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At this point, we are probably only interested in meeting like-minded couples who share a variety of conventional interests (but where the possibilty of bdsm adventure lurks).


11/22/2008 8:59:23 AM
Things have livened up a little with a few of the messages and that's the good news.  Some very interesting stories have been told.  However, it is now Thanksgiving and I'll be offline for the week.  Hope your holiday is interesting and/or enjoyable.
11/11/2008 4:56:37 PM
I'm partly losing interest here. . . 
I already have a most-of-the-time, mostly submissive boyfriend. I'm not looking for an exclusive or intimate relationship.  But, let me know if you are interested in the local DC theatre scene and  in quality "indie" and foreign films.  Let me know if you are genuinely submissive, if you can accept being second or third fiddle, if you are passably good "vanilla" company, and if you realize that occasional punishment and humiliation is all that Fanny contemplates--though she's very willing in that area and very creative, you have to be worth the effort.    Hugs,
Fanny
11/8/2008 8:14:21 AM
I'm getting close to picking my next victim.  I will take a picture as a trophy.  Another red bottom under my belt.  Men are such silly obsessive darlings! 
The likely winner of Fanny's red-bottom prize may not be the prettiest boy on collarme.  It may just be a safe, comfortable old gentleman with a humble spirit.  We shall see.
11/3/2008 8:36:28 PM
Another way to spend an evening and a  thing I like to do -- receive a massage from a man or men with strong arms and coordination so subtle I can't tell who's hands are on me if I keep my eyes shut.

I have trained one.

Ok, truth to tell, it was his offer to learn that got it started.  I gladly accepted the role of his model while he was a-learning from a master.  Full body strokes front and back, facial relaxation, toe, finger and arm pulling--they are all great services.  Being a model while the teacher and student earnestly work on your full body is an amazing evening.  Sometimes there is the frisson of fear when I don't know if the edging up to pain is under their control.  After all they are simply bigger and stronger than me physically.   But I pride myself on never admitting to pain being unendurable in the moment.  Whimper?  Not me.  I live for when the pain crests and all is warm and fluid afterwards.  That experience curve is the reward, and the source of strength for the future.  I like to find ways to test myself and grow stronger mentally.

(Of course, a nightcap of sushi and single malt scotch in a jumpy bar afterwards  lead me to blissful dreams.)
11/3/2008 7:51:56 AM
I love movies on weekday nights.  Especially I like sitting in a dark room at the end of a work day with lots of generally quiet people and a glass of cheap wine.  Even Noah's Arc was a fun evening.  This one is squarely in the genre of wedding porn.  No doubt about it.  Adding to my enjoyment was the added twist of audience composition.  I love to scan the audience and make up small scenes to explain their stray comments that I overhear.  This night I was able to see not just a movie but also be an essentially invisible viewer of a black audience viewing a black movie.  Adding to the humor of the night was that Rachel's Getting Married (more traditional wedding porn that I saw earlier in the week) played in the adjoining theater. The films finished simultaneously.  As the two groups poured out of their separate but equal rooms, and "mingled" in the hall, I thought this is an amazing sociological event in so many ways.  And so 2 mediocre movies made for a fascinating evening.  You just never can tell where enjoyment springs from.
11/2/2008 9:47:29 AM
Tell me about the movies and plays that you've recently enjoyed.  I think I'd rather beat a smart sub.   
11/1/2008 2:04:54 PM
I think I would also look favorably on sub who already had a domme who could be my girlfriend!  :)
11/1/2008 10:54:17 AM
Please note that your punishment would take place in the presence or proximity of another male.  He might or might not also spank you.  He is a part-time switch friend.

At this time, I probably only want to engage in casual spankings - no full-time relationship or exclusive relationship.

We would probably meet at a neutral location for dinner or a drink.

There would be no sex.  I want to punish you, not share your STDs.
10/28/2008 7:50:43 PM
OK got some good toilet pix.  Thanks to all who submitted.

Now I want to know who has seen Filth and Wisdom and what you think.  Hint--I found it exhilarating.  What about The Unknown Woman? Hint --great film.  Really, though, I want to know what you think . really
10/25/2008 10:02:29 AM
I'd like you to send me a good human-toilet photograph.
Will you do that for me? No one yet has produced such a picture.
maitressbi
 
 Age: 24
 Seattle, Washington