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Eyes4u32

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What *I* want from you and what *I* need
I want ... to watch you strip naked in front of me.
I want ... to run my hands through your hair and grasp it in my fist.
I want ... to see you kneel before me.
I want ... to bite your flesh and to have you bite mine back.
I want ... to have you taste the precum leaking from my cock.
I want ... to feel your nails claw at my back as I pound you.
I want ... to gag you with my cock.
I want ... to let hot wax drip all over your body.
I want ... to choke you.
I want ... to sting you with the cane and crop.
I want ... to whip you with the flogger.
I want ... to redden your ass with my hand.
I want ... to deny your orgasm.
I want ... to force you to cum when you think you can't do it anymore.
I want ... to fuck you deep and hard.
I want ... to be cherished for what I give.
I want ... to hear you are mine.
I want ... to do real bad things with you.
I need .............................. you to beg me.
Being Dominant/submissive is a state of mind. It is not a sex act, it is not a game, and it is not a role. It is a state of being and is totally asexual (neither male nor female) First and foremost, a Dominant is always a Gentleman or Lady. There is no excuse for being impolite or rude to others. Save this for the submissive that needs and requires this of their Dominant. Second, a Dominant must always be in control. Drugs, even alcohol, are mind and body controlling agents. They affect relationships and most importantly can affect a scene, therefore taking away the control the Dominant MUST have. Third, a Dominant is always honest. To lie is to show you cannot be trusted and a submissive must be able to trust you to respect you. Every submissive knows that not every Dominant is super experienced and will respect you much more if you tell the truth. Be honest with a submissive about your level of experience with others and the submissive. The submissive can even help you to gain experience and is really an enjoyable learning process. Tell the submissive up-front if you do not wish a monogamous relationship. Most submissives understand and even expect this in a Dominant. You may not get "that" submissive but you will not lose her/his respect. Fourth, a Dominant accepts responsibility for all his/her actions. Everyone makes mistakes. Do what is needed to make amends, and correct it. Accept and admit the fact that you messed up. To seek an excuse for something going wrong or hurting someone will cause you to lose respect. Fifth, a Dominant expects but does not demand respect. No Dominant demands strangers to call him/her Master/Mistress. Respect is earned over time. Demanding Master/Mistress on your name means nothing and is a word that when not earned is meaningless and makes you to others appear to be a petty childish fool. Those that know you and respect you will call you Master or Mistress when you earn it, not before. Remember, to other Dominants you are not Their Master/Mistress you are their equal do not DEMAND them too ever call You that. Sixth, a Dominant knows and understands the differences between needs, desires and wants. The submissive may want a 24/7 relationship with an understanding Dominant. The submissive may desire a short relationship with a crude rude person. The submissive may need a stable sharing marriage with children.

Duties of a DOM It is the duty of a Dominant to control his/her emotions. To punish a submissive in anger or to lash out to anyone is abusive. It is the duty of a Dominant to remember that submission is a gift. To misuse this gift is abusive. When the submissive is not free to take back the gift it is no longer a gift. It is the duty of a Dominant to watch over and protect all submissives. This does not mean to protect them from finding some other Dominant and to keep them for oneself. It is the duty of a Dominant to take only a submissive that will match him/her. A submissive that is not into whips should not belong to a Dominant that loves to whip submissives. It is the Duty of a Dominant to take only the amount of submissives the DOM can properly handle, control, love, comfort and care for. Do not keep a submissive hanging, giving false hopes. Free and release the submissive so the submissive can get along with finding the right Dominant. It is the duty of a Dominant to watch and monitor the scene carefully and to ensure the submissive is not being harmed either physically or emotionally. At any time the slightest thing can go wrong and the scene is ruined for the submissive and pleasure becomes actual pain. It is the duty of a Dominant after a scene to ensure the submissive is emotionally stable. During a scene the submissive is filled with hormones. Afterwards the body reduces them and may cause severe depression to the extent of being suicidal. The submissive must be made to understand the depression and or emotional release is normal and expected. Normal emotions will return in hours to a day. Anything longer is a sign of emotional instability in the submissive and must be corrected before doing another scene. (A Dominant can also experience this depression after a high from the scene.) Each reacts differently some stay high for weeks and when they come down seek the scene again to regain the high. This also can lead to problems such as longer, more intense and dangerous scenes, with unknown Dominants. It is the duty of a Dominant to know and understand what the needs, desires and wants of a submissive are. Failure to do so may harm the submissive emotionally and mentally.

