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Female in search of lifelong ownership and control.

I have a few hard limits, but above all desire to please my future master.

I would love cages, strict bondage, chains, whips, control, isolation and much more.

Tell me about yourself, tell me what you desire, hopefully I can be what you need.

I do not drink, smoke, do drugs, I am disease free.

Please have ination on your profile

My mail is filtered, nobody older than 50 or younger than 30 will reach me. Since Im looking for long term, I hope to find someone old enough to know their stuff, but young enough to give us many years together.




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7/5/2017 12:57:22 AM
Come back from time to time to be flooded with messages from people who don't listen.  Considering giving up the search and just getting into a committed relationship with some really high quality sex toys. 

Okay, not giving up the search, but if I'm not around for months at a time it's because I got fed up with the site again. 

7/13/2015 6:53:40 AM
I'm going to help you guys out, here's some easy steps to get women/submissives to reply.  I'm putting these up because I've seen a lot of of guys complaining about the fakes on the site.  Now, I'm sure there are quite a few, but mostly people sign up for these sites because they genuinely want to find someone they'd work well with.  Even the dirtiest slave looking for complete dehumanization still needs to know that their future master is going to at least look out for their basic health and human needs ya know?  These are of course only guidelines, you don't have to follow them.  But if you're having trouble getting replies, maybe you should look this over. 

Consider these:

1.  Talk to them like people.  Before they are subs, or slaves, they are human beings.

2.  Get to know them a bit, don't lead with your kinks, I know it seems weird being a kink site, but trust me.  Get to know them a bit first.  They can see what you're into on your profile.  Once you get to know each other a bit, then you can start talking about kinks, meetings, commitments ect.  Remember if you're going to be a dom/master your sub/slave needs to trust you. 

3.  Don't demand a picture in the first few messages if they don't have them up.  Some people have been stalked, others, until they find their dom/master have to keep up the appearances of their vanilla life and can't put up pictures.  

4.  Try not to shit on them for not being into what you're into.  If your kinks don't match up, look for other people.  Shaming someone into doing things they're not comfortable with isn't going to make them like you more, it's going to make them block you. 

5.  Make sure to tell them about yourself, don't just demand they tell you things about them.  Trust is earned and being open about your own life can help to build trust, and a desire to meet.

6.  Fill out your fucking profile.  It's the easiest way for someone to get a sense about you.  Adding a single sentence doesn't count.  Be honest about what you want, and are looking for. 

7.  If you are talking about kinks, try to remember that your slave/submissives are human beings and still have human needs.  For example, long term confinement can lead to blood clots and death.  Constant covering in latex, rubber, or leather can cause sores and infections.  I cannot tell you how many messages I've gotten telling me about their desires that clearly show no understanding of human biology.   Subs/slaves looking for long term confinement, and latex, leather, ect they want these things but also understand they need to be able to get up and work out, move around to insure proper blood flow, and need to be able to take off whatever they're wearing and properly bathe.  We're not going to sign on with a sub/master that's going to put us in situations that will result in our deaths in a few weeks.  

8.  Stop sending messages that sound like you already own us.  Especially if we're looking for TPE.  Until we make a commitment, we are free people, and should be treated as such.  We are not items being ordered off a menu.  We're people looking for someone we can trust with our lives. 

9.  Don't disregard people's hard limits if they say they're subs.  Even if they're slaves, you should still have basic respect for them.  If you message someone saying you're going to ignore their hard limits they're not going to reply to you.

So many people are telling me how much they like this entry, if you feel this fits how you feel, feel free to copy/paste it to your own journal. 


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ladyceline
 
 Age: 31
 Miami, Florida