Collarspace.com

fangedwolf

Friends:
Redoubt

I am a 29 year old submissive living in Edinburgh, looking for a Master in my life whom I can love, trust and depend upon in return for my surrender to his will. I am a quiet, trustworthy and thoughtful sub that enjoys pleasing and helping others, and believe I have a lot to offer a Master who is looking for a loyal partner.

I have had some experience in bondage, anal play, cocksucking, hypnotism and general submission. Beyond bedroom play, I enjoy the quiet times when I can sit at my Master's feet while he watches television, the feel of his fingers running through my hair, or talking about any subject that interests him.

There are also some limits that I will not go to, such as scat, a lot of pain or any blood. I would also put tickling and humiliation in my limits, as tickling makes my muscles cease up which inhibits or stops the ability to breathe, and humiliation because I have spent a lot of time building some self-confidence, and to lose that would not be healthy. I would also expect a partner to practice risk aware consensual kink.

Overall, I am hoping to find a partnership that allows me to express and explore my submissive side with an open minded man who will encourage my development and understanding of myself and my talents, and how to improve those to better please him and ultimately our relationship together.

If you think that I sound like the sort of person you would like to get to know better, I would be very pleased to hear from you.

People just interested in sex, intolerant or narrow minded need not bother.

5 traits I would look for in a partner:
Trustworthy
Charismatic
Passionate about what he believes in
Responsible
Caring

3 major turnoffs in a partner:
Fanaticsm
Lack of cleanliness
Lack of control in general

Update: It has been a while since I regularly checked this site. I have not been really looking for a Master or partner for a while now for personal reasons, and so my use of this site is likely to be limited. I apologise if there is a delay in response for this reason.

3/3/2008 2:36:44 PM
Entry 1 - 2nd March 2008

Its been a while since I was on the 'scene' of actively searching for a Master/Top/Dom in BDSM terms, and it is daunting me a lot.

Iv been pleasantly surprised at the people I have met in chat rooms here compared to before, where I found many people to be far less open and willing to chat than they are now with someone not already in their circle of friends.  I met a Master in the states, Redoubt, who is helping me to work out a better introduction to potential bdsm partners.  Iv got to have it done by thursday and its way more difficult to write than I had thought.  I am not my own best promoter.
badbadbad
 
 Age: 28
 SLC, Utah