Responsibilities of a DOM It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure an unowned submissive is guided to a Dominant that is suited to the submissive's wants, needs and desires. It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure the submissive knows what being abusive is. To insure this is to insure the submissive knows when to call it quits. It is the responsibility of a Dominant to ensure the submissive knows what the submissive's rights are. It is the responsibility of a Dominant to teach the submissive information about the Lifestyle. The best method is to teach the submissive how to acquire this information and where he/she can get it. An ignorant submissive can be an embarrassment to a Dominant. It is the responsibility of a Dominant to insure the submissive grows and develops under the Dominant's ownership, in both the lifestyle and the public life (i.e., job and family). Being submissive only means being a "doormat" when the submissive has made it clear that is what the submissive is looking for.

Dishonourable Acts For a Dominant to allow a submissive to be actually harmed in ANY way is dishonourable. For a Dominant to allow a submissive's rights to be violated is dishonourable. For a Dominant to play with and discard a submissive just for amusement is dishonourable (exception is a submissive that has declared this is the treatment they need). Unless the submissive has declared them selves to be unowned, another Dominant's interference in a relationship is dishonourable. To chase after or scene with Another's submissive without the other Dominant's permission and full knowledge is dishonourable. No Dominant can be expected to live up to the above 100% of the time, others will respect him/her for trying and the harder she/he tries the more respect all will have for the Dominant and his/hers.
Someone sent me this a few years ago and i though id would share it. please let me know if you liked it.

These are just some thoughts of mine on what a pet should do for it?s Master, I?ve been owned by my master for a long while now, and have never been happier. Though you may disagree with my ideas, or may not even feel you need my advice, here it is anyway? I simply feel the need to say it, and this is as good of a place as any.

1. A good pet should always go the extra mile, if he wants something done, do it well or even far better than he expected you too, the pleased look on his face should be enough reward for any pet. This goes for everything from chores he wishes you to do, to sexual acts. Every time master wishes you to please him, do it with all your conviction.

2. Learn to Desire his pleasure, learn to -enjoy- making his orgasm even if you?re getting no such treatment yourself. A truly amazing pet is the one that could get off simply by hearing his master moan with the pleasure she is giving him? but a good pet would never orgasm without his masters? expressed permission of course.

3. Absolutely no power, if you aren?t 100% certain you are allowed to do something, then ask master politely for permission to do it. he holds your leash, and expects that you wont do anything he doesn?t want you to do. Remember that if master doesn?t want you to do something, he has his reasons, and they are good enough for any pet.

4. Learn to enjoy a little pain? as we all make mistakes, sooner or later master will have need to punish you, but he will be more pleased if you take your punishment well rather than sobbing like a pansy. Often times handling a ?fun? punishment badly can earn a pet a night spent alone on the cold floor, untouched and ignored? which is far worse than any physical pain master would willingly inflict.

5. Be open to all kinds of experiences, this may be the second most important. Your master likely has diverse sexual desires that you shouldn?t hinder, don?t be afraid to try new things with him, or let him do anything he wants to you? after all, you belong to him; your body is his to use as he pleases. Remember that as a pet there is no such thing as taboo if it?s what master wants? if you find yourself shocked or appalled by any of your masters? desires? then perhaps you should -not- be a pet.

6. Make sure that in your mind, his needs are always first. It does not matter that you need something right now, if master asked you to do something else. Most masters will allow their pets plenty of free time, and other social interactions, jobs or school, which means that the pets needs are served thoroughly as well? but never mistake that as anything more than him being generous, not something to be abused, it?s part of his showing how much he loves you.

