It's spot on. Short. Sweet. & To the Point. ....Not like my long-arse, rambling profile, I still need to edit/clean-up a bit. LOL
YES, My priority is finding a Dom/Switch here for a RL relationship, as I mention on My profile.
However...I DO Like making Friends the World Over!!! Learning about different People and Places, Cultures, History, etc. And I enjoy taking foreign languages for FUN!! (A rarity among most Americans, which is unfortunate that most here in the US could care less about learning and speaking another language, unlike in Europe, and other foreign countries.)
So I DO sometimes check out profiles of European peeps, cause I Loves EuroTrash!! Hehe I Mean NO Offense, just my funny, silly way of putting it. PLUS My former wonderful Master & Friend is from England, so I have a weakness for UK-types...And Pretty Much, ANY KIND OF EUROPEAN ACCENT = MAJOR BONUS POINTS!!!! Hehehe...((And IF It were to Lead to something more than just an 'online friendship' over a long time, (and I haven't met a potential real partner here by then)...Than...Even Bettah!!))
Am I the only one finding all Academic-like 'studies' of BDSM Fascinating?!?? HOW Do I get involved with THAT kind of "RESEARCH?!!?"Teehee ;)
OK....Enough...HERE IT IS!!! Link to the article:.
Aaawww...Nice!! THANK YOU to those recent, new Subscribers to My "Journal"!!!
To What do I owe the Honor?!?? ;) Very nice of Ya'll...Thnk You.
And that goes for the additions of the "Admirers" too..Would be Nice to hear from some of You!! ESPECIALLY the Bay Area/South Bay Locals!!! ^_~
HHHhhmmm...Calling yourself a "Devil" or Being "Devilish" sometimes, is one thing...Being a DICK, is another!!!
....And Neither Is A "Gentleman"...LOL ^_~
Sometimes...It's just a Sexy/Naughty profile pic that catches my eye...sometimes even before I know the 'Gender' of the person behind the profile.
And....SOMETIMES...I Check out profiles of those in areas of the country, OR in Other Countries, that I like.
Sometimes...It's Just The Screen NAME That Catches My Eye, So...I Have To Check Out The Profile And What The Person Says About Themselves...
Having Said That.....The Last One....Something I found rather Amusing!! BUT...
Uuhhmmm....IF You Call Yourself "Sublime God," ahem...Then repeat on Your profile that You "ARE" a Sublime God, then um.....Sorry.....BUT...You're NOT!!!!!!
DOH!! Hehe...Just Sayin'....;)
A**holes/Doms/"Masters" whatever Aren't worth My tears of frustration...Yet, it happens. Because I'm fricken' HUMAN And Do NOT Like My Emotions toyed with!!!!! (Really, Who does? Um...don't answer that. lol)
But...The So-called "Masters" Who MISLEAD others and MISREPRESENT themselves.....Can Piss Off!!! This isn't the first time it's happened, but hopefully will be the Last!!!
And....Bloody Hell...Do I HAVE TO Say It AGAIN?!? Then...DON'T
WASTE
MY
TIME!!!!!! ...IF You are NOT Seeking the same thing I am!!!! And NO....NOOOOOO I Do NOT want you to offer your paltry 'services' just to "Train" Me!!! ROFLMAO AM I ASKING FOR THAT?!? Do I Say that ANYWHERE in MY Profile?!?? NO!!....So WHY BOTHER Me, then?!???....and Waste My time?!??
WTF??! I Don't understand it....My Profile is in Plain English isn't it?!?? Sure...I can Edit it cause I ramble on, and some things need to update. But...I Think it's Pretty Easily EXPLAINS What I'm Looking for!!!! If....You're NOT it or can't offer it....MOVE ON and LEAVE ME ALONE to Talk to the Lovely MEN on here Who are seeking the same thing as I am!!!!
GEEZ!!!...This is getting even more frustrating and tiring, dealing with idiots who can't READ and Understand what I'm seeking.
***Pardon my 'French', but when something irritates the shite out of me, Or worse, is misleading and messing with me and toying with My feelings...Then, Yeah I take it personally...and...."Little Miss Nice Girl" steps back...
And guess Who comes out to 'play'? (haha a pun on words there)
OK...NEW RULE For Myself Here!!!
FIRST....I like to get to know someone a bit here with messages back-and-forth here. You can't handle some Basic communication like that here....MOVE ON and Don't Bother Me.
2) NO Instant messaging on here until I've Seen a pic and KNOW Who the hell I'm talking to. IF that goes wel...THEN...and ONLY Then Will I Move to another IM, (I have MSN Messenger but rarely use it, and just prefer YIM now. IF You get that far.)
Whenever I have made Exceptions to those - Adding someone to my YIM too soon and/or starting a Convo. in instant messaging here, and NOT followed those "Rules" - I Have Regretted it, IMMENSELY!!!!
NO MATTER HOW I was impressed with someone to begin with.
IF You Can't Handle Simple, Basic Communication HERE....Nor send me pic(s) through HERE, if You don't have a "Face" pic on your profile - and You'll get mine in return - THEN...DON'T
WASTE.
MY.
TIME.
.....Nor yours, (but I woouldn't care about you wasting your own time....ONLY MINE!!!!!!!)
WORSE.....THOSE WITH LAME-ASS EXCUSES AS TO WHY They Can't Reply Properly to Questions I ask in private Messages here....OR Share Their Pics here, Even Just ONE!!!! And I will Do What I Say I'll do, in exchange.
IS THIS EASY ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND??! SSSOOO...Sick of Time-Wasters on Here!!!
.....So.....WHO'S N E X T?!??
Aahahahaa.....^_~
Aaaww, I LOVE Learning something New Every Day!!!
Like stumbling upon THIS...On someone's list of interests in their profile, I saw this term:::
"Aspophilia (sexual attraction to geeks)"
Hahaha...Is that for True? I mean, That's a REAL Word?!?
I mean...I also Learned SAPIOSEXUAL here too, and that's Definitely Me!! And Yeah...I LIKE The Nerdy-Geeky guys too. Go Figure!!!! - Hey, they can fix my 'puter without my having to call the "Geek Squad"...hhmm then again having one of those guys in my home, hhmmm...Ok, I'll stop and 'behave' on that one. LOL And, they can help me download music for my iPod!!...And, They'd LIKE it!! Hahaha...Kidding. (kind of.)
HHhhmmm...What A LOVELY, Refreshing, Week This Has Been!!!
