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Male Dominant, 45, Orlando, Florida
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About explorer67
Oh boy, it's been a while since I have been on here. . . The more "real" you are with me, the more "real" I'm going to be able with you. (Real pics are on here too, you just have to "click" past the profile pic. :)).
Continued curiousity has brought me back! I like dominant and submisive women, but I am submissive for the most part. . .I have lots of fun fetishes. . :P .. .I definately have a "thing" for the Ebony Goddesses, thicker women with good muscle tone, and I'd have to say, I'm a leg man, more than a breast man :). I think being "controlled" during any "play" is something I enjoy, yet I think outside of "play". . .it's something I struggle with. . I'm not a huge fan of professional sessions, tribute, etc, but I'd be lying if I didn't tell you it has, and likely will happen again from time to time, but it's not what I'm "looking for". . I guess sometimes it seems to be a "gap-fill" for what I need. . or think I need. . LOL . . . I'll be candid on another point, I tend to be skeptical of profiles with a single picture. . . especially if that person then "demand" I send a picture.
One of the things I don't "love" about this is trying to figure out who's "real" and who is not. I understand the need for "privacy" from personal facts, but I find it a waste of my time and yours, if one presents themselves (in pictures) to be someone that person is not. All that said, if you're honest about it not being you upfront or you don't want to put a picture up, I can at least respect that. Looks do matter to me and are a PART of the turn on to liking the ideas of all this. May sound shallow and selfish, but hope you appreciate the honesty. I'm not "into" BBWs . . Thick and curvy yes, but I don't find that BBWs suit me.
If I "knew" exactly what I was looking for, I'd simply list it, but at the end of the day, it's likely to be a "wish list" that either may not be realistic, or I may not even really know.
It would appeal to me greatly to be contacted by women on here from any "space" that desired to make some connection. I would hope you find me respectful and interesting to talk to. While I am a sub, I can converse normally as well as in a submissive tone and state. Hope you can too! . .LOL
Let's talk and you can get to know more!
P.S. If you start your message out "Hey Slut" I will at least know that you read my entire profile. . :). |
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Why do I love all 31 flavors so much? :P |
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I read lots of profiles (mostly because, I have found women insist on it). Truth be told, it is helpful, short of my desire to simply comment about the pictures, and I rarely find that helps initiate a proper conversation.
Some points to consider from my perspective:
If you seek tribute, etc. be upfront, but not in a potential subs face. I rarely engage in tribute, but when I strike up he correct conversation I have been willing to do so, but here's the second thing. Try to make it easy on your potential customer and have several options. I notice PP is not as common as it used to be. (and yes, I understand tribute is simply a way of expressing appreciation for the time granted without agreement on how that time will be spent).
Trust me when I say, most subs that are willing to do this, are making their call to engage with a Domme online "in the moument" and it's likely if they have to go to the drug store to find the right payment form the chance will evaporate. (No real time would be different, that requires planning and more of an upfront investment for both).
I also noticed many Dommes seek "devoted" subs. (Trust me I understand why). I think that works in a "real" relationship. Most subs will have have hard time with that because they stuggle so much with what they are even doing half the time. My humble advise, don't add that pressure to you subs choice. He will return if he wants.
If you want customers make it easy on them to say yes to you demands. Maybe you can't give them much time, but don't "rape" there wallet (unless that's really what they want, lol). Sometimes I like the idea I was taken from no i won't pay to making a gift, but I never like the idea of it making me "broke" or feeling gee I wish I didn't spend that much (sorry, I'm just trying to be honest, in the hope of helping people with "marketing" and approach).
Of couruse, this is just one subs view, and reaction to much frustration I read about.
So fo me if I'm goint to tribute it will be modest amounts for modest time, and likely will not be "exclusive," but that does not mean I will not "return."
Again, just some thoughts to add in appraoches if anyone finds value.
I'm happy to work with anyone that's interested and try to "rewrite" if you would like. |
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Not totally sure how to approach a Dominant women I have found.. . . Pointers welcome and appreciated. |
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