7. Have good control of yourself and great willpower, only very few masters would allow their pets to orgasm at their own leisure, and to most it would be a grievous insult to them to orgasm without their permission. You are his toy to tease and torment as he wants, for his own pleasure, and when you are a good pet?then he may allow you pleasure of your own beyond that gained simply from serving him.

8. Be open to sudden change? many evenings master may not want a pet? he may simply want his lover, his space, to act natural, a pet should be able to do it without question, after all, it?s still giving him what he needs, putting him first in a round about way.

9. Finally, Always, always make sure your master knows just how much you love him. He is very special, and needs to be reminded of that as much as possible, you are his loyal pet, and will never leave his side, never hurt him, never let him down. This is the most important part of being a pet, beyond all else, good or naughty? it?s the loving pet who is kept for eternity.

I met her online. We chatted a bit, and from that it seemed as if she was both intelligent and aware, but with a spark of adventure. She would make comments like "I'm adventurous", "willing to try new things", and "looking to explore." And her interest in pushing some of the boundaries more than caught my eye. So I took the theme to heart when I wrote her.

Her response was what I had hoped for. It was reserved, yet with a bit of naughtiness, curious more than anything. Hesitant and unsure, but willing ? and that is always the most attractive quality. She was like me, someone who wanted the freedom to explore new horizons without worrying about conventions or what friends would think. So we agreed on some rules. That we would be lovers and nothing more, that we would follow each others lead, and that the first no meant push just a bit further and the second no meant no.

We decided to meet for tea. When I arrived, it was at a French café in downtown. A place near her apartment - elegant, proper and quiet. And she was waiting just as she said she would. Dressed in a white blouse with a tailored skirt; her red hair falling loose over her shoulders. I asked if I could sit down with a wry grin across my face, knowing why we were there ? the stress from work, for the city, and form a desire to bring that passions we both so wanted. And we began our conversation. It was strange because we already knew more about each other than either of us cared to admit. And this was just a formality to which we both submitted.

"Myself? I run a small ad agency," I told her, "and was simply looking for a playmate, to open up both their worlds to new experiences. I laughed, knowing I love nothing more than to explore and to push the boundaries.

She told me about herself, and about her desires. I ensured she delved into all of them, telling me in a shy and somewhat shocked voice, worried about being overheard. I could tell she was aroused from it, from being pushed a bit. After sipping tea and finishing a small sandwich I suggested we wander back to her house. And we did.

It was a charming place, clean and nice with light streaming in from the windows. The furniture was meant for entertaining and followed the lines of simple sophistication. We entered. Quiet and unsure of what to do. I asked for a glass of wine. She smiled and went into her kitchen. And when she returned, I spoke.

"Why don't you open your blouse." It was more a request than a question and it shocked her a bit. She didn't smile or frown. She simply handed me the wine and began to unbutton.

When she was about to pull it from her skirt, I stopped her, "No. Leave it in." Her skin was beautiful and her breasts were held by an elegant and very white brassiere.

"Does it open in the front?" She nodded and unclasped it. And her breast almost fell out, freed of the constraint.

"Come here." I said. And she walked to me. I caressed her lips with my fingers, slipping one into her mouth and letting her feel the texture of my skin. My finger trailed down to her breasts, leaving a slight blur on her lipstick. The wet finger touched feather lightly on her nipple, feeling it's taughtness grow. I could see her breathing quicken as I rolled the nipple softly in my fingers.

I let go for a moment. "Take off your panties." Her hands went under her skirt and pulled on the lace. She bent over to pull them over her shoes, bending down, almost touching my own hardness.

"Now pull your skirt up, to above your thighs." I walked behind her and caressed her rear. Feeling her firm ass, moving a finger between the cleft of pale skin.

I looked to her. "How do you like being naughty? Hmmmmm? Have you ever touched your own ass? Or do you just prefer to watch someone else do it?" I never waited for her answer as my finger probed her opening. Not entering, just pressing. "Do you like that?"