Wanted to Say THANK YOU to the Wonderful, REAL Gentlemen who I've "met" this week...and hearing again from some wonderful older/long-time friends on here, and from the 'myspace days." ;-D
Ya'll Know WHO You Are....If We've been messaging back-and-forth This Week. ^_~
Nice to Know and Be Reminded of Real, Sane(!), Sincere, Experienced Doms/"Masters" I've had the fortune to hear from lately....And....WHO Actually READ My Whole Profile - + the Journals! ;) - and Actually Like what They Read too. Hehe ;)
You'd be surprised how many DON't bother, then continue to ask me questions with answers they can already glean from my profile. OMG And That = Those who are a complete waste of time! Geez.
I'm heading out in a bit, but wanted to say
THANK YOU, SIRS!!!! YA'LL Are a Much-Needed Breath of Fresh Air around here!!! After what I've been dealig with, with some on here, well It's quite Refreshing and restores my faith in MEN.....Not immature guys or as one lovely Man put it, the "boy-males" haha..
So...THANKS AGAIN....I'll Be In Touch with "You" soon!!!! ^_~
Sincerely,
~ A
Wow...Interesting quote I came across on someone's page. I did contact him and have permission to post it (as it IS from him, not from a book or something...):: Screen name - Annatar.
Thank You, Sir!! ;)
"The essence of sadomasochism is not so much "pain" as the overwhelming of one's senses - emotionally more than physically. Active sexual masochism has little to do with pain and everything to do with the search for emotional pleasure. When we understand that it is pain only, and not cruelty, that is the essential in this group of manifestations, we begin to come nearer to their explanation. The masochist desires to experience pain, but he generally desires that it should be inflicted in love; the sadist desires to inflict pain, but he desires that it should be felt as love...."
Hahaha...Aaawww, Good Old Neitzche...Makes his way among one of my pages...Again!! (i.e. I just posted another quote of his on my FaceBk page.)
HHhmm...I LOVE the sound of that. I Am kicking myself for not finding this sooner..I SHOULD Have Used the Screen name "Dangerous Plaything."
...As it might be more accurate than You might think!!!LOL...IF one can get me to the point of Begging to be their "Plaything." ;)
"The true man wants two things: Danger and play. For that reason, he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything."
~ Friedrich Nietzsche
Someone once told me, [That other site] "F.L. is a community. CollarMe is a meat market." LOL Starting to believe that about CM at least. After yet another "Married" guy and a "FWB/NSA"-type contacted me. HHhmmm....Maybe this will make it easier.
PLEASE Do NOT Contact Me IF...
"Your are married...
...You are looking for a "NSA"/"FWB"...
...You are Bi or transgendered (Not that there is anything wrong with that, just NOT my thing.]...
...You are a "Daddy" Dom, that wants a "baby/little/middle"-type, and into AB, or want a grown woman to act and dress like your "little girl" or "daughter"...
...You're Not a Trained, Experienced Dom/Master and have trained a new sub, or subs, before...
...You are "Seeking - Joining a Poly Household," or "Polyamorous," or into "Swinging," or "POLY""-Anything [involving others in Any way]!!! Including 'Using/Playing' with other subs (even if sex isn't involved), AND/OR attending public/private 'play parties' and events....((( I am monogamous, loyal to one partner, whoever my "Master" might be, I expect the same, and think it's a pretty damn good deal. hehe LOL IF You have problems with that, or have a different idea of what "Monogamy" is, then we are Definitely NOT a "Match,"...Please Don't Try to Mislead Me, at First, Thinking You'll Convince me Otherwise [eventually or something] and Don't Waste My Time, Nor Yours...)))
...You are a smoker....
...You have several kids - or even just one kid - that You don't support. (Some of us have Some standards. ;)...)...
IF ANY Of That Applies to or Describes You, in some way...Why are You still reading? You can go on to the next profile now.. And Best Wishes to You with finding what You are seeking on here...;)
I'm just seeking a Like-minded, Regular ol' "Straight Male Dom"/Master/Partner...
...It's That Simple....and It's That Hard!!!...*SIGH*...
(Open to any with similar interests, also in vanilla bean ways too of course. But Locals within the South Bay/Bay Area of California, MOVE TO THE FRONT OF THE LINE, for obvious reasons!!) ^_~
Hhhhhmmm...I had been thinking like this, [see Quote below] with my former Master.
And saw myself porgressing to this point, in thinking, my mindset, when it came to Him.
And I'd think...What BLISS it would be,...Being in His hands like that, like this.
I EVEN Used the Words::: NOT THINKING, JUST FEELING!!!!!
...And totally being in sync with Him.
Well...I need to be trained as a 'sub' for some time, first, before progressing to 'slave.' You know, like "Baby steps." Learning to Walk Before I Can Crawl!!!! (Get It? Yes, I Reversed those on Purpose!!!! hehehe) ^_~
The joy of being a slave. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel." --Cherise Sinclair
It Also, somehow Reminds me of my fave poem by Allen Ginsberg, written in my hometown too!! Which ends....
"Yes, yes,
That's what
I wanted,
I always wanted,
I always wanted,
to return
to this body
where I was born."
Aaaahhh, a Zen-like ending, mixed with the sensual and erotic at the same time.
Just Lovely, isn't it?!?!! ^_~
Found this, again while perusing profiles...Hhhmmmm...
I Have, in a way, Felt Like This, Still Do, and Want to Again, with "Someone," for Real and long-term...
"I will do all manner of depraved, dirty, slutty, and shameful things to be your
'Good girl.' "
Though It May Be intimidating, and challenging, at first,....LED By the Right, Experienced Hand, By "Someone" I (once again) Felt Treasured, Safe, and Comfortable with....and Who I Worshiped and Adored...
...I Would, I Can, and I Will.
*SIGH*
O M F G!!!!! I LOOOOOVVEEE THIS VID!!!!! ^_~
OH I AM Jealous of This lucky little subslut!!! Hahaha...
SOOO Wish I was in her place!!!
LOVE the bondage, the position, and love that table-thingy she is on...That table-thingy and the way she's tied up...Is One Favorite I'd def. LOVE to try!!!!! (Have seen similar in other BDSM vids.)
Only Bummer...the face cumshot...SOOOO fricken' ridiculous and assume, just because they are making a video,the Assume All guys or even women, just want to see that??!? Um...NO...And It's A Complete Waste of Delicious Cum!!!
I Say, Or Politely ASK,...IN my fuckholes, PLEASE??!?!? Master's Choice, of course!!! hahahaha....
OK...Now I gotta go, Or I can be here for Hours, watching more vids!! hahahaa
Sssooo...I'm not hardcore into Bondage.
Have issues, like a bit "claustrophobic" for lack of a better word, but....Can't stand if I'd NOT be able to move, and completely immobile. For that reason, I can't stand "sensory deprivation" or things like "encasement." OMG...That's too 'hardcore' to me!!
Plus...I can be picky.
Being a naughty little bitch...hehehe...My Philosophy On Bondage is:
....Whatever Ropes or some other restraint device-thingies Used...
