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Hetero Male Submissive, 29,  Draper, Utah
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fayted1 - submissive

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So i just learned that this site still existed and that my old profile was somehow still intact. Really not sure what Ill find here but i guess its worth a shot, though probably mostly for conversation. Im open to whatever happens if theres a connection but Im not actively seeking anything specific at the moment. I havent been involved in this lifestyle in a few years what with college being the dominating force in my life for so long so Im just getting accustomed to living at a normal pace again. Cool thing is now I can travel for fun so thats been nice, and oddly therapeutic. Basically Im pretty content with life right now, but always open to change and new experiences.

Feel free to message me if you would like to talk ) I enjoy speaking with other people on here about pretty much anything. Its nice to just get to know people before committing to something anyhow, and either way new friends are always nice to have.












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 Submissive Male



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 145 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:







 Body Worship



 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training



 Speech Restrictions


 Horror Movies

 Web Surfing




 Goth Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Rock Music



 Art Galleries


 Flea Markets


 Anal Play

 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fire Play

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service


 Knife Play

 Mental Bondage


 Needle Play


 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Wax play


 Comedy Shows

 Puzzle Games






 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Industrial Music


 Genital Punishment

 Curious About:






 Orgasm Denial

 Plastic Wrap



 Alternative Medicine






 Renaissance Faires



 Role Playing

 Hard Limits:


 Electrical Play

 EMO Music

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Journal Entries:
3/16/2013 6:56:19 PM
So if anyone could message me with gift ideas for a potential owner I would greatly appreciate it. A friend of mine I have known for a while (in that way) took me out for sushi today and bought me some high priced candy as well and the whole day I was pretty much her accompanying pet. So as a thank you/sign of submissive affection/friendly notion w/e I would like to get her something (still on a college budget) nice. Any ideas/suggestions would be well appreciated :)

10/14/2012 10:48:57 PM

Ok, future reference. don't proposition me and then proceed to tell me that I need to prove MYSELF, by giving you money no less. What a fucking crock of shit. I don't know you, why would i think you deserve shit from me? Oh here's a concept that works, i meet someone online, never talk to them verbally, give them money and we all live happily ever after while everyone blows rainbows and sunshine out there asses? Fuck that! So fucking sick of people on here

10/8/2012 8:18:00 PM

WARNING!! PLEASE READ THIS POST!! Fake Profile Alert on here. their name is Bucksdomme4u, otherwise further known as goddess kathrina. i believe this person was once also known as goddesssophy05 or something. this person will attempt to get potentials to create a profile on for a nominal fee. there is another profile on here called candyfoot4u, this person's profile also warns people of this person and it was my extreme pleasure to send a link of this profile to "goddess" kathrina hahaha i could tell she was pissed off when i did this. so happy to finally track this person down again and call them out once again lol

9/23/2012 12:07:24 PM
So as of late I've really been wondering, just what compels a former owner/mistress to be so rude and mean toward a former sub/slave. No horrific "breakup "(I ended it with her by returning my collar to her because she has major commitment issues), and an agreement to remain friends. We've been apart for over 6 months now and only see one another at work now and I'm constantly getting insulted or receiving rude remarks or something of the like while she's always happy nice to everyone else. I want so bad just tell tell her to go fuck herself when she does this but refuse to because I feel its important to maintain a certain level of respect for my former owners no matter what happens due to the nature of that type of relationship. however, whenever Im obviously having a bad day she's still there to give me a hug and comfort me. Can anyone give me some insight as to why this may be happening?

9/19/2012 4:11:53 PM

so i came across someone's profile on here, who's name unfortunately escapes me as i would love to publicly credit them for such down to earth insights. but the first was the focus on cuckholdry (if i spelled that right), as in why not also focus on the intimacy between owner and the owned? this is such a close relationship between two people and i can say for certain that physical intimacy between these two people is nothing short of amazing and very fulfilling. second is the concept of tribute. forcing one to tribute or give gifts invalidates the purpose to begin with. with my former owner, i made it a point to get her a gift, even something tiny, just to make her happy and show her i was always thinking about her. And really, who wouldn't value such a willing token of affection from their sub/slave? think that's all, but still it's great to see that some people can think deeper than the masses on here :)

8/8/2012 2:19:10 AM
Other people are such disappointments, for the last year everyone I've.been involved with has either turned out to be a head case or an idiot, in either case I'm the only one putting in any effort. I mean really, why would you try so hard to get someone only to ignore them? Just call me jaded, or pissed off I guess its the same thing.

5/1/2012 3:17:57 PM

everything thats happened recently...its all so hard to take. my mind is in such a dark place right now....just wish i could find one ideal situation in my life

4/19/2012 9:14:19 AM

so yesterday i was sent a chat request by someone, this perosn also added me to their favorites, wont say who cuz who really cares?. the chat didn't work on my computer so i sent her a message to ask what was up and everything has been completely i in the wrong to be just a little confused about this? i really don't understand some people on here

5/20/2011 8:32:50 PM
Fucking insomnia, anyone feel like talking? I'll probably be on every several times tonight

5/8/2011 8:20:45 AM
So i wake up today and check my profile and i have 30 new profile views? My god what happened overnight? Lol, that'll make a person's day :) And my god, the hits just keep coming. What the hell is going on today? Is collarme being invaded by bots or is this all legitimate?

5/2/2011 3:44:14 PM
Its weird how wearing a collar makes you feel, i tried wearing one with my mormal attire today everywhere i went and in addition to remembering being sub to several other people i somehow felt more confident and daring, not sure how that works but still quite fun

4/28/2011 12:38:12 PM
So i finally uploaded a primary pic again. Oddly enough since i did ive been getting more views and even two admirers on here. Not gonna lie, it lifted my spirits since i have somewhat low self esteem. I took my old pic down since it wasnt drawing in the desired crowd...sorry guys but im straight (i may still re upload it as an additional photo soon). But still, thank you to all the men and women who messaged me to tell me you thought i was a cute little sub, it did make me feel very special

4/18/2011 5:19:41 PM
Not sure if mistress kat is still on here but if you read this im very sorry that things didnt work with us, i know it was several years ago but i just didnt feel it could work bu still thought the world of you. Will always remember you and the short time we talked. May love and happiness find you in life

6/1/2010 2:46:54 PM
as of late i have strongly been desiring a play partner to practice with, there can be no sex involved as i have a girlfriend. its been a long time since i've had a play partner and i really miss the bond that can form between two people that way.  my preference is for a female that is not younger than i am and i will consider couples if we mesh properly as i have in the past, and preferably in the wisconsin area. if you might be interested, please feel free to contact me!
much love to all

1/28/2009 4:11:22 AM
my yahoo is currently undergoing some problems, mainly fucking up my computer and since my net access is getting weird i might not be here as much but i'll still try

6/10/2008 5:50:49 PM
so i'd really like to meet some people from my area in addition to everyone else of course, in an effort to get to know people better and possibly get some better insight on this sort of lifestyle. i can already say with certanty that i know more about this than most other people my age seeing as how everyone just seems to think its about improving there sex life. but the fact remains that i need to get a better understanding as to how different people apply this to their daily lives

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