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my philosophy.... I'm not gonna yell or scream or ever get angry, i believe in quiet caring dominance. i believe that a sub will follow a master that is her best friend and one that she loves a lot quicker than one that she fears. I believe that D/s is a means for growth, the sub follows rules and obeys because that is what master feels will help her learn best. Some people think that it is all about the Dom and his happiness, what they fail to realize is that the Dom is 100% responsible for the happiness of his sub, and that is the key to D/s. the Master/Dom may think he is in complete control, and if he wanted to be an ass then he could be, but in reality he is in control only as long as he is doing right by his sub. While somethings may be painful, and some things may feel like the sub is being forced, it is always for her to learn, to grow, to mature, and to reach her full potential. A real master knows that guidance, loving, and caring are the key to D/s.
over the time i have learned exactly what i want and i have come to learn why i think D/s is important. I feel that i serve to teach and guide the sub, to push her boundaries on what she is comfortable with and to teach her to handle any situation which may arise. I feel it is important to make the decisions for her; to keep her from anguish, pain, suffering, fear, and worry. That is why she seeks a dom!
I will put her in a position to learn her own lessons, i direct, i don't spoon feed. I believe a sub needs to submit unconditionally and trust that her dom will do what is always in her best interest even if she doesn't know it
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