"..As Long As ALL My Fuckholes Are Still Easily Accessible!!!!!!"
For OBVIOUS Reasons!!! Hehehe As long as that's the case...Be As "Creative" As "YOU" Want!!!! ^_~
For Example, I LOVES These Pics, These Are "Do-able":
2) Love that device, not a typical spreader bar, not sure what it's called. It's a metal bar, with wrist cuffs...Can anyone tell me? And I LOVE the wrists bound to the bar thingy too. A Bondage-Doggy-Style = Very Nice!!! ^_~
IF They Work for "YOU'...Wonderful!! They'll Definitely Work for me too...hehehe
A Little Sumpin'...Some Random Thoughts...To Perhaps Give Some Insight, About Me, and Into The Type of Man/Partner.Dom/Master I am seeking, and How to Reach Me....THE RIGHT WAY!!! ;)
There is Something called TACT, and a certain degree of respect (no matter if I'm the subbie), at least starting out, until it's established mutually, that I'd be "Your" sub...
Few have done it, it takes a certain character,...Intelligent, Patient, Open-minded, Not TOO Strict (at least, not starting out, until a closer connection and trust established)...
Takes a Certain Finesse, I'm learning....Yeah NOT All Doms alike. I have to learn to adapt to one's New ways, yes. But the initial getting to know each other stage, I can tell a LOT about Your character in how I'm spoken to and how "You" express yourself, in general.
Respectful - I say this often in other Journal entries, apparently it is Sorely Lacking in many, ahem, lesser Doms (more on this later), But I AM NOT A fricken' "Doormat!" - Friendly back-and-forth, Joking/Teasing, ALL Good. No pressure. One has to help with me feeling that "You" might be the type of person I an trust. That also helps build my confidence - Being a Newbie and all -and just being comfortable with "You."
I like Intelligent MEN (NOT "Guys" or "Boys") - Self-confident, NOT Arrogant. Kind and polite. Manners Go A LONG way, especially NOW. Geez.
It takes intelligence combined with a certain level of sophistication, combined with years' experience, Real BDSM experience and training (I think, and would prefer someone with real training, but I'm open for someone with the right dominant mindset)...To be able to "Read" me, know how to read a sub and person, in general.
HECK...I have had a "Sub" end up "Switching" on Me....and LOVED it!!! (Still do, when I occasionally hear from him ;)...;) How? Well turns out he had experience as a Dom BEFORE he Switched to a sub. And Finding out, to my delight, that he's really more a "Switch" than a sub too!!! ;)
What NOT to Do...Be an arrogant jerk-off (see a few previous Journals for some stellar examples!)
And Regarding what I referred to as "Lesser" Doms....I assume, perhaps, those who are lacking in confidence that they would end up lashing out and appearing to be A-holes to begin with. Which perhaps can lead to an issue with self-control. And That = TURN OFF!!!
I can't quite explain it, being new to ALL the dynamics of BDSM relationships. BUT I CAN ONLY SAY.....I Have Had an Excellent Master - Yes, Online only, but no less important to me and had a HUGE Impact on me. A Positive influence and excellent introduction to BDSM. Sure....I am 'rough around the edges" as he'd said before....Still. I "need some Fine-tuning." But other than that, that I was an excellent sub.
This was/is someone with more than 16 years REAL experience, as in REAL BDSM Training with an older Mistress first as a sub....Like It SHOULD BE, I Think, based on His real Experience, (being trained, and training and owning several subs over time)., and the influence he has had on me.
He'd say, he wanted Me to Learn so I'd not fall prey to "Inferior" Doms who didn't know what the hell they were/are doing. And I'm Always Grateful for That in itself, too!!!!
It Works VERY WELL For Me, HERE....Yet also....Makes things more difficult.
As....One Raises the Bar Rather High for Me, and Yes..."You" will be compared to My experience with him...Most of what I have to go on....(As well as with my friend Master Sam - Proctor100 among my friends here, who is also an Excellent, Real Experienced Master, and a few others I have known over the years.)
But...NO WORRIES....If "YOU" Are Experienced, Confident, Sensual, Intelligent, Respectful, Patient....and Don't Mind A Bit of A Challenge (?) Hehehe You Might Have to Work HARDER Than You Have with past subs perhaps...But, I'd Like to Think I'd Be Worth It!!! ^_~
"You'd" Be Surprised....How I Can melt like butter in "Your' hands. How I can and would, Love to be on all fours, in "Your' Collar and Leash, like a Sweet-little Pussycat, Purring at "Your" feet. How I Can hang on "Your" every word, Eager-to-please, and Aching to be used. How I Can Enjoy being called the dirtiest, nastiest names "You" can think of and find it Intoxicating, amazingly Arousing, and Wanting to please "You" more. That has even Surprised Me!!! ;) How I would end up (I hope!) Loving to be treated like "Your" personal whore and fucktoy. (I've been told I'm a more sexually-focused sub, whereas many female subs like the control and domination, I do too, and am liking that more, but still, very sexually-focused too!!! hehehe).Oh and that leads to Me being a Cock-worshipping type ^_~ ...How I Can get to a point of complete surrender and submission, enjoying giving up my control, and ecstatic in the pleasure of being under "Your" control, the power "You'd" have over me, wanted and needed...Again, something that surprises me. Even if it can be a bit scarey and intimidating. So, someone who Understand that...Can Know when to pull back, ease up, and when to be more forceful or strict or demanding, for example, would be Amazing!!!!
That's just an example.
That's how I've felt, with the Masters I've known, especially the last one (who I mention and explain, above).
So...That's Where I Am Now. Here on CM and maybe to join , not sure.
But...Continue to, as I say "Weeding Out the Weak Ones"..the lesser/inferior Doms!! LOL YEAH..I Said that!!! ;)
So....Where do those random thoughts lead to?
Well, IF Any of what I said resonates strongly with "You"...
If "You" Are Intelligent, Experienced, Sensual, Patient, and Strong enough and self-confident enough and don't mind a bit of a challenge, Smoothing out my "rough around the edges," and bringing out my lovely Curves ;)...and to Further "Fine-Tune" me to "Your" Liking...
IF "You" Think "You" Are Exactly the Type of Man I Describe here....
Then...Please, Feel Free to Contact Me!!!
LESSON #1 ~ IS IT TOO MUCH TO ASK, or Expect People to Be Completely HONEST About WHO They Are, and What They Are Seeking, on here?!????
ROFLMAO I get blocked after a rude message...Ridiculous!!! (And that kinda borders on Cowardly too, it seems.) BUT...
HEY SO-CALLED BIG "Boys"...DON'T DISH IT OUT, IF YOU CAN'T TAKE IT!!!!!
Here's Is or Was going to be MY Last Reply to "SearayCA"
(I AM being generous with leaving out his Real name.)
