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I am Tess. I am 20 years old, living in Oregon and am looking to explore domination and submission. I am a feminist and I am submissive. I don't believe in the degradation of women or sexism (unless it is used in play). I want to find someone who considers me his equal and I see him as my equal also. I believe in respect and communication. I am very liberal, pro-choice and pro-gay marriage. I am not interested in you if you are not any of those things. I also abhor homophobia of any kind. This includes using the word "gay" or any form of it as an insult or a bad thing. I am a curvy girl. I wear a size 12 and I have boobs and a butt and a belly. I am pretty confident in my looks, I exercise and do yoga and am very bendy. I am not looking for a one night thing. I want to get to know a person before jumping into bed with them. Submission, to me, is about trust and sometimes it takes me awhile to trust a person. I am not willing to embark upon a 24/7 relationship. I tend to restrict my submission to the bedroom/sexual activities. I am: messy, loud, opinionated, artistic, creative, irrational, organized, a writer, an actor, someone who loves cats and old movies, a waitress. I am an old movie buff. This doesn't refer to movies in the seventies, I'm talking about old movies starting from the silents and working your way up. I read extensively, I am a college student and I study very hard and love to learn. My careers are very important to me and I dedicate a lot of time to them. I love school and I can be a total geek sometimes. This is my first foray into this world. I'm interested in meeting dominant men from 20-26.

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7/29/2007 4:38:42 PM
As of late, I've been getting some interesting e-mails mostly referring to my profile. Saying that I am being restrictive and idiotic for looking for someone who shares the same beliefs I do. Let me straighten this out: I have a ton of conservative friends. I love them to death. I debate with them. We have discussions and arguments about the state of the world. I like to think that they have opened up my mind and I theirs. However, there are things I will not budge on and that I will not have in my life. One of them is homophobia. I was partly raised by two gay men, I love them more than anything. I spend all my holidays with them and they are my family. Anyone who tells me that their love is wrong is, in my opinion, a friggin' idiot and not someone who I want clouding my life with their negativity. I am happy to talk to people who have different viewpoints as I do on many different subjects, but I really do believe that in order to have a lasting relationship, you and your partner must have the same morals. I'm not talking about all the same beliefs, because that would be boring, but the bone-deep, gut instinct stuff. The meter in your mind that knows right from wrong. Those things have to be aligned and on the same wave-length.

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Varixis
 
 Age: 22
 New york, New York