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No longer seeking. I'd like to thank everyone who took the time to send me a message.
I am single, mature, not well practiced in R/t BDSM. I think that as a submissive, I know myself rather well. I am too shy and have an annoying ability to react internally instead of expressing myself. Apparently, sometimes, I use my wit as a weapon (I disagree). I am intelligent, well-read and not as sure of myself as I should be. Not as self-motivated as I need to be.
I consider myself a lifestyle D/ser, as opposed to a BDSMer. This, to me, means that the core of my interest in this lifestyle is not the occasional endorphin high, but rather a relationship that encompasses all aspects of the life two people share in and out of the bedroom; so, I don’t have a list of BDSM activities that I’m craving to try. I will follow my Dominant’s desires in that. He will not be a ‘performance player’ who loves public play.
My desire is to be fully submitted to my Dominant (Yes, I know that sounds just like slavery, but I still prefer to identify myself as a submissive.) – deferent to his judgment, servile to his physical desires, nurturing to his spirit, his confidant, his touchstone, his best friend, supportive of his endeavors, lending my strength to his, yin to his yang.
My ideal Dominant is single, mature, experienced, firm, yet subtle. He is intelligent and sure of himself, but able to lose a debate without losing his Dominance. He can be sadistic, but is not a sadist. He is not the typical "paddle and play" Dominant, and may remember the days when D/s was a private experience. He follows a code of honor, and walks his own path; he is not into posturing. He has a sense of humor and a magnificent temper. . . . and is tall.
He takes the responsibility of owning a girl seriously. He appreciates her intelligence, uses it when necessary, and is not threatened by it. He allows her to nurture His spirit, as He nurtures her's. He is her best friend. He creates a haven for her where she is safe, challenged, and can flourish under his guidance.
P.S.
I'm not a dog (or crazy siamese) person. So, if you have a picture of you and your dog on your desk, we probably won't suit each other.
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