3-7-2014 @ Noon-ish
Hello Sir,
I meant no disrespect Mr. -----, just get tired of some asking questions that one can already glean from my profile, or in this case, regarding very different interests.
LOL Guess you misunderstood or just not knowing me, but....I love diversity!!! I often say, "Variety is the spice of life." More regarding ethnic diversity,...I don't discriminate, I Likes ALL Kinds!! ;) I'm just monogamous that's all.
I don't judge you about your lifestyle choices, unfortunately you don't do the same.(LOL @ myopic, one of my fave words too!) If that's what you are into, fine....I'm Not, that's all.
So we're not compatible in that way, so what? You win some and lose some on here.
So...We have distyle choices...THAT'S DIVERSITY, Sir. And...That's a VERY Good thing. ;)
And YES...Fortunately, It's refreshing to see that many Doms on here are also seeking the same type of LTR that I am. NOT everyone into BDSM, particularly Doms/Dommes, are into "Poly" relationships. So....DARE I SAY, Another Lesson (to combat myopic points of view) for You, Sir, Perhaps? Hehe...Kidding.
No hard feelings, Mr. -----. Take care and I wish You the best Sir.
A
REALLY...You Give People the BENEFIT of the Doubt That They Are Reasonably Intelligent or MATURE.....Yet, They Prove Otherwise!!!!
~~ MESSAGES BELOW....Was I Really Out of Line??? I Think Not!!! ~~
Sure, it was 1:30am....I got home from the Film Festival After-party late, and was tired...THEN., I THINK...YET ANOTHER ONE...Who Does NOT Bother To Fully Read My Whole Profile....OR Else One Would Have Learned...I'm NOT into any "Poly" relationship!!!! Bloody Hell!!!!
SO...WHY Message me, if You'd Learn that from My Profile, about the type of Relationship I am Looking for?!??
...COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME!!!!!
And he Thinks he's putting me in my place with insulting me?!? LOL Geez.
The Way I See It...We can "Agree to disagree" and BE Fricken' CIVIL and RESPECTFUL To People!!!! As I attempted to be in My reply....and was not afforded the same....And So...OnNE GETS THEIR SHITE POSTED HERE...Since I Could Not respond!!!! SO I DO HERE!!!
Whether the guy sees it or not, I really don't care...I'm Just Making My Point...
And Hoping it's a Lesson for others:
What to do - 1) FULLY READ SOMEONE'S PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING THEM!! (I mean...DUH!!!)
and 2) DON'T BE A RUDE, CONDESCENDING ASSHOLE TO ANYONE, Especially Someone You Just Contacted and Don't Know At All!!!! And Whoever is the sub or the Dom/Domme doesn't matter.
So I have NO problem putting someone in their place, sub OR Dom, if they approach me the wrong way!
I TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT...[[[And I don't even think he Deserves to be called "Sir", but I still do so out of Respect AND POLITENESS, towards someone I don't know]]].....Until They Give ME A Reason Otherwise, Like This guy, and This is What you Get...
FemmeNoir on 3/7/14 at 1:30 AM:
Hi Mr. Greg,
Damn...Well, You almost "had" me!! ;(
First thing I do on CM is check "Who vieweed me?" part. Deleted a few whose profiles I'd seen before and wasn't interested in. Saw YOUR profile and yeah, liked the look of You AND Your Age. NOT because I am into some Daddy-Daughter thing Eeewww!!!) I just like older men! LOL Plus, I'm here in the South Bay
THEN I check messages. Read yours and so I went to investigate and see Your profile.
Aaaaannndd It's disappointing and My heart sinks...That "Poly" shite.
NOT my thing AT ALL. Sir, Did You really READ ALL of my profile, at all? Then You'd Know....that we have Very different interests.
A committed monogamous relationship, Including Kink, is most important to me, and the natural thing for me. So..If you're in a relationship already and "poly", then...Nothing else, or other "interests" really don't matter do they?
And it's bad enough when married guys don't say they are married on their profiles - See my Journal about that one! - but...It seems, if You are Poly and already have a "primary" partner....Then PLEASE...Say so up front with a "Couples" profile, for starters.
I don't mean to tell you what to do. You'll do what you want. But seems is an insult to your "primary" -- and if you are looking for a 3rd party, and not advertising as a "Couple"...And for the rest of us, somewhat misleading at least.
Sorry for being long -winded and all...But...There it is! Really..I'm wondering Why you even messaged me! lol
Well I wish you the best in finding someone you are compatible with on here.
FN
SearayCa on 3/6/14 at 4:41 PM:
Hello. Would you like to explore some common interests. We seem to have common interests. Are you in the Bay Area? -----
HHmmm....Found this Gem a few days ago, and can't get it out of my mind!!!
Love everything about this vid, except that it's too short! Hahaha....
...But I LLOOOOVVEE How the Dom Treats and Uses his sub-pet!! ^_~
I'm Loving this vid and can't share it!!! WTF??! I was able to post the Cbarles Bukowski video but NOT something B. DS. M?!? gggrrrr
I'm trying something different.
B. DS. M. Streak. Dt.Com. Then type:
video/
12417/
adult-games-
maledom
I hate having to be All cryptic-like, but there You go! Hope it works!!
This is a site called CollarMe, and I have problems posting the naughty/lovely Bee. Dee. Ess. Em Vids??? That makes NO sense. lol
SEEMS...I Have to Re-Post this one...After encountering like, 4 Married guys in 2 weeks!!!...
Bloody Hell!!!!! HELLO!!! MARRIED GUYS On Here!!!!
TO ALL Married guys Who Might Be Reading this....
HEY!! How About Putting That You are MARRIED at the TOP Of Your Profile, instead of the Bottom!!!! FULL DISCLOSURE, UP FRONT, for Every Woman on here who might come across Your profile!!!!!!!
...WOW! What A Concept?!??
Well...It Beats...Reading through someone's whole profile and Finding That Out...At the End, at the Very bottom of Your profile!!!!!D
DO US ALL A FAVOR....And TELL Us That Up Front.....So Some of Us at least...Won't Have to Waste Our Time By Reading Your Profile Any Further.
---The only thing Worse, is when someone doesn't even Mention on their profile that they are married!!! Like, that's Not Important enough to let Us know on here!?!?? Bloody hell!!!
Trust Me....It Will/Would Be Greatly Appreciated!!!! ;) Just Sayin'...
~ FN
NICE!! I just stumbled upon this Gem while perusing Profiles on here...
"Submission is a state of mind Subservience is a state of existance."
I'm working on the former and hope to find a Partner/Master who can definitely help with that. And hopefully, Help me learn more, grow, and progress...to the Latter, that way of thinking and "existence." Hehehe...^_~
Finally off to bed...An Early "Good Morning" to You, Mr. S.!!! ;)
THANK YOU...For being a sweetheart, Sane (!) and great to Talk to.