She nodded a bit, nervously. I pulled my finger out and gave her a firm smack on the ass. She jumped just a bit,

"Yes," she blurted out.

"Yes what?" I teased.

"Yes, I like it."

"You like what?" I urged.

"I like your finger in my ass."

"Mmmmm, you are learning aren't you? You are a good slut, aren't you?"

She nodded. God, I could feel her wetness begin.

"Take off your skirt." I stepped back to watch as she unzipped the side and let it fall to the floor. Her shirt was held by just one button. Revealing her body, yet hiding the patch of soft hair.

"You really are beautiful, you know." She smiled just a bit.

"Tell me you know."

It was almost harder for her to admit her beauty than to stand naked in front of me. "Come on, tell me."

Her shoulders went back, her head came forward, "I'm beautiful."

She smiled, "I'm very beautiful." "And your sensual and sexy," I said.

I could tell she was getting into it. "I'm very sexy," she began. "And somewhat naughty. But I want to be even more. I want to be seductive and sensual and bad." And that was when I kissed her.

My hand went to her breast and squeezed. It moved to her crotch and caressed it. My hands were rough and hard and treated her so. I grabbed her hand and moved it to my crotch. And she grabbed at my cock through my pants. She held its length firmly and tried to pull it out. I pushed on her shoulders, telling her what I wanted by doing so.

She sank to her knees, throwing her hair over her shoulder and opening my belt. I watched her. Her eyes were intent on opening my pants. Again I stopped her. "First my shoes." She groaned, not wanting to stop her actions. But she complied. She removed my shoes and socks, almost hurling them off my feet, and then rushed back to pull my pants down. And when she enclosed my cock with her lips it was like nothing I had felt.

Her mouth was so wet and warm. Her tongue pushed against me and rolled me around in her mouth. Her fingers grasped at my ass and pulled me into her. She took me out of her mouth and held me and ran her mouth on the side of my penis. Her eyes broke their gaze for a moment and stared into mine before engulfing me again.

I let her go for a moment while removing my shirt and then raised her from the floor. I lifted her leg and raised her foot onto a chair, exposing her sex from beneath her shirt. I stroked my cock, feeling the remains of her saliva. Her own hand I placed beneath her shirt and started its motion. And I kissed her. Our tongues met and entwined as our lips separated and we stayed that way. Playing with ourselves, our only contact our tongues.

When my hand went beneath her, I only felt wetness. Wetter than I ever felt. I knew what would be next. I knelt beneath her and moved my tongue into her and explored all the folds and hidden areas of her sex. I could feel her body start to shake as I moved deeper. And then she exploded. It was like opening the valves of a faucet when she came. And I in no way wanted to stop. I kept moving and exploring until finally her hand came to my head. I could only barely hear her words, "Please?"

I pushed her onto the chair. One knee resting on its seat, her other leg firmly on the floor. One hand holding onto the ornate back of the chair, while the other grasped the arm for support. Her shirt was now open and draped off her back as I entered her. My own hands reaching around to feel that hard nub above her sex. My thrusts were hard and long. And my hand treated her clitoris in the same manner. And she met every thrust with equal energy.

My one remaining hand reached up for her hair, pulling her head back. Forcing her to arch her back even more and raise her hips. I moved her hand to our sex. Placing her fingers on my testicles. We were both moaning at this point. Talking dirty and screaming lewd directions of "harder, faster, just fuck me."

And when I came I pulled myself out of her to cum on her back. Watching the white streams of sex streak across her buttocks and hips. I placed myself back inside her and tried for a few more thrusts before pausing. I could tell she was smiling as I began to rub my fluids into her back. She twisted her head to watch me. Giving me the opportunity to move my fingers to her mouth.

She caressed my fingers with her tongue, taking my semen into her mouth. I then touched them to my lips. Tasting myself.

"I think I'm going to like this," was all she said. And we started again?..

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