YOU...Are a Breath of Fresh Air Around Here!!! You Know Why...;)
Already...Would love to be crawling over to You, wearing....? ^_~
Bloody Hell!!!...Another one bites the dust, or Bails on Me...Not sure.
I'm gettin' so TIRED of this shite...Happening for the, oh 5, 6 times now?!? Maybe More? Hell I don't know....I Lost Count!!!
Another "One with Potential" was getting to know = A Complete Waste of Time!!!!!
Well, Ends up equalling a Complete Waste of Time....
Thinking of saying "Fuck off" to this site and trying my luck on .
I haven't joined FL yet, cause I think...And what if the Same Shit ends up happening?!??
Just feeling Duped. And for one of the lamest "excuses" I've ever heard!!!! LOL...
...MOVING ON....................
HHhhmmm...I know, We "win some and lose some."
Sucks when ones I was enjoying getting to know, (and that Seemed mutual), then turn out to be rude flakes and stop hearing from them just as quickly as they started messaging me and trying to chat me up.
So...I'm Finding Myself in an Odd predicament, I Never Saw Coming!!!
Turns Out:
FOR SOME DOMS, I'M NOT "sub" ENOUGH AND FOR THE subbies, I'M NOT "DOMME" ENOUGH!
(Actually, I'm not Domme to them at all, anymore.)
Now...If That doesn't tell me I'm a "Switch" I don't know what does!!!
I'm actually more like 80% submissive and 20% Dominant.
Then again, ask me tomorrow or next week, that might be different!! Hahaha
No....Kidding.
It's just...If My Personality is a bit too assertive for a so-called Dom, then...Guess it's the Dom with the Problem, am I right?!?!?
IF You bore me and can't take charge in a conversation and Lead so I can follow....Well then, You'll quickly bore the heck out of me...OR just not capture and maintain my Interest and You won't even come close to Unleashing the Volcano of Passion within, the Insatiable Craving for You-know-what, nor Bring the Carnal animal In me...Under control, let alone, wanting to be at the end of Your Leash!!!!!
(Hahaha....And NO!! NO!! That does not mean I want to be treated full-on like an animal and eating out of fricken bowls on the flloor!!! So don't get that idea, fellas!! lol)
Bloody Hell!!!!! HELLO!!! MARRIED GUYS On Here!!!!
TO ALL Married guys Who Might Be Reading this....
HEY!! How About Putting That You are MARRIED at the TOP Of Your Profile, instead of the Bottom!!!! FULL DISCLOSURE, UP FRONT, for Every Woman on here who might come across Your profile!!!!!!!
...WOW! What A Concept!!
Well...It Beats...Reading through someone's whole profile and Finding That Out...At the End, at the Very bottom of Your profile!!!!!
DO US A FAVOR....And TELL Us That Up Front.....So Some of Us at least...Won't Have to Waste Our Time By Reading Your Profile Any Further.
Trust Me....It Will/Would Be Greatly Appreciated!!!! ;) Just Sayin'...
~ FN
HHhhmmm....Just A Note: IF I CHECKED YOU AS A FAVORITE:::
(This is for those I haven't messaged yet...Not the "friends" or acquaintances I'm enjoying talking to, or long-time friends I like.)
IF I MAKRED YOU AS A FAVORITE:
I Enjoyed reaing your profile or something you mention resonates with me.
Perhaps...You have a Long-arse profile (like I do! lol) and I just haven't had the chance to read through it all...PLus...You have Journals I want to go back and read also.
Maybe among Your "Journals" or on your profile text itself...You have Links to intereting articles in relation to BDSM-related subjects, OR...Maybe just Links to Porn I want to go back and watch when I have more time! ^_~
I may like some things You have or say on Your page...But for some reason, I feel we wouldn't be compatible because of different interests/preferences, etc. For example, you're a gay male or Your Married!!!!, or You are in or interested in a "Poly household" type thing, for example. Or maybe are really into some fetish I'm not into, that might be a deal-breakr/hard limit, OR complete turn-off for me. - Even if the rest of your profile is wonderfully written - and I've come across several - If there's something where I think we won't "Click" or that You are really interested in but I'm not....I'm not going to hold someone back from a particular fetish they want/need to indulge, EVEN IF You seem very compatible in many other ways.
OR....SOMETIMES I Mark Your Profile As a Favorite Because....
You have a Great profile pic that catches my eye...And You have even More Deliciously naught and/or sexy pics among your profile pics....And I Want to Come Back Later and ahem...."Borrow" them from your profile!!! Or share them with like-minded friends who I know will like certain pics!!!!
AND...IF Marking Your Profile as a "Favorite" Gets You to "View" my profile....Then I Can easily FIND Your profile again, for the Pics....or the Links to articles, or great Porn, etc. (Yes...I'm told I'm a rare female, who Likes porn! Go figure!!! LOL)
And....Maybe....Just Maybe...I Haven't contacted You yet, out of just general shyness, in a way, and perhaps....a Bit Intimidated by You for some reason....
And I can't say If/When I'll ever contact those I marked as "Favorites." Sometimes I might want to but Forget who is on that list!!! LOL
So....There You Go!!!!...
Another lovely quote I, ahem, "Lifted" from someone's profile and just HAD To Share Here!!
MMMMM YEEESS!!!! Me Likey, Grasshopper(s)!!!! ^_~
Consider: The man who is proudly certain of his own value will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer, because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement, not the possession of a brainless slut. ~ Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged
I think I touch upon something similar to this on my profile...Of course, not as beautifully written though!! lol
Hhhhmmm...Funny. I didn't plan it, it just so happened!::
I spent the wee morning hours of New Year's Day...Watching Porn AND While Listening to this on the YouTubes!!!! ;)
A LOVELY Classical Tune...And My naughty "Filth-Factory" Mind goes into Overdrive, inspired by the Porn of course...LOL
And I Think...DAMN!! Put THIS TUNE...On an endless loop for a Lovely "Session/Playtime" with my Partner/"Master" and....mmmmmmmmmmm
.....Deliciously Naughty And....E X Q U I S I T E!!!!!!!
And....Might I suggest, followed by Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata, during "Aftercare"?!?? MMMM DAMN!!!!! That would be absolutely wonderful!!!!! I think....^_~
If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy...Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. Bob Marley
Found this on someone's profile. Cool. Cool.
Some Kierkegaard, 'cause I'm Cool Like That!!!! Hahahaa....^_~
"Life has its own hidden forces which you can only discover by living." ~ Soren Kiergegaard
My Reply:..."Um, Yeah. That's Usually How It Works, Soren!!!!"
Hehehe....I couldn't help it....;)
OMFG!!!! I Just Found This While Browsing Profiles and Reading their Journals. Found this on someone's Journal....and HAD To Share it Here!!!!! ;-D
OMG....This Fricken' LUCKY wench!!!!! Hehehehe OK she might be a bit too young for the guy/Master, I think. But...Being a bit older than this chic looks, I think, I LIKE Him!!!!!! Not so much looks-wise but I LOVE His Approach, and He's a bit playful too.
Obviously this chic is somewhere between Clueless and New to it All!!!! LOL I was watching it thinking 1) I Know this stuff already, and 2) OH! I'd Be/Do that Much Better!!!! heheheeee....^_~
Some things New to me or Different, the COLORS This Dom/Master mentions. MMMMMM Me Likey!!!!! I know...Everyone's Different!! In their preferences and what they want from their subs, and things regarding conduct/behavior, etc. And the Colors thing, I hadn't heard of from any Doms (or the Domme) I "played' with before. SO Watch for that in the Vid....I AM DEFINITELY A "RED" subbie!!!!!! Especially since I'd LOVE It!! And second, I Think,I Have Better "Muscle Control" than THAT!!!! (You gotta watch the vid!!!) Aaaahahahahaaaa....
DAMN...I know many different theories/techniques, etc...I NEEDS The Opportunity To Put Them Into Practice!!! Like...YESTERDAY!!!! Hehehe....
Something Like THIS Would be A LOVELY START For Me....Even IF It's a Bit slow, guess cause the girl is very new....I'M Watching It Thinking....."MORE PLEASE, SIR?!?!??" Hahaha...I'm Always the Good, obedient subgirl and Eager to Please....^_~
And MY ATTITUDE Is...When he asks for an Excuse Not to Beat me... I just feel like saying....."PLEASE DO!! IF IT PLEASES YOU, SIR!!!!"
...And Hope that meets with "my" Master's approval? ;)
[[[BECAYSE wouldn't that be kinda rude, or silly, to refuse a beating, even IF I was given the right/option to? IF that's what "Master" wants, and whether it's for any Punishment, or not. Though, my former Master was Wonderful! And said, wouldn't beat someone for pleasure, only if was for Punishment, and He'd explain WHY I was being punished, IF it came to that. MMmmm Lovely!! But I Know....Everyone's different. I'd have to adapt to what my new/real Master would like.]]]
AM I RIGHT? ANYONE AGREE? DISAGREE?!? Feel free to message me and let me know!!!! ;)
Anyhoo.....ENJOY This Lovely little "INTRO." to Training a newbie.... ;)
(...AND....I'm NOT Looking to be Trained and "Sold"....I'm Looking to Be TRAINED and KEPT!!! Owned & Collared!!!! ;-D ...)
Hhhmmmm...18 Admirers, that's very flattering,...BUT, I only hear from 2 or 3 of them???
Strange.
Then Again,....I can't remember Everyone, who I have tagged as a "Favorite" sometimes, while Browsing profiles. lol ^_~
WEEELLL...I Got my First "Hate Mail" from some punk-ass so-called "Dom"....LOSER!!!!
I'm Sharing it HERE...Because after this little rant of this dumbass...IT BLOCKS ME!!! So I Can't Reply!!!! ROFLMAO....Oh, That's Rich!!!! Just tell someone shit like this...Should I be Surprised that he wouldn't want to read a reply from me?!?? FUCKIN LITTLE BITCH LOSER!!!!
I Might have shared it here anyways, - with less 'colorful' language, LOL - IF I had the chance to respond. So....I"M POSTING MY "REPLY" TO this Jackass here, even if I doubt he'll read it and Not visit my page anymore. FINE! GOOD!!
I'M POSTING THIS AS A "WARNING" FOR OTHER FEMALES TO AVOID THIS RAT-BASTARD!!!!
...And for the REALLY GOOD MEN WITH INTEGRITY on here, and Much Better Character...Well, Surely, Ya'll Know NOT to Be Like This, in communications with women on here, Right!??!? Hehe.... ^_~
Needless to say, I got a little Domme Bitch in my response. I Treat EVERYONE with Respect on here, and in real life obviously not just those I know "online" - even those I'm NOT interested in, like I attempted to with this guy. I Treat People With Respect...UNTIL They Treat ME with such Disrespect, (especially in such an Immature, childish and ridiculous way like this)...That they Earn My Disrespect, and Disdain, in Return!!!!
....And YOU'RE WELCOME....to ALL of CM, to avoid negative losers like this.
(Below are the previous messages, for reference to what is said in the nasty [not in a good way. lol] message.)
MY REPLY - 10-24-13 @ 8:15am
Hahaha
Well aren't you a "Gem" little michael!!!
Wow! Well...Congratulations you get the award for the "First hate mail" I've received on here. LOL
Obviously gold can't be found just anywhere. Duh!!! But...As far as relationships, I want to meet someone here I can date and have a REAL relationship with!!!! Nothing wrong with that. Clearly a difference of opinion, that's all. I don't want someone who I can See and Be with...Oh whenever he is in town for awhile, before maybe deciding on a live-in situation. THAT Is BULLSHIT TO ME!! And NOT what I want. That's all. That simple. Clearly, that's lost on you.
Insults to someone you don't know and maybe you think collarme sucks because you get bad negative reactions from any females, perhaps, (not just "Americans." And you're a stellar example of a so-called loser 'man' LOL...nationality has nothing to do with it) because you sent them crap-ass messages like this?!?? DUH!!!
Funny...You insult me the way you do....Then go on talking about yourself - trying to boast about WHO the fuck you Supposedly are and name-dropping - VERY TACKY AND SILLY, by the way - Considering the content of the rest of your message, above that.
Well...I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHO YOU ARE OR WHO YOU CLAIM TO ROLL WITH!!!!....Or How you Get around. Do you think I would, after you 'talk' to me like that in your message?!!??? Rather presumptuous and arrogant to think I’d give a shit about ANY Of that!!!!! Dumbass!!!!!
ALL THAT = You're Just as Much A Waste of Space...IF NOT MORE SO....Than you Claim Others To Be!!!!!
Consider yourself BITCH-SLAPPED!!!!!! you Earned it, little boy!!!!!
You can spread all your good cheer on some other unsuspecting women on here.
GOOD BYE
THE LOSER'S MESSAGE -
From: WhipTheHip
Dated: 10/23/13 3:52 PM
Dear A:
I once met some guy who bitterly complained to me he had been searching all his life for gold, but never found any. When I asked he where he went prospecting for gold, he replied, "Oh, just in my own backyard." I didn't answer the guy, but I thought to myself this guy has got to be a world class idiot.
I don't believe in luck, and I don't need luck. I mostly date foreign female college graduates with a degree in some "STEM" field.
American females like yourself are waste of human flesh, and are totally worthless shit. I feel sorry for the guy you finally snag. If there is any poetic justice in this world he will beat the crap out of you on a regular basis. You deserve everything you get.
Good luck with that babes. You are going to need more luck than this universe contains.
Thanks for your interesting message. Once again, I learn just how worthless American females really are.
According to Einstein's theory of relativity distance is relative to intelligence. The more intelligent a creature is, the shorter the distance, the dumber the creature, the longer the distance.
Brainless humans see obstacles everywhere. Intelligent humans don't see obstacles, they see challenges.
I am currently in route to Shanghai from Hong Kong. I manage a famous hedge fund. I fly my own luxury Lear jet, and share a Boeing 747 with Warren Buffet, George Soros, Jeffery Epstein, and a few others. We each get one or two months use out of the plane each year. Time-share airliners is the only way to go.
I own my own island in the Caribbean, as do many others in the circles I travel in. Collarme.com is a complete waste of time.
Thank you for your advice. I will make a note of it, because I have so much to learn from you.
Love,
michael
The Previous Messages:
FemmeNoir on 10/23/13 at 2:06 PM:
Hi Michael
Thanks for your interesting message.
A gourmet chef? Nice!!! Haha LOL @ "Tomboy switches" I guess I fall under that type. lol
Uummm....So why you messaging me if your in Florida?!?? You should be trying to meet women where you live....Like I'm trying to meet a Master here where I live in Cali. Good luck with that Sir.
I'm not even gonna ask about the 'bi=polar' reference.
Take care and I hope you find someone on here that you are compatible with.
A
WhipTheHip on 10/21/13 at 9:07 AM:
I am an ultra-loving, mildly dominant sexually sadistic Daddy Dom and sadomasochist. . I am nerdy and zany. . I like making people smile and laugh. . Among many other things, I am a gourmet chef. . I think the greatest pleasure is giving pleasure. . I am eager to please others which is odd for a dom. . I lead softly from behind with a crop on the behind. I love nature, wildlife, science, science fiction, and the great outdoors. I always interested business partnerships. . I like bi female, tomboy switches. I also like straight female fem subs. . If you are bi-polar I can help. . michael
AAawww, I Always Loved Alexander McQueen, creative Genius that he was.
"I think there has to be an underlying sexuality. There has to be a perverseness to the clothes. There is a hidden agenda in the fragility of romance. It's like the "Story of O". I'm not big on women looking naïve. There has to be a sinister aspect, whether it's melancholy or sadomasochist. I think everyone has a deep sexuality, and sometimes it's good to use a little of it-and sometimes a lot of it-like a masquerade."
I agree!!!! I find out someone doesn't READ, and I mean...REAL BOOKS, That = COMPLETE TURN-OFF!!!! ^_~
"If you go home with somebody, and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em!"
- John Waters
"We all wear masks. And the time comes when we cannot remove them, without removing some of our skin."
~ André Berthiaume
Bloody Hel!!! Who Do I Have To Shag For A New Job, Already!!!!
Hahahaaaa.....Just kidding.!..(I think)...LOL
HHhmmm...Is It WRONG Of Me to Be Attractd to Some Hot Female Subs on Here?!?!?
...Even if they say they are only "Straight"?!??
Because...I thought I was too, until I began ahem, exploring/playing around online, and found I liked playing with girls, and some have liked me as their "online Domme'?
Unfortunately, never met ones serious about being a sub or with much knowledge about BDSM, like the experienced sub-males I've liked nade become friends with over the years.
So...Now....I kind of don't believe everyone is entirely "Straight' or one way, you know? LOL
But....Me Likey some of the subslut girls on here!!!
...What's That About?!?? LOL ^_~
Dated: August 15, 2009
I wrote this for a longtime sub-friend of mine.
AFTER SHAVE - An Erotic Tale
Getting out of the shower, I wrap my hair in a towel, and put on the fluffy white terrycloth bathrobe…..I don’t even bother to dry off my body, just wrap the robe around me and tie it around the waste. I towel dry my hair a bit, as you wait. Everything is set up, with the stool a few feet before the sink.
At the sink is everything I’ll need….The old-fashioned shaving brush, the dish of shaving soap, and….the new, old-fashioned straight razor. I bought them all at a store that specializes in shaving products for men, JUST for this Occasion!!....We’ve both been looking forward to it…You think I am just going to give you an old-fashioned shave with a straight razor, something I had mentioned before as being a fantasy, that I’ve always wanted to do to a guy….BUT I didn’t tell you everything!!
You come in, ready to start, with the hot, damp towel, to get started, fresh from being heated in the microwave. I’m at the sink, waiting. You’re surprised to see me still in the robe, barely towel dried hair hanging down around my shoulders, down my back. “You want to start NOW?” you say. Of course, I say, smiling! You (nervously) say, ‘OK’ as you take your seat at the stool.
First I have you turn around so your back is to me. You lean your head back – so it is practically in my lap as I lean against the sink - as I wrap the towel around your face. As I hold you there a couple minutes, my eyes scan and take in your body…You are only wearing your boxer-briefs, as instructed, and I smile at what is to come.
Removing the towel, you sit facing me, standing with my back to the sink, the bowl of the sink filled with water to my right….I lather up the soap a bit with the brush, and apply it to your face. Wait a few seconds, and get the straight razor, now maybe almost as nervous as you, as I’ve never done this before. To complicate matters further, you realize you are right at eye level with my pussy, my damp, naked body wrapped in the robe. I smile at you, things are going exactly as planned! What you looking at? I say. ‘YOU!’ is your reply, as you reach your hands forward and caress the outer sides of my thighs with both your hands, ‘You’re still wet!’ I know, I reply, I don’t like to completely dry off, let the robe absorb the water from my skin. You run your hands from my hips to my knees and back up again, as you say, “Gawd, you have such soft, silky smooth skin!”
“Uh-uh!” I say. You can’t do that while I’m shaving you. Wouldn’t want Me to cut You!! You smile, starting to understand the little game I’m trying to play, smiling and looking me in the eye, you say….’Ok, I’ll try not to!’
Leaning your head back, I start on your left side, with a clean sweep of the new razor, from your temple to your jaw line. Easy!
As I rinse off the razor in the sink, you once again start to caress my thighs. Opening my robe a bit when you get to my hips…You’ve got a front seat view of my soft pussy lips.
I make another sweep next to the first, ending nearer your mouth. I take a moment to observe my handiwork….You now have my ass cupped in your hands, still eyeing my pussy…I KNOW you want to dive in for a taste, but we’re not even half way done yet!
Knowing what’s going through your mind, I deliberately try to take my time. “Doing the other side will be harder.” I say, as I rinse the razor again. Now your hands are on my upper front thighs, trying to spread them a bit! I oblige and spread my legs a bit, as I lean forward to start on the right side of your face. Holding the razor from the top, aiming down, I go from your temple to your mouth, along your cheek. When I turn to rinse the blade again, with your thumb from your right hand, you reach my pussy lips, and run them up and down the outer folds of my pussy…Inserting your thumb, near my clit, makes me let out a surprised sigh, as I turn back to you to continue. This next sweep is from your temple along your jaw line, to the center of your chin.
Again, I rinse the blade. Now you have both your thumbs, opening my soft, thick pussy lips. Aching for a taste, you are getting impatient, starting to think this wasn’t such a good idea. I’ve never done this before, and I’m taking too long!
I need to get your upper lip, I say. You motion your upper lip down, so I can easily access the area. I make a few sweeps down from your nose to your upper lip.
You haven’t moved your hands from my thighs, your thumbs from between my already warm, wet slit…You wait for me to rinse the blade, and now plunge in your two main fingers of your right hand. Again, I wince, as I rinse the blade.
Now you’re going to have to stop…I say, I am going to have to finish up, with your neck!! Don’t want to surprise me, don’t want the blade to slip in my hand, as I work on your neck!, I warn you.
Again I start on the right. - You hold your fingers still inside my warm wet pussy. - I move from the base of your neck moving up to your jaw. As I turn to rinse, you start to rub your fingers along the length of my pussy….You fingers barely penetrating my pussy, moving along the glistening pink inner folds up to my clit, where you rub harder in circular motions. I’m moaning now, as I rinse off the blade….and so are you by now.
As I lean forward to start again, my robe opened up even more just from moving, the tie around the waste loosening…You see the cleavage of my large firm breasts, just inches from your face…This time you don’t wait for me - almost oblivious to what I’m doing, trying to finish your Shave! – with your other hand, you caress and rub your hand along my cleavage….’MMmmm….better be careful, baby!’ I say. As I make the second sweep up your neck.
Again, rinsing the blade…I get your hand creeping underneath the robe, to cup one of my breasts, squeezing, and….my fave part…your fingers meeting at my already hard nipples, pinching them.
You’ve had a raging hard on for awhile now…I can see it through your boxer briefs….’Think you need to let him out, give him SOME relief!’ I say, winking at you. You pull down your chonies, just below your luscious balls, your long hard cock, standing at full attention!
I lean forward and almost gets the center part of your neck. Have to start the other side now. You’re getting bolder now…Again holding the blade facing down, I run the razor along the other end of your neck from the base of your neck to below the ear….While you untie the sash around my waist, opening the robe, getting a lovely glimpse of my nekkid body!
I see you licking your lips, as I rinse the blade again. You completely open the robe, taking it all in. You caress my sides up to my breasts again and take one in each hand. You’re cold, you say, as you caress my body more, from my hips down my tummy to my thighs, again caressing my thighs.
‘Almost done,’ I say. Then I run the blade a second time on this side, now trying to move faster, but be careful at the same time! Staring at my still damp cool naked body in the robe, you start to stroke your cock. I go in for the last stroke, at the center of your neck, up to your chin. Rinse again. Then run the razor along your chin from your bottom lip to your jaw line. Rinse.
Now you’re just too impatient, your grab my hips and pull me towards you as your try to get a mouthful of pussy!...WAIT!! I say, before you get a taste on your tongue…Not done! I say, as you groan. I use the warmed towel to wipe away any remaining soap.
The second I’m done, you lean in and plunge your tongue in my hot wet pink slit. You start playing with my clit, teasing and pleasing with your tongue…as I lean back more, my back arching as my shoulders are now against the bathroom mirror!...MMmmm….This isn’t enough for both of us anymore. I want to spread wide for you, and you’ve been aching to eat me out and fuck me, practically since we started!!
You can’t wait anymore either, pull your boxer briefs completely off and let them drop to your ankles, as you stand up, aching and ready to fuck me!....You prop my ass up on the edge of the sink. You hesitate a moment, knowing I want it as much as you do…Teasing Me! You finger me again, plunging three fingers inside my hot, wet, tight cunt this time, “MMmmm, you’ve got the slickest, sweetest pussy, Baby!!”
“OOooohhhh, Fuck Me, Albo!!!!!” I say, and that’s all it takes to set you over the edge. You part my lips with your fingers, holding the base of your cock with your other hand, you shove your cock in hard and deep. I take a deep breath in, sighing with pleasure, feeling your big, long, hard cock penetrate my soft, wet pussy!!
You’ve got me SO Wet already, you easily slide and glide your cock in and out of me, making me sigh and moan, spreading my legs wider for you, to take in that long hard cock of Yours!!
My ass at the edge of the sink, my shoulders and head against the mirror, your squeezing and playing with my tits, as you pound my pussy good and hard, concentrating more on getting yourself off at this time, using my hot wet tight cunt as your favorite Fuck Toy!!
You see I’m ready to cum, but you Don’t Let Me!!...Teasing me once again, for making you wait so long!! You pull your long, hard, and now, glistening wet cock from inside me….”Ooohhh, AAAALLBBOOOO!!!! Don’t stop!” I beg!!
“On your knees and suck my cock, you little ‘slut,’ “ I don’t hesitate and move from the sink to my knees, take your cock in my mouth and start licking and sucking. Again, punishing your naughty girl!!...You don’t give me what you know my soft sweet lips and tongue are hungry for…that hot creamy cum of yours that I love to eat and Swallow It ALL Up!!
So, you grab a handful of my hair, and pull me up. Tear the robe off of me. “Get in the shower, my naughty, dirty little slut!!!” you command….In the shower, you bend me over, my hands support me on the seat in the shower, I bend over willingly, open my legs wide for you Baby!!...You spank me and spank me….Then you open my ass cheeks up, rubbing your thumb along my asshole….Then bump up the tip of your cock against my tight little asshole…First you inch the tip in, still spanking me, “You like that, my little slut puppy!??...Want my cock? Want me to fuck your tight little ass??”
“YES, AAALBOOO!!!! I scream, as you shove the rest of your cock inside me!! You continue spanking me as you pound away at my ass., while you finger my clit with your other hand!! You don’t even have to hold my hips at this point, as I am pushing back hard onto that big, luscious cock of yours, Baby!! “Ooohhhh, YEAH!! You moan, as you cum in my ass, shooting that hot warm, creamy cum inside of me!!
Then you grab my hair and pull me up again…You give me a long, sloppy-wet, sensual kiss…..Then you drop to your knees, and bury your face between my legs. I can feel your soft, smooth, clean-shaven face against my pussy lips, against my inner thighs. As you voraciously devour my pussy, making me cum over and over again now. (AND I realize, We Are Just Getting Started!! We haven’t even left the bathroom yet, and the night is still young!!)
…And I remember for a brief second that It All Started, with a Simple Shave!! ;)
